5:1 Therefore be
imitators of God, as beloved children;2 and walk in love, just as Christ
also loved you, and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to
God as a fragrant aroma.
Turn to Ephesians 5.
We’re looking at "Imitators of God’s Love." I can’t get into chapter 5
unless I back you up. If you don’t see this book as a whole, you miss what
Paul is trying to tell us. There is a divine flow in this wonderful book.
In
Ephesians 1 we find the riches of our salvation. It is important for every
believer to know who he is and what he has in the Lord Jesus Christ.
Ephesians 1:3 sums it all up. He says He has given us every spiritual
blessing in Christ Jesus. The First National Bank of God is Jesus Christ,
and we have everything spiritually that we will ever need in Him. We are
rich today in Jesus Christ.
In Ephesians
2 we find the reasons of our salvation. Why was all this
required? Why did we have to be redeemed? Why did Jesus have to do what He
did? Well, we were dead in our trespasses and our sins, totally unable to
save ourselves. So the Lord Jesus came down and paid a debt He didn’t owe
when we owed a debt we could not pay.
The revelation of our salvation is in
Ephesians
3. You see, this is a mystery. Nobody could ever understand that God not
only loved the Jews but He loved the Gentiles. Not only that, He made it
possible in Jesus that the Jew and the Gentile could be made into one
brand new man in Christ Jesus. Now the Apostle Paul starts off that
chapter wanting to pray but he is overwhelmed. In twelve verses he is just
overwhelmed by his salvation. Finally in verse 14 he gets back to his
prayer. That prayer in Ephesians
3:14-21 is the hinge of the whole book of Ephesians. If you don’t relate
everything to that prayer, you have missed the point of what is happening
in Ephesians. He sums up everything in chapters 1-3 in that prayer and
sets up everything in chapters 4-6 in that prayer.
He is trying to show them what they have in Christ. Here is how you tap
into it. Here is how you appropriate what you have. You know it is a
terrible tragic thing when you can’t get to something that you already
have. That is what Paul is saying. Here is what you have. Here is how you
get to it. He tells them that in the prayer of
Ephesians
3:14-21.
Then in Ephesians
4:1-16 you find out the results of when a person lives in light of what he
has. You see it in his behavior,
Ephesians 4:2-3, in the way he
treats other people in the body of Christ. People ought to be able to come
in, look at us and say,
"Yes sir, these people are saved. They know how to appropriate what is
theirs in Jesus Christ."
You see it in the way we believe.
There are seven doctrines he mentions in verses 4-6. Any time you see a
diversion from those doctrines, immediately you have somebody not living
in the light of what he has already. He doesn’t have to pursue something
else. He already has it.
Then in Ephesians 4:7-16, he shows you when we cooperate with the Holy Spirit,
by being built into the body of Christ, we grow up into maturity. That is
what the body of Christ ought to be, each one maturing in his own gift and
supplying to others what is necessary for the building up of the body in
love.
Then Paul takes a diversion. He has looked at the whole picture and now he
starts zeroing in on you and me as individuals. He says in
Ephesians 4:17-19
that we are not to walk as the Gentiles walk. These are Gentiles he is
writing to in Ephesians and he is saying, "You used to live this way.
Don’t live this way anymore. The Gentiles are darkened in their mentality,
therefore, they are depraved in their morality. You are not to go back and
live that way anymore."
Ephesians 4:20-24
say that you are now to put on a new garment. This new garment, this new
man is a brand new way of living. We have a brand new opportunity, a brand
new potential in our life. Jesus is in us. We can live differently. We can
live life on a higher plane, and that is what he is saying. Put on the new
man.
Then in Ephesians 4:25-30 he begins to show you how that life looks, some of
the fabric of that new garment, that new man, that we put on. Verse 25
says you have a transformed tongue. You don’t lie anymore. He goes on in
verse 26 and says you have a controlled temper. Be angry but don’t sin
with your anger. When you do that, verse 27 says you don’t give the devil
an opportunity. In other words, you have a frustrated tempter. The word
"devil" means one that divides. When you put on the new man, you have
frustrated the tempter.
