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We are turning the corner
and are beginning to move into those last critical chapters of the book of
Ephesians. I hope you have gleaned something from our study in chapters
1-3 on the Riches, the Reasons and the Revelation of our salvation.
Now we turn to the second part of Ephesians. The first three chapters have
to do with identity. It is just like in the covenant relationship. If you
have ever studied covenant, there were always two parts. The first part
had to do with identity. That is the fun part, to find out what we have
got in Him, who we are, whose we are in Him. The second part is a little
more damaging when it comes to our flesh because it makes us realize then
the responsibility that goes along with the identity He has given us in
Jesus Christ. Chapters 1-3 was our identity, riches, reasons and
revelation of our salvation. Chapters 4-6 are the responsibilities of our
salvation.
The hinge between chapters 1, 2 and 3 and chapters 4, 5 and 6 is the
prayer in verses 14-21 of chapter 3. That is the hinge. It sums up what
has been said and sets up what is about to be said in the remaining
chapters of the book. Well, let’s begin to get into chapter 4.
In verse 1 he says, "I, therefore." Now, whenever you see a "therefore,"
you always want to look to see what it is there for. You always want to
look back. We have already looked back, and we know now what he is talking
about. "I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, entreat you to walk in a
manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called." Let’s nail
down what it means to walk in a manner worthy. As we understand that we
can jump into the chapter.
The phrase "walk in a manner worthy" has the idea of living a life in such
a way that it measures up to something. Think about a set of scales. If I
have ten pounds on one side of the scale, I need ten pounds to put on the
other side so it will balance. If I put 10.5 on the other side, it would
be out of balance. If I put 11, it would be out of balance. I need ten on
one side and I need ten on the other. The word "worthy" takes us even a
second step. The word for "worthy" is the word axios. It refers to
the intrinsic value of something.
There is a difference in the intrinsic worth of something and an appraisal
of what that intrinsic value is. I’ll give you an illustration. When I was
growing up, my father had a barrel downstairs and in that barrel he had
some old telephones. They were the kind of telephone that you had to pick
up the little handle and put it up next to your ear. Dad would take those
phones and make lamps out of them. He was just brilliant in what he could
do with his hands. He would attach an electrical cord to it and when you
took the receiver off the lamp would come on. When you hung it up, it
would go off. He would make them for minimal cost for people. He just
enjoyed doing that. Back in his day, those phones didn’t have the
intrinsic value they had a little later on. I took that barrel full of
phones and stuck it in our garage or basement. It kind of followed us
around. I never understood what I had in that barrel, what the worth of
those phones really was.
One day a man came over to our house. He said, "I would like to have some
of those phones." I said, "Sure." He gave me a check maybe for $25 or
something like that. My appraisal of their value was nowhere close to the
intrinsic, inherent value of those phones. I found out a few weeks later
what they were worth. Oh, it hurts.
Friend, what is your value of your salvation? The value of your salvation
is going to determine how you live. You see, if it has not affected your
lifestyle, if it has not affected the way you talk to people and about
people, if it has not affected the way you treat others, then friend, you
have got a low appraisal value of something that is intrinsically worth
far beyond what you have even realized yet. Therefore, your life is not
measuring up to any standard that God requires. Walk in a manner worthy.
Chapters 1, 2 and 3 gives you the intrinsic value of your salvation.
Therefore, measure up by the way you allow it to affect your life.
So if our view of salvation means everything when it comes to living, how
you look at your salvation dictates how you live. Look at what it meant to
Paul in verse 1 of chapter 4. He says, "I, therefore, the prisoner of the
Lord." Now we know what it meant to Paul, don’t we? Paul said, "I have
completely submitted to His lordship." Why? Here is a man who knew who he
was and knew whose he was. He understood what happened to him at
salvation. It overwhelmed him and changed him for the rest of his life.
When I get to heaven one day, I am going to look at Jesus for about a
million years, maybe two or three, but after that, I want to get over
there next to Paul. I want to spend at least a couple of hundred centuries
with him. You see, he didn’t get any more or any less than what I got when
I got saved. The difference is, he understood what he got. He was
overwhelmed with what he got, and it made all the difference in the world
in the way that he lived. He was submitted to the Lordship of Christ. I
love what Philippians 1:21 says. Paul said, "I can’t speak for anybody but
myself but ‘For to me, to live is Christ, and to die is gain.’" He said,
"Do you want to know what makes me tick? Buddy, I am so overwhelmed with
my salvation, I’ll never be the same." He was writing from prison when he
wrote that! Now that kind of view of salvation, friend, will radically
change how you live, but it won’t change until you begin to realize what
happened to you when you got saved. You begin to realize the resource you
have in the Lord Jesus Christ.
We are getting the idea now. We have the intrinsic value so now measure
up. How is this going to work itself out in our relationships in life with
each other? Well, first of all, it will be reflected in the corporate
unity of the body. Look at verses 2 and 3. Paul tells us how to walk. He
says, "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing
forbearance to one another in love, being diligent to preserve the unity
of the Spirit in the bond of peace." We will go back up to verse 2 in a
minute, but you have to look at verse 3 first. There is a constant thing
going on with people who have a high view of salvation. Those people
preserve with every ounce of fiber in their body the unity already given
them in the Lord Jesus Christ. Let’s talk about that for a second. Verse 3
says we "preserve" it. We don’t produce it. Now doesn’t that relieve you a
little bit? I am so grateful. You know, some people think we produce
unity. They say, "If you will just have more fellowships, if you just had
more flock groups, if you could drop down to smaller groups and interact
with each other better, if you could have more fun and get to know each
other, maybe name tags."
