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Colossians 4:5-6 Commentary

Colossians 4:5  Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders *, making the most of the opportunity. (NASB: Lockman)

Greek: En sophia peripateite (2PPAM) pros tous exo  ton kairon exagorazomenoi. (PMPMPN)
Amplified: Behave yourselves wisely [living prudently and with discretion] in your relations with those of the outside world (the non-Christians), making the very most of the time and seizing (buying up) the opportunity.  (Amplified Bible - Lockman)
NLT: Let your conversation be gracious and effective so that you will have the right answer for everyone.  (NLT - Tyndale House)
Phillips: Be wise in your behaviour towards non-Christians, and make the best possible use of your time.  (New Testament in Modern English)
Wuest: In wisdom be ordering your behavior towards those on the outside, buying up for yourselves the strategic, opportune time.  (
Wuest: Expanded Translation: Eerdmans)
Young's Literal: your word always in grace -- with salt being seasoned -- to know how it behoveth you to answer each one.

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CONDUCT YOURSELVES WITH WISDOM: en sophia peripateite (2PPAM): (Col 3:16; Ps 90:12; Matt 10:16; Ro 16:19; 1Cor 14:19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25; Eph 5:15, 16, 17; Jas 1:5; 3:13,17)

Conduct (4043) (peripateo [word study] from peri = about, around + pateo = walk, tread) (Used in Col 1:10; 2:6; 3:7; 4:5) means literally to go here and there in walking, to tread all around and most commonly in the NT is used figuratively meaning to conduct one's life ("the Christian walk"), to order one's behavior, to behave,  to make one's way, to make due use of opportunities, to live or pass one’s life (with a connotation of spending some time in a place). In Col 1:10 Paul had prayed that the saints at Colossae would

"walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God." (Col 1:10 -note)

Comment: Note the benefits of a worthy walk (of wise conduct) - (1) pleasing to God, (2) fruitful for God and (3) growth in the knowledge of God.

Peripateo - 95x in 88v - Matt 4:18; 9:5; 11:5; 14:25f, 29; 15:31; Mark 2:9; 5:42; 6:48f; 7:5; 8:24; 11:27; 12:38; 16:12; Luke 5:23; 7:22; 11:44; 20:46; 24:17; John 1:36; 5:8f, 11f; 6:19, 66; 7:1; 8:12; 10:23; 11:9f, 54; 12:35; 21:18; Acts 3:6, 8f, 12; 14:8, 10; 21:21; Rom 6:4; 8:4; 13:13; 14:15; 1 Cor 3:3; 7:17; 2 Cor 4:2; 5:7; 10:2f; 12:18; Gal 5:16; Eph 2:2, 10; 4:1, 17; 5:2, 8, 15; Phil 3:17f; Col 1:10; 2:6; 3:7; 4:5; 1 Thess 2:12; 4:1, 12; 2 Thess 3:6, 11; Heb 13:9; 1 Pet 5:8; 1 John 1:6f; 2:6, 11; 2 John 1:4, 6; 3 John 1:3f; Rev 2:1; 3:4; 9:20; 16:15; 21:24. NAS renders peripateo = behave(2), conduct ourselves(1), conduct yourselves(1), leading...life(1), leads...life(1), prowls around(1), so occupied(1), walk(50), walk about(1), walk around(2), walked(7), walking(21), walking around(1), walks(5).

Conduct is in the present tense (continual action) and imperative mood (command not a suggestion) which calls for believers to continually walk with wisdom. This is to be the habit of our new life in Christ and His life in us making it possible for us to "strive according to His power which mightily works within" us. In other words, Paul is not commanding us to do anything that God's power has not provided the potential for us to obey. Our part is to continually work out this salvation truth in fear and trembling.

Paul is writing here about the practical aspect of how we walk the talk. He explains how we are to "walk" before others, how we conduct ourselves. The old saying is true "People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care"! (Convicted? I am!)

S Lewis Johnson comments that

 

It is said that Lord Melbourne once remarked in Parliament, after divine principles were injected into the midst of a lively debate, “Things have come to a pretty pass when religion has to affect our daily lives.” I fear that this absurd attitude is more prevalent in the genuine Christian community than we realize or care to admit. We are quite often pious and reverent on the Lord’s Day, but what a different person we become on Monday morning—especially behind the wheel of our automobiles when we are just a little late for work and the traffic is heavy and slow-moving! It is remarkable how often the Word of God stresses the fact that there should be daily exercise in spiritual things on the part of the Christian...The Christian’s week, in a sense, ought to be a week of Sundays, because all of the days are His days." (Bibliotheca Sacra : A quarterly published by Dallas Theological Seminary. Dallas TX: Dallas Theological Seminary.


J Vernon McGee
adds the practical comment that

 

Walking is not a balloon ascension. A great many people think the Christian life is some great, overwhelming experience and you take off like a rocket going out into space. That’s not where you live the Christian life. Rather, it is in your home, in your office, in the schoolroom, on the street. The way you get around in this life is to walk. You are to walk in Christ. God grant that you and I might be joined to Him in our daily walk.  (McGee, J V: Thru the Bible Commentary:  Thomas Nelson or Logos) (Listen to his Mp3 - Colossians 4:5-6)


Ray Stedman
writes...

 

I like that figure because a walk, of course, merely consists of two simple steps, repeated over and over again. It is not a complicated thing. In the same way, the Christian life is a matter of taking two steps, one step after another. Then you are beginning to walk. Those two steps follow in this passage. Paul describes them as, "Put off the old man" (see Col 3:5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10) and "put on the new." (see specific attitudes and actions in Col 3:12-25 thru Col 4:1-6) Then repeat them. That is all. Keep walking through every day like that. That is how Scripture exhorts us to live." (True Human Potential)

With wisdom (en sophia) - More literally this is rendered "in wisdom" and this phrase is placed first in the Greek for emphasis. Literally "in wisdom conduct yourselves".

Wisdom (4678) (sophia [word study]) (6x in Colossians = Col 1:9, 28; 2:3, 23; 3:16; 4:5) is mental excellence in its highest and fullest sense and includes the ability to judge correctly and to follow the best course of action, based on knowledge and understanding. In simple terms Biblical wisdom can be defined as skill for living. Wisdom is being able to take what God has revealed to your heart and applying it in given situations in a practical way.

Wisdom is the ability to properly apply the knowledge (which God has already revealed to their heart in answer to Paul's prayer in Col 1:9-note) to each given situation. Biblical wisdom does not allow for separation between learning and living. The wisdom which Paul speaks of is not simply a head knowledge of deep spiritual truths. True spiritual wisdom must affect our daily life. Biblical wisdom is practical, not theoretical.

