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HE WHO CONCEALS HIS TRANSGRESSIONS: (Conceals: Pr 10:12 17:9 Ge 3:12,13 4:9 1Sa 15:13,24 Job 31:33 Ps 32:3,
4, 5 Jer 2:22,23 Mt 23:25-28)
Whoever acknowledges sin, God will
cover it.
Whoever covers it, God will lay it open.
He who conceals His transgressions
- From whom are they "concealed"? Certainly not from God for "The eyes of the
LORD are in every place, watching the evil and the good." (Pr 15:3) And not
even from one's self for conscience is always aware of the offense against
God whether it is acknowledged as such or not. That leaves other men before
whom we conceal our transgressions, but even that is not a "safe house" for
God through Moses says "be sure your sin will find you out." (Nu 32:23). And
thus the folly and futility of attempting to conceal sin! Is there some sin
in your life that you think is secret? You need to think again. "Secret" sin
on earth is open scandal in heaven!
OUR
INHERENT TENDENCY TO CONCEAL SIN
IS INHERITED FROM ADAM
When we sin, our natural tendency is to conceal the sin. If you wonder where
this basic instinct of fallen man comes from, we need to look no further
than the Garden of Eden. What was the effect of the first sin on the
original sinner?
Then the eyes of both of them (Adam and Eve)
were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves
together and made themselves loin coverings (Concealing their
transgression!). And they heard the sound of the LORD God walking
in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid
themselves from the presence of the LORD God among the trees of the garden.
9 Then the LORD God called to the man, and said to him, "Where are you?" 10
And he said, "I heard the sound of Thee in the garden, and I was afraid
because I was naked; so I hid myself." 11 And He said, "Who told you that
you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you not to
eat?" 12 And the man said, "The woman whom Thou gavest to be with me, she
gave me from the tree, and I ate." (Ge 3:7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12)
Comment: Sin made Adam and Eve seek to hide from God. Then Adam
sought to pass
the blame to his wife, refusing to own up to his own sin, which is another
subtle way we "conceal" our sins (we blame others - this is in my opinion.
Be a Berean - Acts 17:11). Neither of Adam's tactics resulted in him prospering
(that's clearly an understatement!)
Job "commented" on the Genesis
Record of covering sin asking "Have I covered (kacah) my
transgressions like Adam, by hiding my iniquity in my bosom" (Job 31:33 ) (Note:
The fig leaves were an external picture of Adam's attempt to hide the sins
internally, in his bosom. Unconfessed sins cause serious "heart
disturbances"!)
H A Ironside writes that: The
greatest mistake a soul can be guilty of is to attempt to cover sin and
transgression. Yet men invariably avoid speaking out frankly with a
confession of their true state and actions. It seems to be natural to fallen
man (ever since the day that our first parents sought to hide their
nakedness by fig-leaf aprons) to endeavor to cover his shame, hoping to
avoid the just consequences of his sin. But God's Word clearly reveals the
fact that he who justifies himself will finally be condemned. It is the one
who sides with God and condemns himself who is justified from all
things....When a man attempts to cover his own sin, he adds to the dreadful
list, for he is refusing to obey the command that goes out to all men
everywhere calling on them to repent. But when God covers sin, it is done
effectually and perfectly and will never be interfered with for eternity.
Morris comments on our "fig leaf"
attempts to cover our sins: The hasty fabrication of fig leaf aprons
might conceal their procreative organs from each other, but could hardly
hide their sin from God. Neither will the "filthy rags" of self-made
"righteousnesses" (Isaiah 64:6) cover sinful hearts today. The "garments of
salvation" and the "robe of righteousness" (Isaiah 61:10) can be provided
only by God, just as God provided "coats of skins" for Adam and Eve (Genesis
3:21). (Defender's
Study Bible)
Farindon writes: It is the very
nature of sin, not only to infect the soul, but to bewitch it, that it shall
either not feel it or not be willing to evaporate and expel it. Though God
hath set up a tribunal in our hearts, and made every man a judge of his own
actions, yet there is no tribunal on earth so much corrupted and swayed from
its power and jurisdiction as this. No man is so well pleased with any cheat
as that which he puts upon himself. Our conscience checks us, and we silence
it; sin appears and we cover it. This covering of sin is more natural than
any sin beside. ...God hath imprinted upon man a natural shame of sin. God
left this impression of shame upon us to keep us within compass, that we
should not commit sin. But, too
often, what was made as a means to prevent sin is made a cloak to cover it.