Friend, if you will look at the passage he didn’t say that you produce it.
He said that you preserve it. You’ve got to see something here. I don’t
need to know your name. I don’t need to know where you are coming from. If
I am one with God by surrendering to Him, if my view of salvation has
rendered me a prisoner of the Lord Jesus Christ and if the same is true in
your life, friend, you and I are one! The Spirit produces it! We can have
5,000 in the worship service and still have unity. Unity is not what is
produced by man. It is what is preserved by our willingness to walk worthy
of that which God has done in our life. God has already given us unity. He
says it in the verse.
Look again at verse 3:
"to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."
The word "bond" refers to a ligament or a tendon. I like that. "Do
you mean to tell me that we are linked together even though we don’t know
each other?" Listen, I know some folks from Hotzig, Romania, and we are
bonded together. I don’t know their language. Why is it I can feel a
oneness with the people from Hotzig? Because the Holy Spirit lives in them
and the Holy Spirit lives in me. He bonds us together. There is a ligament
that is holding us together.
Do you know what the word "peace" is? The word "peace" is the word that
means the absence of conflict, the absence of dissension. Isn’t that
incredible? Now, he says the Holy Spirit, when He came into your life,
bonded you to the family of God. As a ligament, He made you one with the
family of God. When we enter into covenant with the Lord Jesus, we enter
into covenant with one another. We are ligamented together. We are united
together. We are bound together by this ligament. The peace is the signal
of that. It is the fruit of the Spirit, remember? The fruit of the Spirit
is love, joy, peace. It is something He produces in our life. It means the
absence of conflict. It means when two things go together and there is
nothing in between that keeps them from cohering.
What does that mean if I am preserving the unity of the Spirit in the bond
of peace? Well, there are several attitudes that will be seen in my life
if I am. The signal that you are filled with the Spirit of God is not that
you can speak in tongues, contrary to many people’s opinion. The signal
that you are filled with the Spirit of God is not that you can do some
ecstatic gift. It is not that you can stand on your head. The signal for
being filled with the Spirit of God is a love bond, a oneness with other
believers. Jesus said, "By this shall all men know that you are My
disciples by the fact that you love one another."
Now Paul says, "Since God has provided you with the abilities that you
didn’t have and given you every spiritual blessing, now measure up to that
standard and let it be seen by the fact that you are diligently preserving
the bond of peace that the Holy Spirit has produced within you."
What is the first attitude we have to have? It says it in verse 2, "with
all humility." What in the world does this word "humility" mean? Friends,
it frames the whole thought. If you miss this word, you have missed the
whole thing. The word is the Greek word tapeinophrosune. It means
to think less of yourself. The word tapeinos, is the word for
humble. It is the word that means to get down as flat as you can possibly
get so nobody can see you at all. That is the thought. It means to be
level with the earth. The word phren, is not just the word mind. It
is the word that speaks of a framed attitude of the mind. You will
recognize that from another text which we will look at in a moment. It is
an attitude. So what is the attitude we must have towards ourselves? The
attitude is that we are not to think more highly of ourselves than we
ought to think. We need to get down where we belong. Listen, the only way
up is to get down before God. Do you want a proper estimate of self? Here
it is right here. Die. Get down, flatten out, so that the Lord now in His
divine ability can continue to keep you united with the body of Christ.
There are three things that I want you to see about humility. Paul uses it
three times in three different books. Each one teaches us something about
that little quality of humility. It might be helpful for us. Look in Acts
20:19. This is a very important scripture because Paul is talking to the
elders of Ephesus. He has brought them down to Miletus. I want us to see
how he uses this word here. In this passage, we see that the attitude of
humility is essential to our serving the Lord Jesus Christ. Did you know
that? You know, some people think, "God is so glad to have me on His
team." That is about as unbiblical as anything you could ever say. God
doesn’t want to use anything about who we are. He wants us to be an empty
vessel so He can infuse His power in our life. Humility is the essential
attitude of our serving Christ.
Let’s back up to verse 18 to catch the context.
"And when they came to him [the elders coming down to Miletus from
Ephesus], he said to them, ‘You yourselves know, from the first day that I
set foot in Asia, how I was with you the whole time, serving the Lord with
all humility."
That is our word right there. The first point you want to see about this
essential attitude in serving Christ is that when it is there, everybody
else knows it. It says "you know, you saw, you experienced." Paul said,
"You know that I was serving out of humility." How did they know? Paul
didn’t tell them.
I like what Ian Thomas said,
"I can’t.
He never said I could. He can.
He always said He would."
That is the essence of humility. I want to tell you, when you have that
attitude, everybody knows it. Everybody is aware of it. You are not aware
that they are aware, but they are aware. Paul said, "You know, you know.
You’ve got to know."