Sophia - 51x in 49v - Matt 11:19; 12:42; 13:54; Mark 6:2; Luke 2:40, 52; 7:35; 11:31, 49; 21:15; Acts 6:3, 10; 7:10, 22; Rom 11:33; 1 Cor 1:17, 19ff, 24, 30; 2:1, 4ff, 13; 3:19; 12:8; 2 Cor 1:12; Eph 1:8, 17; 3:10; Col 1:9, 28; 2:3, 23; 3:16; 4:5; Jas 1:5; 3:13, 15, 17; 2 Pet 3:15; Rev 5:12; 7:12; 13:18; 17:9. NAS = cleverness(1), learning(1), wisdom(49).

The aspect of wisdom in view is that which buys up every opportunity to lead a lost soul to the Lord. Thus the Colossian's walk in wisdom is to have in view their Christian witness.

S. Lewis Johnson quipped that

Often the only version of the Bible the world reads is that of the believer's life, and, if that is true, in the light of the weakness of the church's testimony today surely the world could use a revised version!

Warren Wiersbe reminds us that

Practical obedience means pleasing God, serving Him, and getting to know Him better. Any doctrine that isolates the believer from the needs of the world around him is not spiritual doctrine. Evangelist D. L. Moody often said, “Every Bible should be bound in shoe-leather." (Wiersbe, W: Bible Exposition Commentary. 1989. Victor or Logos)

Eadie writes that Colossians 4:5-6...

refer to the outer aspects of Christian conduct or such aspects of it as present themselves to the world. While they were to set their affections on things above, and mortify their “members which are upon the earth;” while they were to put off certain vices, and assume certain virtues, culminating in love; while they were to be exemplary in every social relation—as husbands and wives, parents and children, masters and servants; and while they were to be instant in prayer for themselves and for the apostle, all this ethical code referred to personal and mutual spiritual duties within the church. They must, however, in ordinary circumstances, come in contact with unbelieving heathenism around them. If they shrank entirely from such company, the inference of the apostle would be realized—“for then must ye needs go out of the world.” But they were not to go out of the world because it was bad, they were to remain in it for the purpose of making it better. And that their conduct might exercise such a beneficial influence they were thus enjoined" to conduct themselves in truth and communicate the truth to a world steeped in lies and bound tight in sin. (A Commentary on the Greek Text of Colossians - Online)

TOWARD OUTSIDERS: pros tous exô: (1Co 5:12,13; 1Th 4:12; 1Ti 3:7; 1Pet 3:1)

Toward (4314) (pros from pro = in front of) can express motion or direction and thus "to" or "toward".  Pros can convey the idea of nearness, of being or remaining near by or at.  Pros can refer to a position near another location or object, often with the implication of facing toward the object. It is as if our lives are place toward or before the lost, that they might observe and examine and determine whether there is a difference in the way we conduct ourselves.

APPLICATION: If you were put on trial for being a Christian, would there be enough "evidence" to convict you?

Outsiders (exo) means literally out (as being outside a door and so out of doors). Figuratively as in this verse, exo speaks of those not belonging to one's society and specifically non-believers or non-Christians. Literally Paul says "those outside" (tous exo) an expression which is equivalent to the rabbinical term denoting those who belong to another religious group and in the present context refers to those outside the church, those who are not regenerate or born again. The unsaved are outside the family of God, and God has assigned us the privilege to be His ambassadors to proclaim the gospel of the kingdom to them. Effective witness involves walking wisely, being alert to every opportunity, and being careful in what we say and how we say it  (1Pe 3:15-note).

Paul uses the same phrase toward outsiders (pros tous exo - literally toward those outside") in his letter to the Thessalonians writing that the believers should...

make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you; so that you may behave properly toward outsiders and not be in any need. (See notes 1Thessalonians 4:11; 4:12)

What a sad thing to be those outside, those who are “without”...without Christ, without hope, without peace, without forgiveness! (cp Ep 2:12-note) It is important that believers live wisely among the lost, for unsaved people are looking at our lives and trying to find things to criticize.

We are to first speak the gospel clearly with our lives, which may open a door for us to speak the gospel with our lips.

This story has often been told about Dr. Will H. Houghton, who pastored the Calvary Baptist Church in New York City and later served as president of Chicago’s Moody Bible Institute till his death in 1946. When Dr. Houghton became pastor of the Baptist Tabernacle in Atlanta, a man in that city hired a private detective to follow Dr. Houghton and report on his conduct. After a few weeks, the detective was able to report to the man that Dr. Houghton’s life matched his preaching. As a result, that man became a Christian.

MAKING THE MOST OF THE OPPORTUNITY: ton kairon exagorazomenoi (PMPMPN):

Making the most (1805) (exagorazo [word study] from ek = out or from. If something is in something else, then ek describes separating it in respect to place, time, source or origin +
agorazo [word study] = buy, acquire possessions or services in exchange for money with the result that whatever has been bought is the buyer's by  right of possession <> from agora = market place where things were exposed for sale,  a forum, a place in which the people assemble and where public trials were held)  means literally to buy out of (the preposition "ek" = out of) the market place. The idea is not just to redeem but to completely redeem.

Exagorazo is used 4 times in the NT (Gal 3:13; 4:5; Eph 5:16; Col 4:5) and is translated: making the most, 2; redeem, 1; redeemed

THE FIRST MEANING
OF EXAGORAZO

There are two basic uses of exagorazo in the NT, the first speaking of the believer's redemption from slavery to sin.

Paul uses exagorazo twice in Galatians with this meaning, writing that

Christ redeemed us (bought us out and out or fully from) from (ek = out of) the curse of the Law (which is death, the penalty for breaking the Law), having become a curse for (on behalf of ~ substitution) us-- for it is written, "CURSED IS EVERYONE WHO HANGS ON A TREE" (Gal 3:13)

The Welsh translation of this verse says that “Christ hath wholly purchased us from the curse of the law.” The Galatians imagined that Christ only half purchased them, and that they had to purchase the rest by their submission to circumcision and other Jewish rites and ceremonies. Hence their readiness to be led away by false teachers and to mix up Christianity and Judaism. Paul says in essence "No, you have been wholly purchased from the curse".

In the second similar use in of exagorazo in Galatians Paul explains that

when the fulness of the time came, God sent forth His Son, born of a woman, born under the Law, in order that He might redeem (exagorazo) those who were under the Law, that we might receive the adoption as sons. (Gal 4:4, 5)

Comment: Those who under the law are no better than slaves (cp Gal 4:1) will receive full and complete adoption as sons. It is worthy of noting that God's purpose in redemption is not just to rescue sinners from bondage to the power of Sin but to adopt them as His sons. Amazing grace indeed.

Long my imprisoned spirit lay
Fast bound in sin and nature’s night;
Thine eye diffused a quick’ning ray,
I woke, the dungeon flamed with light;
My chains fell off, my heart was free,
I rose, went forth and followed Thee.

And Can It Be That I Should Gain

Those who believe in Christ are bought out from their slavery to Sin, the payment price He paid being the only one high enough to redeem all of mankind, the

precious blood, as of a lamb unblemished and spotless, the blood of Christ (1Pe 1:19-note), context 1Pe 1:18).