In Ephesians 4:28 we become givers instead of takers. He said, "let him who
steals, steal no longer." There are a lot of ways to steal. You rob from
others and from God and from yourself when you don’t put on the new
garment. You become a thief, a depleter rather than a replenisher in
people’s lives.
In Ephesians 4:29, you become one who builds up not one who tears down. As a
matter of fact, everything you say builds up the body. It does not tear
the body down. As a result, you do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God.
Ephesians 4:31-32
show you the contrast of the two garments, a beautiful picture here. The
cesspool of the old garment is in verse 31:
"Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away
from you, along with all malice."
Then you see on the other hand the wellspring of the Spirit in verse 32:
"And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other,
just as God in Christ also has forgiven you."
Now in chapter 5, look at the first word. He says, "Therefore."
Any time you see a "therefore," you always look to see what it is there
for. You know what it is there for. I just told you. He says since this
garment is this way and this garment is this way, "Therefore be imitators
of God, as beloved children; and walk in love, just as Christ also loved
you, and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a
fragrant aroma." He is saying,
"Be an imitator of God."
In what way? In the fact that we walk in His love. We are to be the
imitators of God’s love.
Do you know what the word "imitate" means? It is the word mimetes.
It is the word from which we get the English word "mime." Have you ever
seen somebody mime? They don’t say anything, do they? They express it and
when they express it, it is so exaggerated that nobody misses what they
are trying to say. They haven’t said a word. In other words, what Paul is
saying is,
"Don’t talk about His love, walk in His love, live it, express it. Don’t
tell everybody you have it, show them that you have it. Do as God does.
Mime. In other words, live it out before the world."
This word is important for us to understand.
Look in 1 Corinthians 4:11-16. We find Paul using this same word and it is
very critical to understand it. I just want to make sure you have a real
good grasp on what it means to imitate God, particularly God’s love. Paul
is going to give you a little context here and then we are going to find
the word. He says,
"To this present hour we are both hungry and thirsty,
and are poorly clothed, and are roughly treated, and are homeless; and we
toil, working with our own hands; when we are reviled, we bless; when we
are persecuted, we endure; when we are slandered, we try to conciliate; we
have become as the scum of the world, the dregs of all things, even
until now. I do not write these things to shame you, but to admonish you
as my beloved children. For if you were to have countless tutors in
Christ, yet you would not have many fathers; for in Christ
Jesus I became your father through the gospel. I exhort you therefore, be
imitators of me."
In other words, do as I do. Express it. Don’t tell me that you love Jesus,
show me. I have shown you. I have become the scum of this world because I
want to be only one that loves Jesus Christ. You now show me that you love
Jesus. Do as I do.
In I Corinthians 11:1 he says it again:
"Be imitators of me, just as I also am of Christ."
First Thessalonians 1:6 says the same thing.
6 You also became
imitators of us and of the Lord, having received the word in much
tribulation with the joy of the Holy Spirit,
So does I Thessalonians 2:14,
14 For you,
brethren, became imitators of the churches of God in Christ Jesus that are
in Judea, for you also endured the same sufferings at the hands of your
own countrymen, even as they did from the Jews,
1 Peter 3:13
and who is he who
will be doing you evil, if of Him who is good ye may become imitators?
(Only in Textus Receptus, this is Young's Literal translation)
and Hebrews 6:12.
12 that you may
not
be sluggish, but imitators of those who through faith and patience inherit
the promises.
Mimetes
means "do as I do."
So what we are seeing here in Ephesians is, do as God does. Imitate God.
Mime Him. Don’t talk it, walk it. Express God’s love to one another. That
is what the new garment is all about. It shows itself in relationships.
Now I am sure somebody is saying,
"Now wait a minute. Hold on. How in the world am I going to imitate God?"
The word "love" that we are looking at in verses 1-2 is a love that is far
beyond what any man could ever attain. No man, regardless of how sincere
he is, can work up this kind of love. This is God’s love.