Shame is a good buckler to oppose against sin.
Spurgeon comments: No sooner had
man disobeyed his Maker's will in the garden of Eden than he discovered, to
his surprise and dismay, that he was naked, and he set about at once to make
himself a covering. It was a poor attempt which our first parents made, and
it proved a miserable failure. "They sewed fig-leaves together." (Ge 3:7)
After that God came in, revealed to them yet more fully their nakedness,
made them confess their sin, brought their transgression home to them, and
then it is written, the Lord God made them coats of skin (Ge 3:21). Probably
the coats were made of the skins of animals which had been offered in
sacrifice, and, if so, they were a fit type of him who has provided us with
a sin-offering and a robe of perfect righteousness.
Every man since the days of Adam has
gone through much of the same experience, more or less relying on his own
ingenuity to hide his own confusion of face. He has discovered that sin has
made him naked, and he has set to work to clothe himself.
J Vernon
McGee comments that...
This is a great proverb. It seems a common practice today for
Christians to try to cover their sins. You will find in the average church
that there is a Band-Aid of silence wrapped over the cancer of sin. People
don’t like to talk about it; in fact, they don’t admit its existence. They
like to think they are very good.
R F Horton...
Every attempt to conceal from God or from
man or from oneself that one is diseased with sin is ineffectual: every lame
excuse which seeks to palliate the guilt; every hypocritical pretense that
the thing done has not been done, or that it is not what men usually suppose
it to be; every ingenious argumentation which seeks to represent sin as
something other than sin, as a mere defect or taint in the blood, as
hereditary and unavoidable weakness, as an aberration of the mind for which
one is not responsible, or as a merely conventional and artificial offense,
-- all such attempts at hiding must be failures, "covering" of that kind can
be no atonement. Quite the reverse; this trifling with conscience, this
deluded self-righteousness, is the worst possible aggravation of the sin.
Hidden that way, though it be, as it were, in the bowels of the earth, sin
becomes a poisonous gas, more noxious for confinement, and liable to break
out in awful and devastating explosions.
The covering for sin which is spoken of
in Pr 16:6 (atonement ~ covering) is of a very different and of a quite
particular kind. Coming this verse with the others at the head of the
chapter, we may observe that every effectual "covering" of sin in God's
sight involves three elements, - confession, forsaking and a changed
practice. (continued below under confession) (The
Book of Proverbs -by R. F. Horton)
Speaker's Commentary...
If wrong has been done, the course
which man is naturally tempted to take, that of hiding, hushing up, does but
increase his misery. The burden is still on him. The conditions of freedom
are confession and amendment. (Speaker's
Commentary - Proverbs)
Conceals (03680)
(kacah) means literally to cover as the frogs covered Egypt (Ex 8:6),
the Shekinah glory cloud the cloud of God’s glory covered Mount Sinai or the
Tabernacle in the wilderness (Ex 24:15 Nu 9:16), the waters of the Red Sea
covered the Egyptians (Ex 15:5). In its figurative sense kacah can
describe dishonor or shame covering the guilty (Ps 69:7; Jer. 3:25) or the
Israelites’ covering the altar with tears (Mal 2:13).
Kacah is
translated in the Septuagint\Lxx
with the Greek verb
epikalupto [word study]
(from epí = over +
kalúpto = cover) which literally means to conceal, hide, cover
or cover over (as a shroud). Figuratively or metaphorically it means to
cover over sins, i.e., forgive, pardon. Peter uses the derivative noun
epikalumma (1Pe 2:16 = figurative "covering" = a strategy for concealing
something, a pretext,
Lxx = literal cover in 2Sa 17:19).