Since Christ has purchased men out of the slave market of sin (sin caused us to be under the curse of the Law) by His own blood, believers now are His bondslaves and He has the right of possession. Paul using the root verb (agorazo) writes that believers "have been bought with a price (agorazo - a past completed transaction never to be repeated).

Therefore glorify God in your body." (1Cor 6:20-note)

Stated another way, the redeemed are never again to be put up for sale in the slave market.

The root verb from which exagorazo is derived (agorazo - word study) is used frequently in the Septuagint (LXX, Greek of the Hebrew OT) with the idea that such deliverance involves cost of some kind, effort, suffering, or loss to the one who effects the deliverance.

THE SECOND MEANING
OF EXAGORAZO

The second meaning of exagorazo is to "buy up" and is the meaning here in Colossians and the parallel passage in Ephesians. It means to to gain something, especially an advantage or opportunity. To make the most of.

Exagorazo is used to translate the Aramaic in Daniel 2:8  where Nebuchadnezzar saw through his seers trickery (to entice him to tell them the dream, upon which they would tell him the interpretation) and answered

“I know for certain that you are bargaining for time, inasmuch as you have seen that the command from me is firm." (Daniel 2:8)

The phrase "bargaining for time" is translated in the Greek with exagorazo and kairos (see below) just as in Colossians and Ephesians.

BDAG notes that

"the king’s oneiromancers (interpreters of dreams) face an hour of peril in which there are no options except to deliver what the monarch requests. The middle voice (ton kairon exagorazomenoi) in Col 4:5; Eph 5:16 appropriately expresses choice in perilous times" (Arndt, W., Danker, F. W., & Bauer, W. A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and Other Early Christian Literature)

Making the most of the opportunity means to take advantage of any opportunity that comes your way, and in the context of this section in Colossians refers to an opportunity to speak the gospel.

In Ephesians Paul exhorts the saints to

Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men, but as wise, making the most of  (exagorazo - buying up each opportunity) your time (kairos) because the days are evil. So then do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is." (Ep 5:15, 16, 17-see notes Ep 5:15; 16; 17)

MacArthur commenting on this verse writes that exagorazo

"has the basic meaning of buying, especially of buying back or buying out. It was used of buying a slave in order to set him free; thus the idea of redemption is implied in this verse. We are to redeem, buy up, all the time that we have and devote it to the Lord. The Greek is in the middle voice, indicating that we are to buy the time up for ourselves—for our own use but in the Lord’s service. (MacArthur, J: Ephesians. Chicago: Moody Press or Logos)

Hodge adds that (Eph 5:16) can be translated

"availing yourselves of the occasion,” i.e. improving every opportunity for good." (Hodge, C. Commentary on Ephesians)

In both (Eph 5:16) and here in (Col 4:5) Paul uses the middle voice which conveys a "reflexive" sense to the verb - the idea then is of buying up for oneself, of buying up the opportunity, the season, the space of time in which something is seasonable, and of turning each opportunity to the best advantage for oneself.

Thayer says that exagorazo as used in (Eph 5:16) and (Col 4:5) means to

"Buy up, buy up or out of for one's self and so to make wise and sacred use of every opportunity for doing good, so that zeal and well doing are as it were the purchase money by which we make the time our own."

The UBS Handbook Series adds that

"The readers are being told to seize and use every opportunity to carry on their Christian witness, because these are evil days, In some languages it is necessary to specify what is involved in every opportunity. Accordingly, it may be necessary to translate make good use of every opportunity you have as “every time you can do something good you should” or “you should use every chance to do good”. (The United Bible Societies' New Testament Handbook Series or Logos)

The idea then is turning each season (kairos) to the best advantage since none can be recalled if missed. 

Every time you can do something good you should.

Kenneth Wuest translates Col 4:5

"buying up for yourselves the strategic, opportune time."

He translates Eph 5:16 similarly as

buying up for yourselves the opportune time, because the days are pernicious.

The idea is to be habitually, continually ''buying up'' all that is anywhere to be bought and not allowing the moment (THE KAIROS) to pass by unheeded or unused but to make it one’s own. 

Ironside said...

Time is given us to use in view of eternity.

As someone else has said

Beware of wasting the present. Instead of killing time, redeem your spare moments today. Wasting the gift of time insults the Giver of time.

Redeem the time! God only knows
How soon our little life may close,
With all its pleasures and its woes,
Redeem the time!        
— Anonymous

God set a goal, yet gave the choice
To mortals how time may be spent,
Admonishing that worth, not length,
Values time's accomplishment.
— Mortenson

The idea is not to make best use of time as such (although that is certainly advisable), which is what we should do in the sense of not wasting it, but of taking advantage of the opportunities that present themselves. God is a God of providence and He providentially gives/allows opportunities for which we must be spiritually alert and ready to redeem.

THE OPPORTUNITY ("the opportune season"): ton kairon:  

Opportunity
(2540) (kairos [word study]) refers to a strategic point of time.  Kairos is distinct from the Greek chronos, which refers to time in general. Kairos on the other hand refers to a specific period of opportunity which when it passes by is irretrievable. Our English word opportunity comes from the Latin and means “toward the port.” It suggests a ship taking advantage of the wind and tide to arrive safely in the harbor. The brevity of life is a strong argument for making the best use of every opportunity God gives us.

Kairos then does not emphasize a point of time but rather a space of time filled with possibilities and opportunities. Paul tells the saints at Colossae and Ephesus to buy up every one of these opportunities for yourselves and ultimately for God's glory.

All believers are presented with opportunities to redeem. Paul exhorts us to go into the open market and buy up those opportunities by using them rightly. Remember that interruptions can be opportunities to serve.

As someone has accurately stated, the three most difficult things to do are : keep a secret, forget injury, and make good use of your leisure time (it's really not yours anyway but His...He's just "loaning" it to you.)

Many biblical texts stand as warning beacons to those who think they will always have time to do what they should. When Noah and his family entered the ark and shut the door, the opportunity for any other person to be saved from the flood was gone.

Because King Ahab disobeyed God by sparing the life of the wicked Ben–hadad, he was told by a prophet,

“Thus says the Lord, ‘Because you have let go out of your hand the man whom I had devoted to destruction, therefore your life shall go for his life, and your people for his people’ ” (1Ki 20:42).

Peter said,

If you address as Father the One who impartially judges according to each man’s work, conduct yourselves in fear during the time of your stay upon earth (1Pe 1:17-note). (This is a "kairos" opportunity we dare not miss!)

In his farewell remarks to the Ephesian elders at Miletus, Paul said,

I do not consider my life of any account as dear to myself, in order that I may finish my course, and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus” (Acts 20:24).

Paul’s course was prescribed by God, and within that course he would minister to the utmost until his last breath. He was determined to run with endurance the race that was set before him (He 12:1-note). At the end of his life he therefore could say,

I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith (2Ti 4:7-note).