To be an imitator of God is not something you do for Him. It is something
God has to do through you. Let me show you this. There are two things that
are very critical that we need to understand in this text. First of all,
in order to imitate God’s love, we have to be His child. The verse is very
clear. He says in verse 1 again,
"Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children."
This is a command, present imperative. We never have an option in this as
believers. Since we have all that we have in Christ, we are never to have
an option. It is a command.
Let’s look at the word "children." There is a word for child in the Greek
that means an infant that has just been born. That is not the word
mentioned here. There is another word for child that means one that is
grown up and matured, huios. That is not the word that is used
here. The word that is used here is the word teknon. It is
the word that means an offspring of someone. It is a child, but it has to
do with the fact that you bear the characteristics and the nature of your
father.
"Oh, you mean to tell me to love as God loves, I am going to have to have
His nature within me?"
That is exactly right. That is exactly what happens when you receive
Christ into your life. His very nature comes into your life. His spirit
unites with your spirit and my spirit, and therefore, we have the
potential now out of that nature to love as He loves.
Look over in 2 Peter 1:4. I want you to see this.
"For by these He has
granted to us His precious and magnificent promises, in order that by them
you might become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the
corruption that is in the world by lust."
In other words, I partake of the divine nature. His Spirit living in us
gives us that brand new nature of the Lord Jesus Christ. So when we are
commanded to love on a supernatural level, we have the potential of doing
it if we are His children and bear His nature.
I can’t be like Him until His nature is within me. I must be His child
before I can be an imitator of God’s love. His Spirit in me is His nature
in me. Look back in Ephesians 3:16:
"that He would grant you, according to
the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with power [dunamis,
which means ability that is beyond yourself] through His Spirit in the
inner man."
Why is the Spirit of God within me? The Spirit of God is in me to enable
me to live on the plane that God commands me to live. He strengthens with
His power. What is the fruit of the Spirit? The fruit is the manifestation
that His Spirit has enacted in my life. The fruit of the Spirit, Galatians
5:22 says, is love. That love is a divine, supernatural, unconditional
love that is only from the nature of God that is within me. So therefore,
before I can be an imitator of God’s love or even put on that garment, I
have to be His child. I have to possess His nature. Like Father, like son.
The second thing not only must I be His child, but I must choose to obey
His command. I want to share something with you, loving on this level is
not a feeling. It is not something that is going to happen to you because
you had your quiet time. It is not something that is going to happen to
you because you sincerely want it to happen to you. It is something that
is going to happen when you choose to love others around you. The very
fact that this is an unconditional love means there are going to be people
out there who aren’t going to deserve it and you are not going to want to
love them. It is a command. We have to say,
"God, I in my flesh don’t want to do this, but in my spirit I know that I
am commanded and I choose to do it. I don’t feel like it."
It is a choice you have got to make. Husband, wife, are you living with
somebody that is unlovable? If you possess the nature of God, you are
commanded to love. You have to make your own personal choice to do it.
When you choose to do it, and when you choose to be strengthened as 3:17 says, when you start accommodating Jesus in all the rooms of
your heart, by your faith, by your obedience, then you begin to experience
His power. That is what every one of us lacks. We don’t have it apart from
Him. When we are His children, we have His nature.
Paul gives us a standard for that love that is incredible. He says, "walk
in love, just as Christ also loved you, and gave Himself up for us, an
offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma." The standard is the
way He loved us. Oh, folks, do you realize what he is saying? We have been
much loved. If you are a believer, it cost God a great expense. That same
willingness to pay that same kind of price is now asked of us, commanded
of us. We are to have that same willingness to love others who don’t
deserve it in our life, just as He gave of Himself. This is God we are
talking about.
As a matter of fact, Paul says that you are to be imitators of God as what
kind of children? Beloved children. You know why we should be walking in
love? Because we have been loved so much. Now, if Paul had started off in
chapter 1 and said that, it wouldn’t have made any sense. But since it is
in chapter 5 it makes a whole lot of sense. How have we been loved? Look
in 1:4, just to remind you. The last two words of verse 4 and on into
verse 5 says,
"In love He predestined us to adoption as sons through Jesus Christ to
Himself."