Secondly, if humility is real it will provoke the religious. Look at Acts
20:19:
"serving the Lord with all humility and with tears and with trials which
came upon me through the plots of the Jews."
Is he talking about all Jews? No. He is talking about that religious
group. I want to tell you something. Religion is what man does, and
therefore, man has to stand up to do it. Christianity is what God does,
and man has to get down in order to allow God to do it. The two cannot
peacefully coexist. You see, religion does not coincide with Christianity.
When you start being humble of mind, it means you are aware totally of
what you are not, what He is and who He is. You wait until He initiates it
so that He might anoint it in your life.
The third thing is in Acts 20:22. If this humility is real, then God’s will
will always be preeminent above your will. In verse 22 it says,
"And now,
behold, bound in spirit, I am on my way to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there."
We know what
happened to him there because we are studying Ephesians. We know he has
been in prison for five years because he went to Jerusalem. At this point
in Acts 20:22 he doesn’t know. He said, "I don’t have my will." Everybody
tried to get him not to go to Jerusalem,
but he said, "I have to go. I am chained to His chariot. I am bound to His
Spirit. I am a prisoner of Jesus. I am a bond-servant of Christ."
You see, when humility is real in your life, it is not what you wear or
don’t wear. It is your attitude towards God working in your life. You
won’t have an agenda you are putting before Him. You just want His agenda
in your life. So we see that humility is the essential attitude in serving
Christ.
Secondly in Colossians 3:12, humility is the attitude of those seeking a
higher calling. The context is verse 1 of chapter 3.
"If then you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things
above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your mind on
the things above, not on the things that are on earth."
In that context look at verse 12:
"And so, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a
heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience."
You see, it is part of the garment of the lifestyle of people who are
seeking a higher calling. Who are these humble people? They are not
seeking their own calling. They are seeking His calling. They are not
looking for the praise of men. They are looking for the glory of God in
their life. It is an attitude that just comes out of their life.
Then finally in Philippians 2:5 we see it one more time. This attitude of
humility is not only essential to serving Christ, it is not only the
attitude of those seeking Christ, but it is also the very attitude of our
Savior Himself.
"Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ
Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard
equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the
form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men. And
being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming
obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore also God
highly exalted Him, and bestowed on Him the name which is above every
name."
Have you ever heard someone preach on that passage but not put it in
context? We know what Christ did. We know He emptied Himself of His glory,
but what it says here is that you have the same attitude in you He had
before He came to this earth to die on a cross.
So therefore be strengthened in the inner man with an ability that you
don’t normally have. It is an ability He has now in you. Who is it in you?
It is Christ Himself. Let that attitude be released in your life. That is
His attitude. What is it? Philippians 2:3 says,
"Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind
[that is our word] let each of you regard one another as more important
than himself."
I hope you are beginning to see something here. If I truly have that high
view of salvation, I will have a proper estimate of myself. Therefore, I
am going to be humble in the way I approach the body of Christ. My
attitude is, I know I can’t, but I also know He can. I want to be
strengthened with might in the inner man with His power. The scales become
balanced.
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We are talking about
walking in a manner worthy of the calling that God has given to us. I
heard the story many years ago of the young lady who was working by
herself in a third world country in a leper colony. She was called of God
to do this. A millionaire was on a vacation in that country, and he
decided that he wanted to see a leper colony. As he went over to see the
leper colony, he saw this young lady working with those lepers and said to
her, "Ma’am, I would not do what you are doing for a million dollars." She
looked back at him and said, "Sir, neither would I." He said, "Well then,
why are you doing what you are doing?" Tears formed in her eyes, and she
looked at him and said, "It is the love of Christ Jesus constraining me."
Folks, the way you live depicts your view of salvation. The way you give
depicts your view of salvation. The way you relate to others depicts your
view of salvation. If you don’t have a high view, then you are not going
to have a worthy walk.
When we have a high view of salvation, we begin to realize something I
call the exchanged life. Have you ever heard that terminology? I realize
what I can’t do, but I also realize what He can do and I exchange me for
Him. That’s not a bad exchange, is it? All that we are for all that He is.
Paul said, "I want you to be filled to the fulness of God." Can you
imagine? When we die to self, we enter into His fullness. He, in us, does
through us what we could have never done before. You ask, "Is it a passive
life?" Oh, no. It is the most active life you will ever have, but the kind
of activity is simply your surrendering and your obeying and your
trusting. The rest of it is up to Him, and the results are all His. The
exchanged life is the only way to live a worthy life. You can’t live a
worthy life unless you have exchanged your life for His. That is his
prayer in 3:14-21.
Ephesians 4:1 instructs us to walk worthy. What does it mean to walk
worthy? Well, the word "worthy"
means to balance the scales, to measure to a standard. It means the
intrinsic value of something. I may have an appraised value of something,
but the intrinsic value is its inherent value. Therefore, to walk in a
manner worthy and to live in a manner worthy, conduct yourselves in a
manner that measures up to the value of our salvation. It implies a
lifestyle for all of us.
Look in verse 2. Each one of these words in the verse builds upon the
other. We looked at the word "humility" in our last study. That is one of
the attitudes we need.
Secondly, there is the attitude of gentleness.
