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Ephesians 3:18 may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, (NASB: Lockman)

Greek: hina exischusete (2PPAAS)  katalabesthai (AMN) sun pasin tois hagiois ti to platos kai mekos kai hupsos kai bathos,
Amplified:  That you may have the power and be strong to apprehend and grasp with all the saints [God’s devoted people, the experience of that love] what is the breadth and length and height and depth [of it];   (Amplified Bible - Lockman)
Barclay: you may have the strength fully to grasp the meaning of the breadth and length and depth and height of Christ’s love, (Westminster Press)
NET: you may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth,   (NET Bible)
NLT:  And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is. (NLT - Tyndale House)
Phillips:  may be able to grasp (with all Christians) how wide and deep and long and high is the love of Christ - (
Phillips: Touchstone)
Wuest: in order that you may be able to grasp with all the saints what is the breadth and width and height and depth,  (
Erdmans
Young's Literal:  that ye may be in strength to comprehend, with all the saints, what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height,

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MAY BE ABLE TO COMPREHEND WITH ALL THE SAINTS: hina exischusete (2PPAAS)  katalabesthai (AMN) sun pasin tois hagiois: (Eph  3:19; 1:18-23; Job 11:7-9; Psalms 103:11,12,17; 139:6; Isaiah 55:9; John 15:13; Galatians 2:20; 3:13; Philippians 2:5-8; 3:8-10; 1 Timothy 1:14-16; 3:16; Titus 2:13,14; Revelation 3:21)  (1:10,15; Deuteronomy 33:2,3; 2 Chronicles 6:41; Psalms 116:15; 132:9; 145:10; Zechariah 14:5; 2 Corinthians 13:13; Colossians 1:4)

Hina (2443) introduces a purpose clause but is left untranslated in the NAS. The Amplified translates it "that you have the power..."

Eadie explains hina writing that this...

conjunction expresses the design which these previous petitions had in view. Their being strengthened, their being inhabited by Christ, and their “having been rooted and grounded in love,” not only prepared them for this special study, but had made it their grand object. By a prior invigoration they were disciplined to it, and braced up for it—“that ye may be fully able”—fully matched to the enterprise.  (John Eadie, D., LL.D. The Epistle of St Paul to the Ephesians)

May be able (1840) (exischuo from ek = an intensifies + ischuo = to be strong, able - see related word  ischus) means to be eminently able, to have strength enough, to be quite able to do, to be in full strength, to be fully able. This compound word is one of the strongest Greek words for strength and signifies one completely capable of doing or experiencing something.

In the English rendering it is easy to pass over the may be able which is brought out more graphically in other translations like the Amplified which renders it...

That you may have the power and be strong to apprehend and grasp

The point is that the preface asking for power to grasp implies that divine enabling is essential. It conveys the ability to attain an objective, in this case to lay hold of.

Vincent writes that exischuo

occurs only here. The preposition ex has the force of fully or eminently. Ischus is strength embodied; inhering in organized power. Hence it is an advance on dunamei or might in Eph 3:16. Paul prays that the inward might or virtue may issue in ability to grasp. Compare Lu 14:30; 16:3; Acts 27:16; Jas. 5:16, and see notes.

Comprehend (2638) (katalambano from katá = intensifies + lambáno = take <> English - catalepsy = condition characterized by a trance or seizure and of suspended animation and loss of sensation and of voluntary motion in which the limbs remain rigidly in whatever position they are placed) means literally to take eagerly or to seize and thus to make something one's own or to hold as one's own. Katalambano  can mean to gain control of someone through pursuit. In secular Greek katalambano was employed to describe a fight against a strong opponent or sacking an acropolis, where strength was required to accomplish both tasks.

Figuratively, as used in this verse katalambano means to "seize", grasp or apprehend with the mind, and thus to perceive or comprehend. The idea is of grasping mentally.

Our English word comprehend carries the idea of mentally grasping something, while apprehend suggests laying hold of it for yourself. In other words, it is possible to understand something but not really make it your own. Paul’s concern is that we lay hold of the vast expanses of the love of God. He wants us to live supernaturally in four  dimensions. When God gave the land to Abraham, He told him to

“walk through the land in the length of it and in the breadth of it” (Genesis 13:17).