God loved us. Do you think we deserved it? We lost our right to relate to
Him when Adam sinned. However, God chose before the foundation of the
world, based on information He already knew, that His creation would
reject Him. He chose to have us adopted back into His family by being born
again, providing Jesus as the sacrifice eternally for our sins. God loved
us, so He chose us. We have been loved today. WE are chosen today.
Not only that, look in Ephesians 2:4.
"But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He
loved us, even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us alive
together with Christ (by grace you have been saved)."
You see, it was all His love that did it. We have been much loved. God
loves us right now. He has loved us eternally.
Look in 3:17 at the last phrase:
"and that you, being rooted and grounded in love."
Not only did God love me, not only did He love me enough to come and die
for me, but now when I am saved, He puts me into the soil of His love. He
roots me into it. He grounds me upon it. Everything I do ought to spring
forth out of that love. Everything I do ought to be built upon that love.
I have that kind of potential today. I am beloved as a child. I need to
love because I have been loved.
When you understand that, look at how it effects our relationship. Look at
Ephesians 4:2:
"with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing forbearance to
one another in love."
Do you realize the love that we express to one another causes us to
forbear each other? I have to put up with you. You have to put up with me.
We have to put up with each other. Do you know why? Because if we walk in
love, which we are commanded to do, then we are going to forbear one
another, we are going to have patience with one another, we are going to
have all the things that make up forbearance. That is what makes
relationships last.
Do you realize what that will do to a family? You will forbear one
another. Even when things are bad, you will forbear. Why? You have the
nature of God within you. You have chosen. You have been loved and you’ve
made the choice to love now with that same love the people that are around
you. What is going on in your family? What is going on in your marriage? I
want to tell you something, folks, if you will come to Jesus, you will
find your solution. That is not a simple statement, that is a very
profound statement. If you are a believer, He has given you His nature and
you can love when you don’t feel like it or when others around you don’t
deserve it. You’ll even forbear one another.
In Ephesians 4:15, look at what it says. The truth is confirmed by this
love:
"but speaking the truth in love."
Now you know when we studied this that the word "speaking" is not even in
the text. It means to confirm something, to express something. Anytime you
express truth or confirm it, it has to be in love. Love is the
confirmation of truth. It confirms everything we do when it is a part of
our life. It is not something you tell people you have. It is something
you mime. It is something you show them that you have. It automatically
confirms the truth that is within you.
Look also at Ephesians 4:16. This is how the body is built up. It’s not
just by teaching, or just by the gifts being exercised. Oh no. All of it
has to be surrounded by one quality:
"from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by that which
every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual
part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in
love."
The body can’t even be built up unless that love is present. It perfects
its own building up if we are walking in love.
Look at 5:25. It is the only thing that will purify your family. Husbands,
it starts with us. It doesn’t start with our wives. It starts with you and
me. Paul is very specific about it. He says in verse 25,
"Husbands, love your wives."
You say,
"I can’t."
No, you won’t. If you are a believer, you can. You can choose to do that
and be strengthened in the inner man by His power so that you can imitate
the love of God to your wife.
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave
Himself up for her."
You know, the description of that love is very clear. He gave Himself as
an offering and a sacrifice. So the whole idea here is I die to myself so
that Jesus can be Jesus in me. When Jesus is being Jesus in me, my wife,
my son, my daughter, my son-in-law, all know they are loved. They are
being effected daily by a conscious choice I am making. Most of the time
that is without any feelings. But knowing that I have the nature of God
and choosing to obey His command, they are automatically built up because
of that love. That is the way it works.
"Oh, that doesn’t work for me." No? Then listen, there is something wrong
in you. There is not anything wrong with Him. He has given us everything
necessary for life and godliness. Peter says that. Paul is saying the same
thing. The only reason it won’t work is because we won’t let it work. The
problem is what we look at in the mirror every morning. It is us. Until we
learn to die and make conscious choices to let His nature work, it will
not function the way it is supposed to function