Whereas humility is a proper attitude towards one’s self, gentleness is
the proper attitude towards God. Now it may fool you. The word
"gentleness" there is the word
prautes. It is translated in many
translations as "meekness." What does meekness mean? What does it mean to
be gentle or meek? It does not refer necessarily to your outward
expression. Certainly there are outward expressions. The word has less to
do with our expression to one another and our disposition toward one
another than our inward disposition towards God. As a matter of fact, the
reason it is translated "gentle" carries the idea that there is such a
calmness inside of us because we are right in our relationship with God.
That is incredible to me.
Are you stressed out, full of anxiety and just scared to death what is
going to happen tomorrow? You haven’t learned yet that you can trust God.
Get yourself out of the way. Realize you can’t do it. You know He can.
Exchange your life for His and all of a sudden that divine attribute
begins to give you calmness in your spirit. Evidently you are in the dark,
but I am in the light. I can see. Gentleness is an inner disposition of
calmness towards God. Humility is an attitude towards self, but gentleness
is an attitude towards God. It is the attitude of being broken in our
wills and being submissive to whatever God is up to in our life. Because
of that submission whatever offense happens in our life, we don’t get
anxious over it. We have a calmness in our spirit. We trust God
completely. The attitude of meekness means we have been broken to trust
the One who has mastered us.
You see here in the word "gentleness" the picture of a wild horse being
broken. The picture here of being tamed is the idea of being meek or the
idea of being gentle. The horse is okay as long as he is under the reins
of the one who has mastered him. When the Lord Jesus masters us, when we
come to that place of exchanging our life for His, when we come to that
place of not thinking of ourselves anymore, His heart now causes us to see
others around us. He has tamed our spirit so that whatever offense comes
to us, we are calm in our spirit because we know we are under the control
of the One who has Mastered us. That is a beautiful attitude one can have
towards God.
However, it has another side to it. It also has the idea of virtue.
Aristotle said it is a virtue. It is something that stands between two
extremes. It doesn’t get angry and explode, and it doesn’t stay passive.
In other words, not only do you trust God when an offense comes to you,
but you never cast your anger towards the person who caused the offense.
You hate the sin but you keep on loving the sinner. Now that is an
incredible heart beat for a person, an incredible attitude that a person
can have when he is humble, when he is gentle, when he is meek, when he
has been tamed by the Master. Once I have been tamed you can offend me,
and I won’t even hate you. I hate your sin, but I won’t hate you! There is
something in me that allows me to love you in spite of what you do to me.
When circumstances turn against me, I have a calmness in me to know that
God is allowing it and will work the good out of it. That is a tremendous
attitude! Now, remember it only comes in the exchanged life. It is a
divine ability that God puts within you and me. Do you see how that
protects the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace?
It is a very beautiful thing when you begin to see what that exchanged
life means to you and me, when a person starts walking worthy of that
which God has done in his life. The very heart of God begins to beat
within him. He has a humility and a proper attitude towards self. He has a
gentleness about him that has a proper attitude towards God. He trusts
God.
Remember when the fellow came out to curse David as he was leaving
Jerusalem. Joab pulled his sword out and said, "I’ll get that rascal. I’ll
cut his head off." David said, "No, hold it. God sent him to me with a
message that I need to hear." Oh, wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could
look at life that way? Somebody may offend us and cause some provocation
in our life, but all of a sudden we realize that when we exchanged our
life for His, we don’t really hate that person any more. We are looking
more at God and saying, "What are you trying to tell me through this
individual? God, how are you going to work good from what this person has
done to me? God, thank you that I don’t hate him. Thank you that I can
just hate his sin. Thank you, Lord, that you have taught me to direct my
anger at the right thing." Scripture says be angry but sin not with your
anger.
So we have two attitudes here that help preserve the unity in the Spirit,
humility and gentleness. One is the right attitude towards self and one is
the right attitude towards the Lord.
Third is the word "patience." The word "patience" is a right attitude
towards those people who have caused you the problem. It is the word
makrothumia. It comes from two words, makros, meaning long and
thumos, which means wrath or anger. It is the ability to suffer
someone’s wrong doing for a long period of time. Do you know whose
character it is? It is the character of God. Well, how can you do that?
Because He lives in you. You have exchanged your life for His. You have
chosen to be that way. Now that you have decreased, He has increased in
your life. You can be that way if you will depend upon the Spirit to
strengthen you with that divine ability. It also has the idea that at any
time you are able to avenge yourself, but you choose not to do it because
you are trusting God and you are not going to give up on that person.
Do you feel oneness in your church body? Please understand what I am
saying. You cannot make it happen. I cannot make it happen. It is
something God has already made happen. We don’t produce it. We just get in
touch with it and preserve and maintain it. It is already there. You are
my brother. You are my sister. You start seeing that you are linked
together. Nothing is worth causing a person to take up an offense. Nothing
is worth dividing and tearing down the unity that the Spirit has given.
Well, let’s look at these attitudes again.
Humility is never thinking of
yourself higher than you ought to think. It is a proper attitude towards
self.
Gentleness is being calm in your spirit when offenses occur because
you trust God. If you go to work and somebody in the body of Christ gives
you trouble, just say, "Well, God, what are You teaching me today? There
must be something in this." Then ask God to give you the ability to not
hate that person but to hate that sin and never let that sin get into your
own life. We have ways in which we can even approach that from other
Scriptures about restoration.