Abraham had to step out by faith and claim his inheritance. A similar principle is seen in Joshua, in which Jehovah states that..

"Every place on which the sole of your foot treads, I have given it to you, just as I spoke to Moses." (Joshua 1:3) (Comment: Did you see the principle? God had already bequeathed it to Joshua, but Joshua would not fully realize the reality of what was his promised possession without obedience to God's call to step out. In Ephesians 1:3 [see notes] Paul declares God's promise to believers that they have been blessed with "every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus". Beloved, has the "sole of your foot tread" on these promised spiritual blessings? Step out by faith, remembering that genuine faith equates with Spirit enabled, grace saturated obedience. What is it in which you repeatedly willfully refuse to obey God?)

Warren Wiersbe adds that...

The English words “comprehend” and “apprehend” both stem from the Latin word prehendere which means “to grasp.” We say that a monkey has a “prehensile tail.” That is, its tail is able to grasp a tree limb and hold on. Our word comprehend carries the idea of mentally grasping something; while apprehend suggests laying hold of it for yourself. In other words, it is possible to understand something but not really make it your own. Paul’s concern is that we lay hold of the vast expanses of the love of God. He wants us to live in four dimensions. When God gave the land to Abraham, He told him to “walk through the land in the length of it and in the breadth of it” (Ge 13:17). Abraham had to step out by faith and claim his inheritance. But we today have an inheritance in four dimensions: breadth, length, depth, and height. God’s fourth dimension is love! (Wiersbe, W: Bible Exposition Commentary. 1989. Victor)

A believer cannot understand the fullness of God’s love apart from genuine, Spirit-empowered love in his own life.

With all the saints - Wuest says that this phrase indicates...

that this spiritual capacity is not limited to a few select saints, but is the common property of all those saints who are the recipients of the strengthening fulness of the Holy Spirit. (Wuest, K. S. Wuest's Word Studies from the Greek New Testament: Eerdmans)

Saints (40) (hagios) (Click word study on hagios) is literally holy one and refers to one set apart (sanctified) for a special purpose. Hagios describes every saint's position in Christ as set apart from that which is secular, profane, and evil and on the other hand dedicated to worship and service of God. We are holy ones both in character and conduct set apart by God to be exclusively His, dedicated to Him and manifesting holiness of heart and conduct.

Hagios was used throughout the NT to speak of anyone or anything that represents God’s holiness: Christ as the Holy One of God, the Holy Spirit, the Holy Father, holy Scriptures, holy angels, holy brethren, and so on.

The Gentiles understood this term because among the pagans, hagios signified separated and dedicated to the idolatrous gods and carried no idea of moral or spiritual purity.  The manmade gods were as sinful and degraded as the men who made them and there simply was no need for a word that represented righteousness! The worshipper of the pagan god acquired the character of that pagan god and the religious ceremonies connected with its worship. The Greek temple at Corinth housed a large number of harlots who were connected with the "worship" of the Greek god. Thus, the set-apartness or holiness of the Greek worshipper was in character licentious, totally depraved, and sinful. 

WHAT IS THE BREADTH AND LENGTH AND HEIGHT AND DEPTH: ti to platos kai mekos kai hupsos kai bathos :  (Romans 10:3,11,12

Although it does not specifically state what these measurements represent, from the context many commentators interpret this as a reference to the love of Christ, which is immeasurable.

Expositor's Bible Commentary interprets this passage as...

The apostle is simply telling us that the love of Christ, exemplified in his magnanimity to the Gentiles, is too large to be confined by any geometrical measurements. It is wide enough to reach the whole world and beyond (Eph 1:9, 10, 20). It is long enough to stretch from eternity to eternity (Eph 1:4-6, 18; 3:9). It is high enough to raise both Gentiles and Jews to heavenly places in Christ Jesus (Eph 1:13; 2:6). It is deep enough to rescue people from sin's degradation and even from the grip of Satan himself (Eph 2:1-5; 6:11, 12). The love of Christ is the love he has for the church as a united body (Eph 5:25, 29, 30) and for those who trust in him as individuals (Eph 3:17). (Gaebelein, F, Editor: Expositor's Bible Commentary 6-Volume New Testament. Zondervan Publishing)

Barnes agrees writing...