APPLICATION: Your entire life should be built around looking for opportunities to present Christ, seizing the time and using it wisely. Evaluate all of your activities and determine how they affect your testimony for Christ. Ask yourself --

"Will any particular activity provide an opportunity to present Christ or will it make it more difficult for me to present Him?"

Grant Richison notes by way of application that...

 

Time means opportunity. The Greek word here means a time in which something is seasonable. Evangelism is seasonable! We need to seize on the season! God wants us to take advantage of the opportunity when it comes along. We cannot recall the opportunity if we miss it. Are we making the most of every opportunity? There is a favorable time to preach the gospel. We can mark time, waste time and kill time. Only a Christian who walks in wisdom can redeem time. In sharing our faith, God wants us to "Strike while the iron is hot" or "Make hay while the sun is shining." We squander so many opportunities. God places opportunities at our disposal but we waste the moment." (Notes on Col 4:5)


Ray Stedman
adds this interesting thought...

 

It is interesting how Paul describes the opportunities. They do not just fall into our laps, but we must buy them up. This means we must look for them and use them. We are to make opportunities, humanly speaking. Our opportunities are the result of the Spirit working, but it is the Spirit working as we are willing to be biblical. As we approach our neighbors, friends and people we work with on our jobs, are we looking for opportunities to present Christ to them? Such an approach will affect our conduct. We would not want to say or do anything that would detract from the Gospel of Jesus Christ." (Colossians 4:2-6: Living the Life)


Wayne Barber's
comments on Ephesian 5:16 (
from his sermon on Eph 5:15-17 "Walking as Light in a World of Darkness") are apropos to Colossians 4:5. He writes that...

"Look at verse 16: "making the most of your time, because the days are evil." Now the word for "time" is an interesting word. It is the word kairos. It means season or opportunity. Now we know something about a season. A season comes in, but we also know something else about a season. A season goes away. There is going to come a summer time. But we are going to move out of that season into a time of barrenness. All of a sudden the leaves fall off the trees and it is just brown and dry. A season begins but a season ends.

Paul is saying, "Make the most of your time. If the season started when we received Christ, it is going to end when He comes for us. We only have one season. We only have one opportunity. You don’t get those choices over again." Many of us have made unwise choices. Many of us have not applied truth in our life. Already we are feeling it because we are getting older. Paul is trying to tell these Ephesians, "You had better wake up and get going, because you may not have that much longer. You only have one shot at it. Learn to make proper, biblically influenced choices in your life so that you can make the most of the time."

Making the most of the time means to redeem the time. To redeem the time means to purchase it. That is one thing that we all have in common. Every one of us has exactly the same amount of time. You’ve got 24 hours, and what you do with it is your business. You’ve got to make choices. But now wait a minute. He says, "Redeem the time." What do you mean, "redeem the time"? Purchase it. To purchase it, I have to have the collateral.

Not only do you have to have the collateral, you have to have the right kind of collateral if you are going purchase anything. So what is the collateral to purchase time? It is my choices. We have to understand this. Life is filled with one choice after another choice after another choice. It is not putting the garment on in the morning and thinking it is going to stay on you all day. You have to continue all day long to make those choices. What are those choices motivated by? They are motivated by what the Word of God has taught us. They are motivated by our respect of who God is. Now to be the right choice it has to be a choice that honors Christ and what His Word has to say. That is the way I purchase time. I have only got one time around, and I have to learn to make proper choices. How many choices did you make yesterday?

We have to learn that time is short. We only have one season. We only go around one time. Make those choices. Why? Because every time you choose, you are going to do something. That is called a deed and one day we will answer for those deeds at the Bema Seat of Christ. Are they wood, hay and stubble? What is wood, hay and stubble? They are stupid, fleshly, religious choices. Sometimes they are not even religious. What are precious stones? They are choices that were made based on God’s Word and my willingness to do what He tells me to do. We are making those choices, moment by moment by moment.

Kefa Sempangi (whose story is told in the book A Distant Grief, Regal Books) was a national pastor in Africa and barely escaped with his family from brutal oppression and terror in his home country of Uganda. They made their way to Philadelphia, where a group of Christians began caring for them. One day his wife said, “Tomorrow I am going to go and buy some clothes for the children,” and immediately she and her husband broke into tears. Because of the constant threat of death under which they had so long lived, that was the first time in many years they had dared even speak the word tomorrow. Their terrifying experiences forced them to realize what is true of every person: there is no assurance of tomorrow. The only time we can be sure of having is what we have at the moment. To the self–satisfied farmer who had grandiose plans to build bigger and better barns to store his crops, the Lord said, “You fool! This very night your soul is required of you” (Lk 12:20). He had already lived his last tomorrow.

There is a tide in the affairs of men,
Which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune;
Omitted, all the voyage of their life
Is bound in shallows and in miseries.
             Julius Caesar, 4.3.217 --Shakespeare

Napoleon illustrates the idea inherent in "kairos" (opportunity) noting that

"There is in the midst of every great battle a ten to fifteen minute (this would equate with the idea inherent in the Greek word kairos) that is the crucial point. Take that period and you win the battle; lose it and you will be defeated."

Charles E. Hummel said...

Our greatest danger in life is in permitting the urgent things to crowd out the important.

The writer of Hebrews called these "urgent things" "encumbrances" or "weights" the Christian runner needs to cast aside, in order to be able to pursue the best.

The 16th-century reformer Philip Melanchthon kept a record of every wasted moment and took his list to God in confession at the end of each day. It is small wonder that God used him in such great ways.

An ancient Greek statue depicted a man with wings on his feet, a large lock of hair on the front of his head, and no hair at all on the back. Beneath was the inscription:

"Who made thee? Lysippus made me. What is thy name? My name is OPPORTUNITY. Why hast thou wings on thy feet? That I may fly away swiftly. Why hast thou a great forelock? That men may seize me when I come. Why art thou bald in back? That when I am gone by, none can lay hold of me."

We need to live in such a way that we get the most for our time. We are to live as if every minute counts— because it does. We can always make more money, but we cannot make more time. Once it is gone, it is gone forever. And when our time on this earth is over, we will give an account to the One who gave us our allotment of this precious commodity. The Lord Jesus was sensitive about time. He began His ministry at age thirty and ended it a mere three years later. His life was jammed with people with immediate needs. Sick. Dead. Scared. People pushed through crowds to touch Him. In Mark 1:35, 36, 37, before sunrise, Christ spent time with the Father. Peter and his friends “searched for Him. When they found Him, they said to Him, ‘Everyone is looking for You.’ ”In Matthew 14:23, He spent time with the Father in the evening. In Luke 6:12, 13, He spent the night in prayer. And in Luke 5:15, 16, we see that He slipped away into the wilderness to spend time with the Father. He had three short years to teach, preach, heal, and lead. But the most important thing in His life was the time He spent with the Father. If it was that important for Him, as the God-man, what about you?