Then the word "patience" is the word that
means a right attitude towards other people. You are always able to avenge
yourself, but you refuse to. You continue to believe God and do not give
up on the person who is causing you the trouble. Do you know what that
sounds like to the world? Absolute foolishness.
There is an attitude emerging today that doesn’t match with God’s Word. It
says you have got to stand up for yourself at all times. Have you heard
that? Perhaps you have been in a restaurant and have ordered something. Do
you believe God is sovereign or do you not? You order beans, but they
bring peas and they’re cold. You get upset with the person who brought
them. What right do we have to do that kind of thing? The world says,
"Well, you are paying for it, so you’ve got a right to do it!" Oh, folks,
when we have exchanged our life, we have got to understand that God is in
control of even those kinds of things.
You don’t have to go through life taking up an offense for everything that
goes on. Why? Because you have exchanged your life. You have a gentle
spirit. You are patient. You have humility in your life. You know that
even when it doesn’t turn out the way you want it to turn out, God will
weave it into His design somehow. What kind of view do we have of our
salvation? "Oh, salvation doesn’t work now. There are too many problems
that salvation doesn’t touch any more. You have got to have other things
to help you out." Where is that in God’s word? The problem is we have such
a low view of salvation that we have added in all this other stuff. We
don’t believe in the sufficiency of Christ any more. We don’t believe in
what God did for us at salvation any more. We don’t seem to understand
that His eternal purpose has been to bring us into His kingdom. So we walk
out, and it effects our lifestyle. The way you live is absolutely
determined by your view of salvation and your view of the Christ who saved
you. When we start exchanging our lives, a humble spirit is going to come
out. All of a sudden we are not worried about what somebody is not doing
to us. We are more concerned about how we can minister to somebody else.
Where does that come from? It comes from the Holy Spirit who lives in the
inner man who strengthened you with an ability you haven’t had before. We
are going to have that meekness because we have been tamed by Him and are
being tamed by Him. We don’t mind anymore because He has the reins on our
life. We are allowing Him to go ahead and rule us because we trust the One
who has the reins and has tamed us. We have patience even when people
treat us like dirt. We don’t give up on them. We suffer long because we
know that somehow we could have avenged ourselves, but we have chosen not
to for the sake and for the cause of the One who has called us.
There’s one more thing I want to show you. In the last part of verse 2 it
says,
"showing
forbearance
to one another in love."
The more I have studied that word "forbearance" the more I believe it sums
up the other three. I don’t believe you can possibly forbear until you
have that patience, that humility and that gentle spirit working for you.
The word "forbearance"
means you don’t fold. You are able to hold on. You are able to stand up
against whatever it is that comes to you. One particular lexicon said this
word "forbearance" means you are able to bear up, not only while someone
is provoking you, but until the whole provocation is over. In other words,
all the way to the end. Folks we have so many misconceptions as to what we
think Christianity is. It is exchanging our life for His. It is Him being
who He is in our life. Do you think you need to defend yourself? Then how
come He hasn’t done that with us? When He was reviled, He reviled not
back, Peter tells us. He kept entrusting Himself to the One who judges
righteously. If His example was to do that, why are we better than He is?
We have these attitudes that enable us to forbear. We have these attitudes
that enable us to hold up against whatever it is going on in our lives, no
matter what offense comes our way. That only comes when we have exchanged
our life for His life, when we have entered in to His ability.
Paul says to examine yourself. I really believe a lot of divisions among
people are in the breakdown of these attitudes somehow in their lives. If
one breaks down, they all break down. In other words, if you are not
exchanging your life, if you are not letting His Spirit give you this
divine ability daily, then obviously these things aren’t there. So
divisions, factions and problems occur. I honestly believe in my life and
your life that if we would go back to where we have departed and ask God
to forgive us, we could go to the person we have offended and ask them to
forgive us. Folks, He cleans us up.
Jesus did the very same thing for you. He was patient with you. He was
gentle with you. He has been very humble in His approach to you. He gave
up His glory to come down here to die for you. He forbears until it is
over. He continues to sustain His love in your life. Now He wants to do
that in you and through you to someone else.
James 3 says we all offend in many ways, don’t we? If we would start
looking at sin as serious as God looks at it and start taking a high view
of salvation and start dealing with sin when the Holy Spirit brings those
things to our attention, we could preserve unity so much that the world
would be starving to get in. What is wrong? Is it the Spirit’s fault? No.
It is our fault if we are not living humble lives, if we are not living
with gentleness, if we are not living with patience, if we are not
forbearing, if we are taking up an offense every time somebody does
something that bothers us. We are grieving the very Spirit of God.
Whatever else we do, call it church, but don’t call it Christianity until
we start dealing with relationships.
Maybe you were miffed years ago. You are still upset. Things have bothered
you and you have not yet dealt with that under the blood. You have not
even been to a brother to make it right with him. God wants to get us to
where we are so open, transparent and clean before Him that He can
exchange His life for ours. Then whatever takes place will be that
potential we have not yet experienced. Then we can enter into the fact
that He is able to do exceeding abundantly beyond what we could ever ask
or think.