The apostle evidently meant to express the strongest sense of the greatness of the love of the Redeemer, and to show, in the most emphatic manner, how-much he wished that they should fully understand it. (Albert Barnes. Barnes NT Commentary)

The Stoics resorted to these terms to express the totality of the universe and the astrologers utilized them in their calculations. Such applications, however, are not reflected here.

Breadth (4114) (platos from platus = broad) is a measurement of width or extent from side to side and is used figuratively to refer to great expanses. Breadth means something of full width or of comprehensive quality.

Length (3372) (mekos) means the longer dimension of something and is used figuratively.

Height (5311) (hupsos from húpsi = high, aloft)  means elevation.

Depth (899) (bathos) from bathus = deep) means a part that is far from the outside or surface and metaphorically in this verse conveys the senses of profoundness, inscrutability or abstruseness.

Take the World, but Give Me Jesus
by Fanny Crosby (Play hymn)
O the height and depth of mercy!
O the length and breadth of love!
O the fullness of redemption—
Pledge of endless life above!

O'Brien notes that...

Paul asks first that his readers might comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth, length, height, and depth (v.18b). This request is made without any mention of an object of these four dimensions. Does this formula stand for the dimensions of the cosmos? Or the inexhaustible greatness of some object? And what is the relationship of this formula to the second element of the petition, namely, that the readers might know the love of Christ?... (after surveying the major contenders for the object of this phrase O'Brien writes that) Although it is not possible to be certain, on contextual grounds a reference to the love of Christ is preferable. (O'Brien, P. T. The Letter to the Ephesians. W. B. Eerdmans. 1999 or computer version)

A T Pierson once wrote that Paul...

treats the love of God as a cube, having breadth and length, depth and height. The reason is that the cube in the Bible is treated as a perfection of form. Every side of a cube is a perfect square, and from every angle it presents the same appearance. Turn it over, and it is still a cube—just as high, deep, and broad as it was before. (Comment: As someone has also noted the Holy of Holies was cube-shaped, so is the New Jerusalem, and so is the love of God!)

F. B. Meyer writes that...

There will always be as much horizon before us as behind us. And when we have been gazing on the face of Jesus for millenniums, its beauty will be as fresh and fascinating and fathomless as when we first saw it from the gate of Paradise.

Morris comments that...

The love of Christ is thus four-dimensional, with "depth" and "height" considered as separate dimensions. Since the height of the universe is also infinite (Isaiah 55:9), this suggests the time dimension. "Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love," God says, "therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee" (Jeremiah 31:3). (Morris, Henry: Defenders Study Bible. World Publishing)

Ryrie expresses these dimensions as follows...

The love of Christ includes all, extends from eternity to eternity, seats us in the heavenlies, and reaches down to our alienated position. (The Ryrie Study Bible: New American Standard Translation: 1995. Moody Publishers)

Boice offers the following illustration writing that...

In the last century, when Napoleon’s armies opened a prison that had been used by the Spanish Inquisition they found the remains of a prisoner who had been incarcerated for his faith. The dungeon was underground. The body had long since decayed. Only a chain fastened around an anklebone cried out his confinement. But this prisoner, long since dead, had left a witness. On the wall of his small, dismal cell this faithful soldier of Christ had scratched a rough cross with four words surrounding it in Spanish. Above the cross was the Spanish word for “height.” Below it was the word for “depth.” To the left the word “width.” To the right, the word “length.” Clearly this prisoner wanted to testify to the surpassing greatness of the love of Christ, perceived even in his suffering. (Boice, J. M.: Ephesians: An Expositional Commentary)

Elisabeth Barrett Browning wrote

“How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach....”

However only God loves us with infinite dimensions and to an endless degree!

The Love of God
by Frederick M. Lehman (Play Hymn)

The love of God is greater far than tongue or pen can ever tell,
It goes beyond the highest star and reaches to the lowest hell,
The guilty pair, bowed down with care, God gave His Son to win:
His erring child He reconciled and pardoned from his sin.

When years of time shall pass away and earthly thrones and kingdoms fall,
When men, who here refuse to pray, on rocks and hills and mountains call,
God’s love so sure shall still endure, all measureless and strong:
Redeeming grace to Adam’s race—the saints’ and angels’ song.