Consider praying a pray like that uttered by Moses the friend and servant of God who said

So teach us to number our days, that we may present to Thee a heart of wisdom. (Ps 90:12) (See Spurgeon's note)

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Buying Up the Time - Consider this: “If we had to buy time, would there be any difference in how we would spend it? Would the days of our lives be used more wisely?” That’s what time management consultant Antonio Herrera asked the participants in a seminar he conducted on the subject. Then Dr. Herrera became more specific. He asked, “What if you had to pay in advance $100 an hour for the time allotted to you? Would you waste it?” The answer should be obvious. Of course, we can’t put a price tag on the minutes and hours we possess. They are given to us freely. But that doesn’t excuse us from using them conscientiously, carefully, and wisely. The giver of time is God Himself, and that places a far greater value upon it than any monetary figure could suggest. We must therefore use our time intelligently, taking advantage of opportunities it provides for us to serve the Lord and to do His will. - R W De Haan (Our Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved)

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If we live 65 years, we have about 600,000 hours at our disposal. Assuming we are 18 when we complete high school, we have 47 years, or nearly 412,000 hours to live after graduation.

If we spend 8 hours a day sleeping, 8 hours for personal, social, and recreational activities, and 8 hours for working, that amounts to 137,333 hours in each category When we think of the time we have to work and play in terms of hours, it doesn't seem like much. And when seen in the light of eternity, it's but a fleeting moment. How important, therefore, that we spend our waking hours wisely!

D. J. De Pree, a former member of the RBC Board of Directors always calculated his age in terms of days. If you asked him, "How old are you?" he answered immediately with the number of days.

He based this practice on Psalm 90:12,  "Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom."

Literally counting his days reminded him of the swift passage of time and the need to live with eternity's values in view. —R W De Haan

 

Future prospects bring present joys.

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Time: Handle With Care - Of course, we can't put a price tag on the minutes and hours we possess. They are given to us freely. But that doesn't excuse us from using them carefully and wisely. The giver of time is God Himself, and that places a far greater value on our time than any monetary figure could suggest. We must therefore take advantage of the opportunities time provides to serve the Lord and to do His will. This doesn't mean that we have to be working every single moment. It's necessary to take a break every so often, to stop and smell the roses along the way, or to enjoy the beauty of a sunset. We use our time wisely when we combine the appropriate "stops" with the proper "steps." According to Solomon, there is a time for all of God's purposes to be accomplished (Ecc 3:1). I'm so grateful that the Lord doesn't sell time. He provides it as a gift of His grace. So let's spend our days "redeeming the time," using the opportunities to live for God (Colossians 4:5). Yes, time is precious. Handle with care! To spend time wisely, invest it in eternity —R W De Haan (Our Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved)

We do not know how long we have
Till time for us is past,
So let us live as if this day
Is going to be our last. —D. De Haan

To spend time wisely, invest it in eternity

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BEE POLLEN AND THE GOSPEL
April 21, 1995

Nellie Pickard loves to tell people about Jesus Christ. She does it so often that she's written a series of books describing how she witnesses in everyday situations. In Just Say It! she tells about her phone call to a health-food store. She had noticed that bee pollen was on sale, so she asked the manager about the benefits of using it. "You'll live forever," he replied.

To Nellie, the words live forever were an open invitation. "I know you're joking," she said, "but I know I'm going to live forever, and not because I buy your bee pollen."

His response was encouraging. "I'd like to hear about it. I'm really interested in why you think you're going to live forever." Although he did not trust Jesus as Savior at that time, Nellie had planted the seed by being wise "toward those who are outside" (Col. 4:5).

Our opportunities are endless, yet our words are often powerless. Instead of directing our conversations with unbelievers toward
spiritual matters, we tend to stay in the safe zone. Doing as Nellie does is a skill we need to develop and a challenge that comes straight from God's Word.

We must look for those openings. With sincere kindness and genuine concern we can turn most conversations to eternal matters-even if the subject is bee pollen. -J D Branon (
Our Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved)

Take control of my words today,
May they tell of Your great love;
And may the story of Your grace
Turn some heart to You above.-Sees

The best place to witness is where God has placed you

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Author and lecturer John Erskine (1879–1951) declared that he learned the most valuable lesson of his life when he was 14 years old. His piano teacher asked him how much he practiced. He replied that he usually sat at the instrument for an hour or more at a time.

"Don't do that," warned the teacher. "When you grow up, time won't come to you in long stretches like that. Practice in minutes wherever you can find them—5 or 10 before school, a few after lunch. Sandwich them in between chores. Spread the practice throughout the day, and music will become a part of your life."

Erskine stated later that by following this advice he was able to live a fulfilled life as a creative writer, in addition to his regular duties as an instructor. He wrote nearly all of Helen of Troy, his most famous work, on streetcars while commuting between his home and the university.

Use your spare moments to read the Bible, or to pray, or to write a note of encouragement to a needy soul. —H G Bosch (
Our Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved)

Wasting time insults the Giver of time.

 

Colossians 4:6  Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person.  (NASB: Lockman)

Greek: o logos humon pantote en chariti, alati ertumenos, (RPPMSN) eidenai (RAN) pos dei (3SPAI) humas eni hekasto apokrinesthai. (PMN
Amplified: Let your speech at all times be gracious (pleasant and winsome), seasoned [as it were] with salt, [so that you may never be at a loss] to know how you ought to answer anyone [who puts a question to you].(Amplified Bible - Lockman)
NLT: Let your conversation be gracious and effective so that you will have the right answer for everyone. (
NLT - Tyndale House)
Phillips: Speak pleasantly to them, but never sentimentally, and learn to give a proper answer to every questioner. (
New Testament in Modern English)
Wuest: Your word, let it always be with graciousness, with salt thoroughly seasoned, to the end that you know how it is necessary in the nature of the case to answer everyone.  (
Wuest: Expanded Translation: Eerdmans)

LET YOUR SPEECH ALWAYS BE WITH GRACE: ho logos hume pantote en charit: (Col 3:16; Deut 6:6,7; 11:19; 1Chr 16:24; Ps 37:30,31; 40:9,10; 45:2; 66:16; Ps 71:15, 16, 17, 18,23,24; 78:3,4; 105:2; 119:13,46; Pr 10:21; 15:4,7; Pr 16:21, 22, 23, 24; 22:17,18; 25:11,12; Eccl 10:12; Mal 3:16, 17, 18; Matt 12:34,35; Lk 4:22; Ep 4:29)

Now Paul turns from the believer's walk to his talk.

Speech (3055) (lógos) (Click for an in depth word study of lógos) in context refers to the speech of a Christian which among others things should be sound (Titus 2:8-note), edifying (Ep 4:29-note), meaningful (Mt 12:36), quiet (1Th 4:11-note), truthful ("do not lie") (Col 3:8-note).

Above all live in God's Word and you will always have a word from God. C H Spurgeon wrote that your "spiritual blood" should be "Bibline" as was the great puritan writer John Bunyan (Pilgrim's Progress). Remember what comes out is related to what goes in -- G.I.G.O. (garbage in, garbage out or "God's word In, God's word Out").