Epikalupto in Pr 28:13 describes fallen man's habitual [verb here is in the
present tense] tendency to cover over and hide sins.
The first reaction
of sinful man was to hide his sin from God! It is interesting that in
David's confession of sin in Psalm 32 epikalupto conveys the meaning that
God covers over of the sins (a picture of "atonement").
(A Psalm of David. A Maskil.) How blessed
is he whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered (Hebrew =
kacah; Lxx = epikalupto)! How blessed is the man to whom the
LORD does not impute iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit! (Ps
32:1,2) (Click
for discussion of the other use of kacah and epikalupto in this same
psalm - Ps 32:5)
Spurgeon's Comment: Blessed is he
whose transgression is forgiven. He is now blessed and ever shall be. Be he
ever so poor, or sick, or sorrowful, he is blessed in very deed. Pardoning
mercy is of all things in the world most to be prized, for it is the only
and sure way to happiness. To hear from God's own Spirit the words, "absolvo
te" is joy unspeakable. Blessedness is not in this case ascribed to the man
who has been a diligent law keeper, for then it would never come to us, but
rather to a lawbreaker, who by grace most rich and free has been forgiven.
Self righteous Pharisees have no portion in this blessedness. Over the
returning prodigal, the word of welcome is here pronounced, and the music
and dancing begin. A full, instantaneous, irreversible pardon of
transgression turns the poor sinner's hell into heaven, and makes the heir
of wrath a partaker in blessing.
The word rendered forgiven is in
the original taken off or taken away, as a burden is lifted or a barrier
removed. What a lift is here! It cost our Saviour a sweat of blood to bear
our load, yea, it cost him his life to bear it quite away. Samson carried
the gates of Gaza, but what was that to the weight which Jesus bore on our
behalf?
Whose sin is covered (Hebrew =
kacah; Lxx = epikalupto). Covered by God, as the ark was covered
by the mercy seat, as Noah was covered from the flood, as the Egyptians were
covered by the depths of the sea. What a cover must that be which hides away
forever from the sight of the all seeing God all the filthiness of the flesh
and of the spirit! He who has once seen sin in its horrible deformity, will
appreciate the happiness of seeing it no more forever. Christ's atonement is
the propitiation, the covering, the making an end of sin; where this
is seen and trusted in, the soul knows itself to be now accepted in the
Beloved, and therefore enjoys a conscious blessedness which is the antepast
of heaven. It is clear from the text that a man may know that he is
pardoned: where would be the blessedness of an unknown forgiveness? Clearly
it is a matter of knowledge, for it is the ground of comfort.
Kacah - 149v - Ge 7:19f; 9:23;
18:17; 24:65; 37:26; 38:14f; Ex 8:6; 10:5, 15; 14:28; 15:5, 10; 16:13;
21:33; 24:15f; 26:13; 28:42; 29:13, 22; 40:34; Lev 3:3, 9, 14; 4:8; 7:3;
13:12f; 16:13; 17:13; Num 4:5, 8f, 11f, 15; 9:15f; 16:33, 42; 22:5, 11; Deut
13:8; 22:12; 23:13; Josh 24:7; Jdg 4:18f; 1 Sam 19:13; 1Ki 1:1; 7:18, 41f;
11:29; 2Kgs 19:1f; 1Chr 21:16; 2Chr 4:12f; 5:8; Neh 4:5; Job 9:24; 15:27;
16:18; 21:26; 22:11; 23:17; 31:33; 33:17; 36:30, 32; 38:34; Ps 32:1, 5;
40:10; 44:15, 19; 55:5; 69:7; 78:53; 80:10; 85:2; 104:6, 9; 106:11, 17;
140:9; 143:9; 147:8; Pr 10:6, 11f, 18; 11:13; 12:16, 23; 17:9; 24:31; 26:26;
28:13; Eccl 6:4; Isa 6:2; 11:9; 26:21; 29:10; 37:1f; 51:16; 58:7; 59:6;
60:2, 6; Jer 3:25; 46:8; 51:42, 51; Ezek 1:11, 23; 7:18; 12:6, 12; 16:8, 10,
18; 18:7, 16; 24:7f; 26:10, 19; 30:18; 31:15; 32:7; 38:9, 16; 41:16; Hos
2:9; 10:8; Ob 1:10; Jonah 3:6, 8; Mic 7:10; Hab 2:14, 17; 3:3; Mal 2:13, 16
Some transgressions are best
concealed! When we are hurt by another's actions, Solomon advocates that
we conceal or cover over their sins. Just try to do that without the
enablement of God's grace and Spirit!