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Ephesians 4 talks about
"Preserving the Unity of the Spirit." It picks up right after the prayer
Paul has just prayed in Ephesians 3:14-21. That prayer sums up what is
said in chapters 1-3, and it sets up what is about to be said in chapters
4-6.
In 3:16-17 we find the real crux of the prayer: "that He would grant you,
according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with power
through His Spirit in the inner man; so that Christ may dwell in your
hearts through faith." If we put that in language that we can understand
in our day, he is saying, "Simply exchange your life for His life by
obeying Him in all things." You see, that is what the normal Christian
life is. It is not me trying to live like Jesus. It is Jesus being Jesus
in my life. He is giving me strength and strengthening me with a divine
ability far beyond what a human could do apart from the Lord Jesus
Himself.
Now in 4:1, Paul stresses the importance of every believer living this
way. He says:
"I, therefore,
the
prisoner of the Lord, entreat you to walk in a manner worthy of the
calling with which you have been called."
In other words, Paul is saying, "I have prayed for you now. I have told
you what you have in Christ. Now measure up to that standard by the way
that you live."
Why does he encourage them to do this? Look at verse 3. He says,
"being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."
ONENESS
We do not produce unity. We tried that in our church. It does not work!
Oneness does not come from being together. Oneness does not come from
knowing each other’s name. Oneness does not come from going out and eating
together. Oneness is produced by the Holy Spirit of God. When you are
right with God and I am right with God, we are one together. The Holy
Spirit is the divine spiritual ligament that holds us together, given to
us by the Lord Himself.
If we are not relationally preserving the unity of the spirit, then what
we are doing is working against what the Spirit is trying to do. We are
literally tearing the ligament that God has given us that binds us
together. There are many times in our Christian walk when we may have
problems with somebody. We may be bitter towards somebody. Paul is saying,
"Listen, He gave you all this, and the unity of the Spirit is the very
ultimate of what the church is supposed to manifest in their
relationships." Therefore, when we are not preserving it, evidently we are
tearing it apart. We are tearing the ligament that God has given that
unites us together.
The proof of our letting the Holy Spirit of God live in our lives and
produce abilities beyond what we could do ourselves is found in verse 2.
There are several characteristics I want you to see.
First of all is the characteristic of humility. Humility is
something a man cannot do. It is something God has to do. It is the
attitude when a person is willing to die to self by saying yes to the Lord
Jesus Christ. It means understanding that others are more important than
yourself. It is the attitude when we are more concerned with the unity of
the body than we are for our own opinions and our own so-called rights.
That is a divine ability. There is not a human being alive who can do that
apart from the power of the Spirit of God. You see, when you submit to
God, God gives you that humble spirit that Christ Himself had when He left
His throne in glory and came down to the earth for the sake of other
people. He gave up His glory there, masked it with a body of flesh, came
to this earth and died on a cross. That attitude becomes our attitude.
When Christ is your life, Christ is your attitude. That is what Paul is
saying.
Now when that ability is manifest, it moves into another ability that
grows right out of it and builds off of it. That is the word "gentleness"
in verse 2. It is the Greek word praotes. It is really the word
"meekness." It has the idea of a wild horse that has been tamed by the
master. This horse now is comfortable in the reins of the one who has
tamed him.
Let me explain that to you. Gentleness is the calm spirit that you have.
You’re not anxious. When does it manifest itself? When somebody is talking
about you. They are hurting you. That is going to happen in the body of
Christ. But when you have a humble spirit and the desire to protect and
preserve the unity of the Spirit instead of protecting your rights and
your opinions, then your attitude is going to manifest itself in a
gentleness about you, an inner calmness. You know that God is in control
and God will use whatever is going on in your life to conform you into the
image of Christ Jesus. That, by the way, is the hope of our calling, that
one day we be like Jesus.
If you will exchange your life for His and realize you can’t handle that
offense, then God will produce within you a humble spirit. You will become
more concerned with them than you are with yourself. Have you ever noticed
when you surrender to Him you refuse to complain to others and spread your
misfortunes to others and the membership of the body? Why? Because you
want more than anything to protect the unity of the Spirit in the bonds of
peace. It is trusting God to work it out.
The third quality he mentions here is patience. All of these qualities are
interrelated. Patience is the word
makrothumia, which is the
ability produced by the Spirit that enables us to take the unkind words
that are said, and the unkind deeds that are done. Not only can we take
them and tolerate the people who did them, but we can love them in spite
of themselves and not give up on them because there is still hope that God
can change their hearts. No human being can do that on his own. That only
comes when you exchange your life for the life of the Lord Jesus Christ.
When I realize who I am not and who Christ is, I begin to step into that
which He has put me into at salvation. I say, "Lord, be who you are in
me." Then the God of glory begins to manifest His presence through
humility, gentleness and patience.
If you take all three of those words and sum them up, they come into one
word, forbearance. Paul says, in the last part of verse 2,
"showing forbearance to one another in love."