Paul turns from the believer’s walk (Col 3:1ff-
note) to his talk. Our talk should match our walk and should be spiritual, winningly pure and apt.

Grace (5485) (charis) (Click word study of charis)

With grace is literally "in grace" (en chariti) and can mean gracious or charming, as in classical Greek. However in the context of Colossians and the NT as a whole, this phrase surely has a deeper sense. "Graciously spiritual" might capture the force and intent of Paul.

Brief Grace Excursus
From Grace to Grace

Believers are those who go "from grace to grace" (John 1:16), beginning by being saved by grace through faith (Ep 2:8, 9-see notes Ep 2:8; 9) and then continuing with sanctifying grace (Ro 5:17, 6:17-see notes Ro 5:17; 6:17), serving grace (1Pe 4:10-note), sacrificing grace (2 Cor 8:1-9), singing grace (Col 3:16-note), speaking grace (Col 4:6-note), strengthening grace (2Ti 2:1-note), and suffering grace (2Co 12:9-note).

Believers are aliens and strangers, not earth dwellers, and our citizenship not of this earthly kingdom but is in heaven, so it is reasonable to expect that our language or "accent" should give testimony to the kingdom (and King) to which we belong. Is there a better example of this than our Lord Jesus of Whom Luke wrote that

“all were speaking well of Him and wondering at the gracious words (charis logos = literally, words of grace) which were falling from His lips; and they were saying, "Is this not Joseph's son?" (Lk 4:22)

John records the testimony of those who heard Jesus speak, declaring that

"Never did a man speak the way this man speaks." (John 7:46)

Would it be true that others would say that about all believers as we leave a room or hang up the phone!

The wise person’s words are like silver (Pr 10:20), a tree of life (Pr 15:4), food (Pr 10:21), refreshing water (Pr 10:11; 18:4), and medicine (Pr 12:18).
 

SEASONED WITH SALT: ertumenos (RPPMSN)  halati êrtumenos: (Lev 2:13; 2Ki 2:20, 21, 22; Matt 5:13; Mk 9:50)

See exposition of "you are the salt of the earth" in Mt 5:13-note

Seasoned with salt - The ancient Romans, listening to one of their orators, would look at each other, smile, and say, “Cum grano salis” which means “Take it with a grain of salt.” But Christians are supposed to put the salt into their speech and keep their words pure and honest.

Seasoned (741) (artuo) means to fit, prepare, set in order, as used in Classical Greek. The idea is to prepare with seasoning or to season with salt. 

Jesus used this verb in his teaching that

"Salt is good; but if the salt becomes unsalty, with what will you make (artuo) it salty again? Have salt in yourselves, and be at peace with one another.” (Mk 9:50)

The perfect tense speaks of a past completely action with continuing effect. They were made ready and are still ready. It speaks of permanence of the effect. Not salty one day, and sweet and superfluous the next. 

S Lewis Johnson notes that the phrase...

 

"Seasoned with salt," is found in classical Greek in the sense of witty. If this is the apostle's meaning, believers are exhorted to season their speech with a dash of pungency. And one must grant that it is a sinful thing to bore those that are without with pious gospel platitudes. Something is radically wrong with the Christian church when it can talk interestingly and animatedly about everything-football, baseball, business, politics-but the Lord Jesus Christ. In Biblical thought, however, the word salt is often associated with resistance to corruption, or preservation of purity and retention of flavor (Mt 5:13; Mk 9:50). Furthermore, the parallel passage in Ep 4:29, in which Paul speaks of "corrupt speech," agrees with this sense. It is probable, then, that the apostle has in mind, not witty speech, but wholesome speech. It is that kind of language-wholesomely spiritual language-which is most likely to provide the most attractive apologetic for the Christian faith." (Bibliotheca Sacra: Volume 121: Issue 484, page 317, 1964)

Salt (217) (halas) refers to natural salt which purifies, cleanses, seasons, preserves from corruption

Salt retards rotting. Paul spoke of "rotten words" in Ephesians writing that believers are to...

Let no unwholesome (Greek = rotten) word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, that it may give grace to those who hear. (See note Ephesians 4:29)

The best way to make sure rotten words do not proceed from our mouth is to always be sure to season them with salt (Col. 4:6). Believers should never say, “Now take this with a grain of salt!” To the contrary we must put the “salt” into our speech by...

speaking the truth in love... (by) laying aside falsehood, (by speaking) truth each one with his neighbor (Ep 4:15, 25-See notes Ep 4:15, Ep 4:25)

Notice also that in both Ep 4:29-note and Colossians 4:6 there is an emphasis on grace. Our words have power, either for good or evil. Paul tells us to speak in such a way that what we say will build up and not tear down. Our words should minister grace and thereby draw others toward Christ. The devil (dia = between + ballo = throw - throws between, seeks to cause division) encourages speech that will tear people down and destroy the work of Christ. Read James 3 for a reminder of the tremendous power of an unsalted, graceless tongue!

Every believer should seek to imitate the gracious words of our Lord, upon Whose lips God’s grace was poured, the psalmist recording that...

Thou art fairer than the sons of men (this supremely speaks of Christ). Grace is poured upon Thy lips. Therefore God has blessed Thee forever. (Ps 45:2)

Spurgeon's comment - Grace is poured into Thy lips. Beauty and eloquence make a man majestic when they are united; they both dwell in perfection in the all fair, all eloquent Lord Jesus. Grace of person and grace of speech reach their highest point in Him. Grace has in the most copious manner been poured upon Christ, for it pleased the Father that in Him should all fulness dwell, and now grace is in superabundance, poured forth from His lips to cheer and enrich His people. The testimony, the promises, the invitations, the consolations of our King pour forth from Him in such volumes of meaning that we cannot but contrast those cataracts of grace with the speech of Moses which did but drop as the rain, and distil as the dew. Whoever in personal communion with the Well Beloved has listened to His voice will feel that "never man spake like this Man." Well did the bride say of Him, "his lips are like lilies dropping sweet smelling myrrh." One word from Himself dissolved the heart of Saul of Tarsus, and turned him into an apostle, another word raised up John the Divine when fainting in the Isle of Patmos. Oftentimes a sentence from His lips has turned our own midnight into morning, our winter into spring.

Practically speaking, how can a believer "tap into" this God's reservoir of Grace? If we obey God's command to continually let the word of Christ dwell in us richly (see note Colossians 3:16), His indwelling words of grace will serve to season our speech and these gracious words will not lack God's salt. Remember that grace in your heart means grace on your lips...

For the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart. (Mt 12:34)

Christians are to speaking heaven’s language which not only involves what we say, but also the way we say it. The spiritually minded Christian doesn’t go around quoting Bible verses all day! But he is careful to speak in a manner that glorifies God.

Remember that corruption from your lips means that there is corruption in your heart.

What has come our of your mouth today, dearly beloved of the Father?