Could we with ink the ocean fill and were the skies of parchment made,
Were ev’ry stalk on earth a quill and ev’ry man a scribe by trade
To write the love of God above would drain the ocean dry,
Nor could the scroll contain the whole tho stretched from sky to sky.
(see note below regarding this stanza)

O love of God, how rich and pure!
How measureless and strong!
It shall forevermore endure—
the saints’ and angels’ song.

The story behind the words in this famous hymn is as follows...

The lyrics are based on the Jewish poem Haddamut, written in Aramaic in 1050 by Meir Ben Isaac Nehorai, a cantor in Worms, Germany; they have been translated into at least 18 languages. (As the story is told)

One day, during short intervals of inattention to our work, we picked up a scrap of paper and, seated upon an empty lemon box pushed against the wall, with a stub pencil, added the (first) two stanzas and chorus of the song…Since the lines (3rd stanza from the Jewish poem - beginning "Could we with ink the ocean fill...") had been found penciled on the wall of a patient’s room in an insane asylum after he had been carried to his grave, the general opinion was that this inmate had written the epic in moments of sanity.

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F B Meyer writes the following devotional entitled "The Dimensions of God's Love" in "Our Daily Walk"

THE DIMENSIONS of the Love of Christ!

It is broad as humanity, "for God so loved the world";

the length God's love had no date of origin, and shall have none of conclusion. God is Love, it continueth ever, indissoluble, unchangeable, a perpetual present tense.

Its height--as the Flood out-topped the highest mountains, so that Love covers our highest sins. It is as high as the heaven above the earth.

Its depth--Christ our Lord descended into the lowest before He rose to the highest. He has touched the bottomless pit of our sin and misery, sorrow and need. However low your fall, or lowly your lot, the everlasting arms of His love are always underneath.

The Apostle talks by hyperbole, when he prays that we may attain to a knowledge of the knowledge-surpassing love of Christ. We cannot gauge Christ's love, but we can enjoy it. Probably the only way to know the love of Christ is to begin to show it. The emotionalist, who is easily affected by appeals to the senses, does not know it; the theorist or rhapsodist does not know it, but the soul that endeavours to show the love of Christ, knows it. As Christ's love through you broadens, lengthens, deepens, heightens, you will know the love of Christ, not intellectually, but experimentally (1John 4:11, 1John 4:12; 1John 4:20-21).

But you say, "there are people in my life whom I cannot love." Granted, but you must distinguish between love and the emotion or feeling of love. You may not be able to feel love at the outset, but you can be willing to be the channel of Christ's love. I cannot love, but Christ is in me, and He can. Is it too much to ask that all this should be realized in ourselves and in others? No, because God is already at work within us by His Holy Spirit, and He is able to do infinitely beyond all our highest requests or thoughts. Ask your furthest, think your highest, and the Divine Love is always infinitely in advance.

PRAYER - We thank Thee, O God, for the infinite love which Thou hast given us in Jesus Christ. We have no measure for its heights and depths, its breadths and lengths. Teach us with all saints to know more because we love more. AMEN.

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The Puritan Thomas Brooks  writes devotional thoughts on Ephesians 3:18-19 ...

 Stand still and admire and wonder at the love of Jesus Christ to sinners—that Christ would rather die for us than for the angels. They were creatures of a more noble extract and in all probability might have brought greater revenues of glory to God; yet that Christ should pass by those golden vessels and make us vessels of glory—what amazing and astonishing love is this! This is the envy of devils and the admiration of angels and saints.

The angels were more honorable and excellent creatures than we. They were celestial spirits; we, earthly bodies, dust and ashes. They were immediate attendants on God; we, servants of his in the lower house of this world and remote from his glorious presence. Their work was to sing hallelujahs, songs of praise to God in the heavenly paradise; ours, to dress the Garden of Eden, which was only an earthly paradise. They sinned only once and only in thought, as is commonly thought, but Adam sinned in thought by lusting, in deed by tasting, and in word by excusing. Why didn’t Christ suffer for their sins as well as for ours? Or, if for any, why not for theirs rather than ours? We move this question not as being curious to search your secret counsels, O Lord, but that we may more admire the love of Christ, that surpasses knowledge.