Forbearance is the ability to
stand up and not let it knock you down until the whole provocation is
over. Everything is done and you have been able to make it all the way
through. I wish I lived this every day, don’t you? Paul is saying, "We had
better start living it because if we don’t, we are not preserving the
unity of the Spirit in the bonds of peace. We are literally tearing the
ligament that God has given that binds us together." Everything that is
done is in love, in the spirit of love. It is a faithful commitment that
the Holy Spirit manifests in our life that says "I will do whatever is
necessary to protect you spiritually and to protect you in the unity of
the Spirit that God has given." That is a beautiful characteristic, and it
is not something that you and I can do. It is something He does in and
through our lives.
All of this is for the sake of unity. Unity of the body is the heart of
the message of the book of Ephesians. As a matter of fact, everything that
relates to salvation, the church and the kingdom of God
has to do with unity. Anything that infringes on that unity is sin. It is
not only sin against God, it is sin against the body. It is sin of the
worst kind. It is tearing down what the Holy Spirit is seeking to bind
together. We preserve the unity of the Spirit, first of all then, in the
way that we are diligent in our behavior towards each other.
We preserve the unity of the Spirit
by our willingness to adhere to doctrinal purity
Secondly, we preserve the unity of the Spirit by our willingness to adhere
to doctrinal purity. It is only when we hold on to pure doctrine that we
can stay and enhance the oneness the Spirit is producing in our life. In
4:4-6 Paul uses the word "one" seven different times. Watch this—one body,
one Spirit, one hope, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father
of all. These seven things frame the doctrine that defines the Christian
church, the body of Christ. If you divert from these doctrines,
automatically you have infringed upon the unity that the Spirit has given
to you and me.
I want us to go through these seven doctrines and see how we are unified
by what we believe. We are unified by what we believe, not only by how we
behave.
SEVEN DOCTRINES:
(1) ONE BODY
First of all, Paul says there is one body in verse 4. There
is no denominational body; there is no Gentile body, no Jewish body, no
male body, no female body, no slave or free man body. There is just
Christ’s body on this earth.
(2) ONE HOLY SPIRIT
Secondly Paul says, not only is there only one body, but there is only one
Spirit. Let me just go over what we know about the Spirit from the book of
Ephesians.
In Ephesians 1:13, the Spirit seals every believer in Christ.
In Ephesians 4:30 it says that sealing is unto the day of redemption. You
had better believe that there is one Spirit, and that Spirit is very
unique and important. He comes into your life when you receive the Lord
Jesus Christ. He is the Spirit of Christ, and He seals you until the day
of redemption. That means that you are absolutely secure in your salvation
because the Holy Spirit of God is your seal.
In Ephesians 2:18 this one Holy Spirit gives us access to the Father. Every
believer has access to the Father through or by the means of the Spirit. I
came down to our church the other day, and I thought I hadn’t brought my
keys. I wouldn’t have access into the building because I didn’t have my
keys. It is the same way with the Spirit of God. You don’t have access in
prayer at all unless the Spirit of God lives in your life. He is one of
the two advocates. He takes the plea to Jesus. Jesus takes it to the
Father. Without the Holy Spirit of God, you could not pray. He gives you
access to the Father.
In Ephesians 2:22 Paul says He indwells every believer on earth. The
church is the dwelling of God in the Spirit on this earth. He dwells in
every believer. There is only one Holy Spirit, and you get Him when you
are saved. Romans 8 says that if you don’t have the Spirit of God, you are
not a believer.
Ephesians 3:5 of says He reveals the deep things of God, particularly the
mystery of the church. Do you realize that man cannot discover what God
has hidden? Truth is not something that man discovers. It is something
that God reveals as man seeks after it. God reveals that truth through the
means of His Holy Spirit.
In Ephesians 3:16 He strengthens every believer. We just looked at that
prayer. He does it with divine ability. You had better believe there is
one Holy Spirit who lives in you because you couldn’t live the Christian
life apart from Him.
In Ephesians 4:3 He is the bond to all believers. He is the ligament. If
you don’t have the Holy Spirit, then you are not joined to the body of
Christ or you are not joined to Christ. The Holy Spirit is the ligament
that holds on to you and me.
In Ephesians 4:30 it says He can be grieved.
Ephesians 5:18 says every believer is to submit to the one Holy Spirit all
the time. The word there is in the present tense. We will look at that
when we get to chapter 5. It means the Holy Spirit is in me now, and He is
there to rule over me. You see there is only one Spirit, and we must bow
to Him.
In Ephesians 6:17 the weapon of His warfare is the Word of God. The weapon
the Spirit uses is the Word of God. Therefore, it is our weapon.
In Ephesians 6:18 He enables the believer to pray. Paul brings that up one
more time. There is no prayer apart from the Holy Spirit.
We have one body, and that one body is indwelt by one Spirit. Do you
realize what Paul is saying? The same Spirit who lives in you lives in me.
I didn’t get any more or any less than you got. There is only one Spirit,
and He indwells the body.
(3) ONE HOPE
Thirdly, there is only one hope of our [one] calling. Now every time you
find the word "calling" in Scripture, it is in the singular, particularly
in Ephesians. That means there is only one calling. There is not a
different calling for you and a different calling for me. When he speaks
of calling, he is speaking of something else. It refers to the ultimate
goal of our salvation: that every believer is destined to eternal
Christ-like perfection and glory. "Do you mean to tell me God is trying to
make me like Jesus? I thought you said I can’t be like Jesus." Well, now
here is the key. I can’t, but the more I die to self, the less you see of
me and the more you see of Him. He gets stronger in my life. There is
going to come a day, friend, when He is going to transform me, glorify my
body and make me like Him. I will not be a little Jesus, but I will be
like Him. God wants me that way. That is the hope of my calling.