Salt was one of the earliest of all preservatives and was a valued commodity in the ancient world. Without any source of refrigeration, salt became the means of preserving meat from decaying, as the ancients rubbed down meat and fish to preserve it for regular use. Seafarers just a century ago would salt down their fish and meat to preserve them for the long transatlantic journeys. Salt was so important as a corruption preventative in the ancient world that wars were fought over it, and entire economies were based on it. In short, salt could literally make the difference between life and death in a time when fresh food was unavailable.

The Greek writer Plutarch said that  meat is a dead body and part of a dead body, and will, if left to itself, go bad, but salt preserves it and keeps it fresh, and is therefore like a new soul inserted into a dead body. Dead meat left to itself went bad, but, pickled in salt, it retained its freshness. The salt seemed to put a kind of life into it. The point is that salt preserves corruption.

Salt was used as a figure of speech in the ancient world to describe "sparkling conversation" or of speech dotted with witty or clever remarks. Here in Colossians, salt indicates speech which gives a flavor to the discourse and recommends it to the pallet as well as speech which preserves from corruption and renders wholesome.

The Greeks called salt "charitas" (grace) because it gave flavor to things. Our speech must not be corrupt (Ep 4:29-note) and salt (God's grace) holds back corruption. A thoughtless word of criticism, a questionable remark, an angry word—any of these could tear down in a minute whatever Christian testimony others have tried to build up.

When we wish to stress a person's solid worth and usefulness we often say "That person is the salt of the earth." Salt was a valuable commodity in the dry Middle East and was used to barter. Our English word “salary” comes from the Latin salarius (“salt”). A person lacking integrity might have mixed white sand with the salt and then had more for trade. But salt mixed with sand lost some of its salty quality and became useless. Christians are to be the "salt of the earth".

Salt acts secretly. We know that it combats decay, though we cannot see it perform its task. Its influence is very real nonetheless.

Sodium is an extremely active element found naturally only in combined form; it always links itself to another element. Chlorine, on the other hand, is the poisonous gas that gives bleach it offensive odor. When sodium and chlorine are combined, the result is sodium chloride—common table salt—the substance we use to preserve meat and bring out its flavor. Love and truth can be like sodium and chlorine. Love without truth is flighty, sometimes blind, willing to combine with various doctrines. On the other hand, truth by itself can be offensive, sometimes even poisonous. Spoken without love, it can turn people away from the gospel. When truth and love are combined in an individual or a church, however, then we have what Jesus called “the salt of the earth,” and we’re able to preserve and bring out the beauty of our faith.

As the saying goes, you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink. What you can do, however, is salt his oats and make him thirsty!

YOU MAY KNOW HOW YOU SHOULD RESPOND TO EACH PERSON: eidenai (RAN) pos dei humas eni hekasto apokrinesthai (PMN): (Pr 26:4,5; Lk 20:20-40; 1Pet 3:15)

Respond (611) (apokrinomai from apó = from + kríno = separate, discern, judge) means to respond to a question asking for information and so to answer or reply.

We must know how to say the right thing at the right time as Peter alludes to in (1Pe 3:15 click notes) in context of suffering persecution or opposition.

Ps 141:3 (note) gives us a good "grid" by which we should filter how we respond to others

"Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; Keep watch over the door of my lips."

 

In our responses to others we should imitate Paul who said

 

"To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak; I have become all things to all men, so that I may by all means save some." (1Co 9:22)


Barton has an excellent summary comment writing that...

 

No Christian should have a dull, tiresome, know-it-all monologue of his faith. Instead, Christians, who have the most exciting news in the world to share, should be able to share that message with excitement, ability to invoke interest, an understanding of the basics, a willingness to listen and discuss, and a desire to answer everyone’s questions graciously. The way words are spoken is as important as the words themselves. When we tell others about Christ, we should always be gracious in what we say. No matter how much sense the message makes, we lose our effectiveness if we are not courteous. Just as we like to be respected, we must respect others if we want them to listen to what we have to say. (Barton, B. B., et al. Life Application Bible Commentary. Romans: Tyndale House Publishers or Logos)


William Barclay adds that...

 

The Christian must have charm and wit in his speech so that he may know how to give the right answer in every case. (1Pe 3:15-note) Here is an interesting injunction. It is all too true that Christianity in the minds of many is connected with a kind of sanctimonious dullness and an outlook in which laughter is almost a heresy. As C. F. D. Moule says, this is “a warning not to confuse loyal godliness with graceless insipidity.” The Christian must commend his message with the charm and the wit which were in Jesus himself. There is too much of the Christianity which stodgily depresses a man and too little of the Christianity which scintillates with life. (Barclay, W: The Daily Study Bible Series. The Westminster Press or Logos)

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TURNING EVERYDAY CONVERSATION  TO "ETERNAL MATTERS - Nellie Pickard loves to tell people about Jesus Christ. She does it so often that she's written a series of books describing how she witnesses in everyday situations. In Just Say It! she tells about her phone call to a health-food store. She had noticed that bee pollen was on sale, so she asked the manager about the benefits of using it. "You'll live forever," he replied. To Nellie, the words live forever were an open invitation. "I know you're joking," she said, "but I know I'm going to live forever, and not because I buy your bee pollen." His response was encouraging. "I'd like to hear about it. I'm really interested in why you think you're going to live forever." Although he did not trust Jesus as Savior at that time, Nellie had planted the seed by being wise "toward those who are outside" (Col. 4:5). Our opportunities are endless, yet our words are often powerless. Instead of directing our conversations with unbelievers toward spiritual matters, we tend to stay in the safe zone. Doing as Nellie does is a skill we need to develop and a challenge that comes straight from God's Word. We must look for those openings. With sincere kindness and genuine concern we can turn most conversations to eternal matters-even if the subject is bee pollen! -J D Branon (Bolding added) (Our Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved)

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THE GRACE OF CHRISTIAN SPEECH - "He that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile."-- 1 Peter 3:10 (note)

THE IDEAL of Christian speech is given in the Apostle's words to the Colossians. Our speech should be always gracious; and grace stands for mercifulness, charity, the willingness to put the best constructions upon the words and actions of another. It is a great help in dealing with envy, jealousy, or unkind feeling to compel our lips to speak as Christ would have them. If you are jealous of another, the temptation is to say unkind or depreciating things, but if we live in the power of the Holy Spirit, He will enable us to check such words and replace them by those that suggest kindly consideration on the part of ourselves and others. Endeavour to say all the good that can be said, and none of the evil. It is remarkable that when we make the effort to speak kindly on behalf of those against whom we feel exasperated, the whole inward temper changes and takes on the tone of our voice.

There should be salt in our speech--purity, antiseptic, and sparkling like the Book of Proverbs. A playful wit, a bright repartee, are not inconsistent with the Apostle's standard, but whenever we mix in conversation with people, they should be aware of an element in us which makes it impossible for them to indulge in ill-natured gossip or coarse jokes.