The apostle, in admiration of Christ’s love, affirms it to surpass knowledge—that God, who is the eternal Being, should love the human when it had scarcely a being (Pr 8:30-31), that he should be enamored with deformity, that he should pity us when no eye pitied us. Such was Christ’s transcendent love that our extreme misery could not abate it. The deplorableness of our condition only heightened the flame of Christ’s love. It is as high as heaven—who can reach it? It is as low as hell—who can understand it? Such is his perfect, matchless love to fallen people. That Christ’s love should extend to the ungodly, to sinners, to enemies who were in rebellion against him (see notes Romans 5:6; Romans 5:8; Romans 5:10)—yes, not only so, but that he should hug them in his arms, lodge them in his bosom, dandle them on his knees—is the highest refinement of love (Isa 66:11-13).

 That Christ should come from the eternal bosom of his Father to a region of sorrow and death (John 1:18); that God should be made flesh, the Creator made a creature (Isa. 53:4); that he who filled heaven should be cradled in a manger (John 17:5); that the God of strength should be weary; that the judge of all flesh should be condemned; that the God of life should be put to death (John 19:41); that he who had the keys of hell and death should lie imprisoned in the sepulchre of another, having in his lifetime nowhere to lay his head nor, after death, to lay his body (John 19:41–42)—and all this for fallen, miserable human beings—is beyond the thoughts of created natures. The sharp, the universal, and the continual sufferings of our Lord Jesus Christ, from the cradle to the cross, above all other things speaks out the transcendent love of Jesus Christ to sinners. That matchless wrath of an angry God that was so terribly impressed on the soul of Christ quickly sapped his natural strength, yet all this wrath he patiently underwent that sinners might be saved and that he might bring “many sons to glory” (Heb. 2:10).

Oh, wonder of love! Love is submissive, it enables to suffer. So it was love that made our dear Lord Jesus lay down his life to save us from hell and to bring us to heaven. Oh, love unspeakable!

Christ’s love is like his name, and that is Wonderful (Isa. 9:6), so wonderful that it is above all creatures, beyond all measure, contrary to all nature. It is above all creatures, for it is above the angels and therefore above all others. It is beyond all measure, for time did not begin it, and time shall never end it; place does not bound it, sin does not exceed it, understandings cannot conceive it. And it is contrary to all nature, for what nature can love where it is hated? can forgive where it is provoked? can offer reconciliation where it receives wrong? What nature can heap up kindness on contempt, favor on ingratitude, mercy on sin? And yet Christ’s love has led him to all this, so that well may we spend all our days in admiring and adoring this wonderful love and be always captivated with the thoughts of it.

 

Ephesians 3:19 and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God (NASB: Lockman)

Greek: gnonai (AAN) te ten huperballousan (PPPMSD) tes gnoseos agapen tou Christou, hina plerothete (2PAPS) eis pan to pleroma tou theou.
Amplified:  [That you may really come] to know [practically, through experience for yourselves] the love of Christ, which far surpasses mere knowledge [without experience]; that you may be filled [through all your being] unto all the fullness of God [may have the richest measure of the divine Presence, and become a body wholly filled and flooded with God Himself]!  (Amplified Bible - Lockman)
Barclay: and to know the love of Christ which is beyond all knowledge, that you may be filled until you reach the fullness of God himself. (Westminster Press)
NET: and thus to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, so that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God. (NET Bible)
NLT: May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God. (NLT - Tyndale House)
Phillips:  and to know for yourselves that love so far beyond our comprehension. May you be filled though all your being with God himself! (
Phillips: Touchstone)
Wuest: and to know experientially the love of the Christ which surpasses experiential knowledge in order that you may be filled up to the measure of all the fulness of God. (
Erdmans
Young's Literal:  to know also the love of the Christ that is exceeding the knowledge, that ye may be filled--to all the fulness of God;

AND TO KNOW THE LOVE OF CHRIST WHICH SURPASSES KNOWLEDGE: gnonai (AAN) te ten huperballousan (PPPMSD) tes gnoseos agapen tou Christou: (18; 5:2,25; John 17:3; 2 Corinthians 5:14; Galatians 2:20; Philippians 2:5-12; Colossians 1:10; 2 Peter 3:18; 1 John 4:9-14)  (Philippians 1:7

Paul wants the readers to be empowered so as to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge.  Note that this is not a petition that the believers might love Christ more, as important as that is but rather that they might understand in the experiential dimension Christ's love for them. He is not referring to their knowing as simply a mental exercise or simple intellectual reflection. Paul wants them to be empowered so as to grasp the dimensions of that love in their own experience. The paradox of course is that he prays for them to experientially know the unknowable, which parallels "breadth and length and height and depth" (assuming that those parameter also refer to the love of Christ which as discussed above is difficult to state with dogmatism). As O'Brien explains regarding the love of Christ...