The word "hope;" is never uncertain. The word "hope" means an absolute
certainty. So therefore, I have something ahead of me. I have a goal. One
day I will be made like Him. There is only one hope of one calling. Every
day when you go to work, God wants you to be like Jesus. How do you do
that? Die to self because you can’t be like Him. Christ will be who He is
in your life. You have a hope that one day He is going to transform you
and make you like Jesus. Instead of Jesus living, ruling and reigning in
you, you will rule and reign with Him on this earth. So we have one hope
of one calling.
(4) ONE LORD
Fourthly, there is only one Lord. The term "Lord" always refers to the
Lord Jesus Christ, not to the Holy Spirit, not to the Father. It refers to
Jesus. Of course, Jesus is the fullness of the Godhead bodily. The word
"Lord" refers to the Lord Jesus Christ. Now what does it mean? It means if
He is the only Lord, then He is the only ruler and master over the very
things that knock us down. He rules over sin. He rules over death.
Therefore, He is the only means of our salvation.
The Word of God says there is one Lord and only one way to salvation. One
has ruled over death and sin. That is our Lord Jesus Christ. Acts 4:12
says there is salvation in no one else for there is no other name under
heaven that has been given among men by which we must be saved. Romans
10:12, speaking of Christ, says for the same Lord is Lord over all,
abounding in riches for all who call upon Him. Galatians 1:8 gives a
warning. It says "even though we or an angel from heaven should preach to
you a gospel contrary to that which we have preached to you, let him be
accursed." There is only one Lord, the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. The
word "Lord" is kurios. It means a compassionate, caring ruler and
master. If you are looking for something today, there is only one Lord who
cares about you. There is only one who can give you what you are looking
for. He is the One who rules over life and rules over death. There is only
one Lord, one body, one Spirit, one hope of our calling and one Lord.
(5) ONE FAITH
Fifthly, there is only one faith. If you have one Lord, it necessarily
means you can only have one faith. He is not talking about the act of
faith when a person receives Christ. He is talking about the body of
Scripture, the Bible, that fully reveals Christ in the New Testament and
shadows Him in the Old Testament. There is only one faith. Therefore, to
know about this one Lord, you must know this one faith. You must believe
this book, the embodiment of God’s Word. It is the Scriptures that must
fall on a person’s heart whereby he is saved. It is the seed that convicts
you. It’s not that you are a bad guy. You are just a sinner unable to save
yourself. So therefore, there is only one faith. How are we unified? By
believing this book, by living in it, by studying it and by being diligent
about it. That unifies us as a body.
(6) ONE BAPTISM
The sixth thing Paul mentions is there is only one baptism. Is he talking
about spiritual baptism, which is what happens at salvation when we are
baptized
into the body of Christ, or is he talking about water baptism? I
believe he is talking about water baptism. Water baptism doesn’t save you,
it simply identifies you as a person who has been saved. First of all, if
he was talking about spiritual baptism why didn’t he put it back in verse
4 when he was talking about one Spirit?
Secondly, we live in a culture in America
that does not appreciate baptism. We don’t understand the culture of the
day in which this was written. We don’t understand that when a Jew went
forward and was baptized it cost him everything. His family disowned him.
They walked away from him. It was identifying him as one who had been
spiritually baptized into the body of Christ. There is only one baptism.
This baptism identifies us as believers.
If you were in a Muslim country today and you were baptized you would
understand the weight of that word. If you were in the Jewish faith and
were baptized, you would understand the weight of that word. When we were
over in Romania they had a baptism. The church had asked the people being
baptized not to give their names, their place of residence or where they
work because the Communists were in the services. Do you think it wasn’t
important to those precious people when they got baptized?
When they walked up to be baptized, they gave their name, their address,
their places of residence and if they had phones, they gave their
telephone number. They were overwhelmed with the fact that they had been
spiritually baptized into the body of Christ. This one moment, this one
baptism identified them with believers. They were separated unto Christ.
This meant something in their lives.
(7) GOD AND FATHER OF ALL
Finally Paul says, there is one God and Father of all. Did you realize the
Fatherhood of God is a New Testament doctrine? You don’t find that in the
Old Testament. But guess who it was who taught us the Fatherhood of God.
The Lord Jesus Himself. He revealed God the Father as Father to you and
me. Men did not quite understand that concept. It was alluded to, but
never fully explained like it is in the New Testament. Jesus told His
earthly parents, Joseph and Mary, "I must be about My Father’s business."
He told the disciples in Matthew 6 when they asked Him to pray, "Pray this
way. Our Father…." And the last words He said on earth before He went back
into heaven were, "Wait for the promise of the Father."
We are not only unified by how we behave towards each other, we are
unified by how we believe the doctrines of God, which are seven-fold: one
body, one Spirit, one hope of one calling, one Lord, one faith, one
baptism, one God and Father of all who is over all and through and in all.
We are diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit by the way we behave
and by the way we believe. If you depart from any of this, then you are
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