We must continue in prayer that God would open to us doors of utterance, so that we may speak of the hidden beauty and glory of our Saviour. Sometimes, also, when we are hard pressed to know how to answer difficult questions, it is given to us in that same hour how we ought to speak, and we find that the Holy Spirit has found an utterance by our lips (Lk 12:12; 1Pe 3:15-
note).

It is recorded of our Lord that during His trial He spoke not a word to Pilate or Herod, but as soon as He reached the Cross, He poured out His heart as their Intercessor, saying: "Father, forgive them: for they know not what they do!" Speak more to God than to men who may be reviling and threatening you. It is blessed to realize that He is able to guard the door of our lips, for probably there is no part of our nature that stands more in need of His keeping power.

PRAYER - Live in us, Blessed Lord, by Thy Holy Spirit, that our lives may be gospels of helpfulness and blessedness. May all foolish talking and covetousness, bitterness, wrath, and anger be put away from us, with all malice. AMEN. (F B Meyer. Our Daily Walk)

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LIFE WORDS - "Death and life are in the power of the tongue."-- Proverbs 18:21

Words of encouragement can be "life words," bringing new motivation to our lives. Mark Twain said that he could live for a whole month on one good compliment!

Christian encouragement, however, is more than a compliment or a pat on the back, valuable as these can be. One writer described it as "the kind of expression that helps someone want to be a better Christian, even when life is rough."

As a youth, Larry Crabb had developed a stutter that humiliated him in a school assembly. A short time later when praying aloud in a church service, his stutter caused him to get both his words and theology mixed up in his prayer. Expecting stern correction, Larry slipped out of the service, resolving never to speak in public again. On his way out he was stopped by an older man who said, "Larry, there's one thing I want you to know. Whatever you do for the Lord, I'm behind you one thousand percent." Larry's resolve never again to speak publicly weakened instantly. Now, many years later, he addresses large crowds without stuttering.

Paul told us to season our speech "with grace" so that we may know how to answer others (Col 4:6). Then we will speak "life words" that bring encouragement.-- Joanie E. Yoder (
Our Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved)

It may seem insignificant
To say a word or two,
But when it is encouragement,
What wonders it can do! -- K. DeHaan

Correction may mold us, but encouragement will motivate us.

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WHAT'S YOUR SALT CONTENT?
Colossians 4:1-6

IF you were to evaporate a ton of water from the Pacific Ocean, you would get approximately seventy-nine pounds of salt. A ton of Atlantic water would yield eighty-one pounds. And from the Dead Sea you would get almost five hundred pounds.

As these statistics demonstrate, the earth's bodies of water vary greatly in their degree of saltiness. So do Christians. Jesus said that we are "the salt of the earth" (see note
Matthew 5:13). But we all have different levels of "salt content." A few Scripture verses tell what it means to be "salty."

Salt enhances flavor (Job 6:6).

Salt indicates purity in speech (Colossians 4:6).

Salt symbolizes keeping a promise (Numbers 18:19).

Salt speaks of goodness (Mark 9:50).

Now, check your salt content. Are you the kind of person who enhances the lives of those around you? Is your conversation pure? Do you keep promises? Are you characterized by goodness? An unbelieving world is watching and listening to you. What do they see and hear?

Perhaps your life needs more salt. Study Jesus' life for a pattern and rely on the Spirit for power. As you obey Christ, you will give the world a taste of a life "seasoned with salt"—and you will make people hunger and thirst for the same in their own lives. —PRV (
Our Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved)

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A MANNER OF SPEAKING

The powerful French statesman Richelieu (1585-1642) was also known as a man of great courtesy. On one occasion someone applied to him for a job, knowing that he would be turned down. Richelieu's manner of speech was so warm and accepting that it was worth having a request denied just to hear how graciously he expressed himself - even when he said no. We can all learn from that example.

In the early years of our marriage, my wife Margaret lovingly reminded me on occasion about my tendency to express my opinions a little too emphatically. In my enthusiasm to make a point, I was inclined to speak loudly and with great animation. As a result, I often appeared to be angry when actually I was not.

I wonder, what is your speech like? We as Christians ought to be so sensitive to the needs, hurts, and disappointments of others that no unkind words come from our lips and no harsh tone is heard in our voices - even when we find it necessary to be firm. We have Christ dwelling within us, and as we yield to His control His love will become evident not only in what we say but also in how we say it.

The difference between being an offense or a blessing is sometimes just a manner of speaking. -Richard W. De Haan  (
Our Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved)

Words of kindness spread so gently,
They give volume to one's voice;
Words of joy and words of gladness
Make a humble heart rejoice. -Potts

Gentle words fall lightly but carry great weight.

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COMMUNICATING WITH CARE - I will guard my ways, lest I sin with my tongue. --Psalm 39:1

Human beings are more than mere animals; we have been made in God's image. As persons we can communicate with one another with words -- something animals cannot do. We use words like love and patriotism to share our ideas and emotions. Think of the hours we spend talking, whether in casual conversations about trivia or deep discussions about important issues.

We have all kinds of devices to help us communicate. We have telephones, fax machines, computer bulletin boards, voice mail, radios, TV sets, and of course, printed materials of every kind.

The Bible recognizes that communication, a central component of our lives, needs to be monitored with great care. For example, Paul urged that our "speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one" (Col 4:6). And James cautioned, "No man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison" (James 3:8).

We need to guard our lips, making David's prayer in Psalm 19:14 our daily prayer:

"Let the words of my mouth and the medication of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, my strength and my Redeemer." (See Spurgeon's note)

Vernon C. Grounds (Our Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved)

Take my lips, and let them be
Filled with messages for Thee;
Take my voice and let me sing
Always, only, for my King. --Havergal
(Play
Take My Life and Let It Be)

Mind what you say, or you may say whatever comes to mind.

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August 28, 2001
Responding With Hope
READ: Colossians 4:2-6

Let your speech always be with grace, . . . that you may know how you ought to answer each one. --Colossians 4:6

When the people in Colorado Springs, Colorado, learned that Jed Jackson, a popular local TV sportscaster, was losing his battle with cancer, they sent thousands of e-mails, letters, and cards to him. In response to the outpouring of encouragement, Jed wrote an article that was printed on the front page of the newspaper the day after his death. In it he said:

"It has been my sincere privilege to serve this wonderful community, which has given me so much in return. The Lord has blessed my life in every possible way. He has given me my wife of 19 years, my three splendid children, and more friends than a man should be allowed to have. I am overwhelmed by the kind regards so many of you have sent. Truly, my cup runneth over. Never forget that, with Jesus, the best is yet to come."

As he spoke of his hope in Christ, Jed modeled what the apostle Paul had challenged every Christian to do: "Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside . . . . Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one" (Colossians 4:5-6).

Each day, we are to yield ourselves fully to Jesus, so that we may live wisely and respond graciously to others about the One who gives us the assurance of eternal life. —David C. McCasland (
Our Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved)

Oh, make me, Lord, so much like Thee,
My life controlled by power divine,
That I a shining light may be
From which Thy grace may ever shine. —Robertson

A Christlike life can be a message of hope to a searching world.

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