We can never plumb its depths or comprehend its magnitude. No matter how much we know of the love of Christ, how fully we enter into His love for us, there is always more to know and experience. And the implication, in the light of the following words, is that we cannot be as spiritually mature as we should be unless we are empowered by God to grasp the limitless dimensions of the love of Christ. (O'Brien, P. T. The Letter to the Ephesians. W. B. Eerdmans. 1999 or computer version)

Know (1097) (ginosko) conveys the basic meaning of taking in knowledge in regard to something or someone and speaks of knowledge that goes beyond the merely factual and into the realm of the experiential (Christianity is to be "felt"!). By extension, the term frequently was used of a special relationship between the person who knows and the object of the knowledge. It was often used of the intimate relationship between husband and wife and between God and His people.

Paul wanted them to experience the love of Christ, which in its fullest extent surpasses human knowledge. Thus the idea is that in this knowledge there is a personal involvement with the "love of Christ", to know by experience the unknowable!

Vincent writes that "to know" means...

Practically, through experience; while apprehend marks the knowledge as conception.

Love of Christ - Christ’s love to us. Human love to Christ could not be described in these terms.

Love (26) (agape) is unconditional, sacrificial love which God is. It is love which is commanded in believers, empowered by His Spirit, activated by personal choice of one's will, is not based on one's feelings toward the object of one's love and is manifested by specific actions (see 1Cor 13:4-8 for a succinct list of these actions)

It’s Just Like His Great Love
by Edna R. Worrell  (Play hymn)

A Friend I have, called Jesus,
Whose love is strong and true,
And never fails how e’er ’tis tried,
No matter what I do;

I’ve sinned against this love of His,
But when I knelt to pray,
Confessing all my guilt to Him,
The sin-clouds rolled away.

O, I could sing forever of Jesus’ love divine,
Of all His care and tenderness for this poor life of mine;
His love is in and over all, and wind and waves obey,
When Jesus whispers “Peace, be still!” and rolls the clouds away.

Surpasses (4138) (huperballo from hupér = above + bállo = cast) literally means throwing beyond the usual mark and figuratively referring to a degree which exceeds extraordinary.  It is cast into a totally different realm where the normal faculties of rational apprehension are incapable of functioning.

Vincent remarks on "which passeth knowledge" writing that it is that...

Which surpasses mere knowledge without the experience of love.

Knowledge (1108) (gnosis) is the content of what is known. It describes the comprehension or intellectual grasp of something. It refers to experiential knowledge or knowledge gained by experience (as contrasting with intuitive knowledge that one has innately). As an aside gnosis was the characteristic word of the Gnostics, one of the most formidable enemies of the Church of the second century. The Gnostics claimed a superior knowledge peculiar to an intellectual caste (they are still "alive and well" in 21st century Christianity!)

This phrase parallels “the unfathomable riches of Christ” (see notes Ephesians 3:8)

Boice asks a reasonable question...

If it surpasses knowledge, how are we to grasp or know it? There are two answers.

First, although we cannot exhaust the love of Christ by our knowledge, we can nevertheless know this love truly. It is the same with the knowledge of God generally. We cannot know exhaustively, but we can know truly. So although, in the same way, we cannot know all of Christ’s love for us, we can know that what we perceive as Christ’s love is truly love. The love of Christ that we know at the beginning of our Christian life is the same love that we will know (though more fully) at the end.

Second, we are to grow in our awareness of that love, particularly through the routine hardships, sufferings, and persecutions of life. Here is where the matter of the dimensions “wide and long and high and deep” comes in. (Boice, J. M.: Ephesians: An Expositional Commentary)

Devotional from Amazing Grace on the Amazing Love of Jesus...

Who can fully grasp the dimensions of God’s great love for us? Yet the Scriptures teach that we are to have a growing awareness of divine love. Love is the very heart and essence of God, not only for the lovely but for the vilest of sinners. Christ did not die merely to display God’s love—He died because God is love (1 John 4:8). If the New Testament teaches us anything, it teaches us about God’s love in searching for lost men. Becoming a Christian in a very real sense is simply putting ourselves in the way of being found by God—to stop running from His loving pursuit.

As we mature in the Christian faith, we begin to realize that every situation that comes our way is an opportunity for God’s love to be made more evident in our lives. Once we realize this, our attitude changes dramatically toward suffering people as well as toward ourselves when we are called to suffer. Then even during those times when our spiritual fervor declines and our devotion to God subsides, despite these shortcomings, God’s love remains unfailing—continually working for our eternal good. (
Osbeck, K. W. Amazing Grace: 366 Inspiring Hymn Stories for Daily Devotions. Kregel Publications)
 

O the Deep, Deep Love of Jesus
by Samuel Francis (Play Hymn)
O the deep, deep love of Jesus, vast, unmeasured, boundless, free!
Rolling as a mighty ocean in its fullness over me!
Underneath me, all around me, is the current of Thy love
Leading onward, leading homeward to Thy glorious rest above!

O the deep, deep love of Jesus, spread His praise from shore to shore!
How He loveth, ever loveth, changeth never, nevermore!
How He watches o’er His loved ones, died to call them all His own;
How for them He intercedeth, watcheth o’er them from the throne!

O the deep, deep love of Jesus, love of every love the best!
’Tis an ocean full of blessing, ’tis a haven giving rest!
O the deep, deep love of Jesus, ’tis a heaven of heavens to me;
And it lifts me up to glory, for it lifts me up to Thee!

Ruth Paxson writes...

"To know the love of Christ." We can know that Christ loved us and gave Himself for us. We can know the faithfulness of His love as manifested in countless ways every day of our lives; its tenderness as it comforts us in suffering and sorrow; its fellowship as it shares with us everything it possesses; its patience as it forgives us the seventy times seven. We can also daily add to our knowledge of the love of Christ as we company with Him in prayer and in the the study of His Word; as we fellowship with other saints who know and experience deeply the love of Christ; and as we enter more fully into the fellowship of his sufferings, "filling up on our part that which is lacking of the afflictions of Christ for his body's sake" (Colossians 1:24).

"Which passeth knowledge." But there is a love of Christ that is knowledge-surpassing. The expression of Christ's love is knowable, but the essence of it is unknowable. We can never know the love that paid the cost of leaving His eternal home in the Father's bosom in the heavenly glory and of coming to a world that rejected and crucified Him. We can never know the knowledge-surpassing love that voluntarily emptied itself of its inherent glory and was made in the likeness of men and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross. We can never know the love that on Calvary's Cross suffered the anguish of heart compressed in that cry, "My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?" We can only confess our utter inability to comprehend such love and tell Him that it makes Him unspeakably precious to us, more precious than anyone or anything in heaven or upon earth. We can respond with a love for Him that sweeps our life clean of all counter-loves and that leads us to go to the uttermost limit of our capacity in adoration of and devotion to Him.  (The Wealth, Walk and Warfare of the Christian)

"It passeth knowledge, that dear love of thine,
My Jesus, Saviour; yet this soul of mine
Would of thy love in all its breadth and length,
Its height and depth and everlasting strength,
Know more and more."

THAT YOU MAY BE FILLED UP TO ALL THE FULLNESS OF GOD: hina plerothete (2PAPS) eis pan to pleroma tou theou: (1:23; Psalms 17:15; 43:4; Matthew 5:6; John 1:16; Colossians 2:9,10; Revelation 7:15-17; Revelation 21:22-24; 22:3-5)

Paul's prayer to the Father reaches its climax in this final, summarizing request. Thus we note that as believers are strengthened in the inner man through the Spirit and Christ dwells comfortably at home in their hearts through faith and they know in a personal, experiential way more of the immeasurable love of Christ, based on these spiritual dynamics, believers will be filled to the measure of all the fulness of God.

That (hina) introduces a purpose clause which depicts the grand purpose and result.

Filled up to - to the measure or standard of.

May be filled up (4137)(pleroo) (Click word study on pleroo) means to be filled (passive voice = saints acted on by outside force) to the brim (a net, Mt 13:48, a building, Jn 12:3,