He who covers (Hebrew = kacah;
Lxx = krupto = to conceal, hide) a transgression
seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates intimate friends.
(Proverbs 17:9)
Comment: There is a proper time to
conceal transgression (to keep it secret) and that is when it is
someone else's transgression. To not conceal it in this context means not to
repeat the person's failure (e.g., instead of gossiping).
Hatred stirs up strife, but love
covers (Hebrew = kacah; Lxx = kalupto = to cover, protect,
hide) all transgressions. (Pr 10:12).
Comment: Love endures and covers
up wrongs by forbearing and forgiving the wrongdoer. This verse is cited in
1Pet 4:8 and Jas 5:20. Love doesn't tell the sin to others. If we are angry
with someone who has sinned against us, aren't we often sorely tempted to
spread the news about their sin rather than covering their sin in order to
protect them? Love does the latter! I failed on this one often and even did
so within the last hour!
A truly good man will be tender towards
every one’s failings but his own. The charity we exercise towards others is,
however, very different from those excuses which we are too apt to form for
ourselves.
Kacah is in the piel stem in Pr
28:13 which
usually expresses an intensive or intentional act. In other words this
person goes to considerable effort to "intentionally" conceal their
transgressions. So this man is intentionally, actively hiding his sin in
secrecy...like Adam and Eve when God came into the Garden of Eden (Ge
3:7,8,9, 10). Hiding sin never pays good dividends - in fact in context it
guarantees a poor return ("will not prosper").
When we try to conceal our
transgressions, this is strong evidence that we really haven't faced our
sins honestly and judged them according to God's Word for what the are - an
affront against His holy character!
Bridges...
The contrast is not between great sins
and small, but between sins covered, and sins confessed and forsaken.
Whosoever covers the smallest sin, shall not prosper. Whosoever confesses
and forsakes the greatest, shall find mercy. " (Proverbs 28:13 Commentary)
Concealing sin from God is
self-deception for no one can hide their sin from the all seeing eyes of God
(Pr 15:3, Pr 5:21-note,
Hebrews 4:13-note)
One of the most dramatic OT examples is Achan who thought he could hide his
sin literally (buried it).
(Achan when confronted by Joshua said)
when I saw among the spoil a beautiful mantle from Shinar and two hundred
shekels of silver and a bar of gold fifty shekels in weight, then I coveted
them and took them; and behold, they are concealed (Heb = taman = hide
something so that it cannot be found; Lxx = krupto = to keep secret, to
hide, English ~ cryptic) in the earth inside my tent with the silver
underneath it." (And just as Pr 28:13 promises, the one who conceals his sin
shall not prosper) ....And Joshua said, "Why have you troubled us? The LORD
will trouble you this day." And all Israel stoned them with stones; and they
burned them with fire after they had stoned them with stones. (Joshua 7:21,
25)
David concealed his sins of adultery
Bathsheba and murder of Uriah for almost nine months which undoubtedly
deceived him into thinking he had "gotten away with it"! Then God sent his
prophet Nathan who confronted David...
Nathan then said to David, "You are the
man! Thus says the LORD God of Israel, 'It is I who anointed you king over
Israel and it is I who delivered you from the hand of Saul....Then David
said to Nathan, "I have sinned against the LORD." And Nathan said to David,
"The LORD also has taken away your sin; you shall not die. (2Sa 12:7, 13,
1-14-note)
Elisha's servant Gehazi tried
to conceal his sin of lying to Naaman and taking money from him when his
master had refused compensation (2Ki 5:21).
But he went in and stood before his
master. And Elisha said to him, "Where have you been, Gehazi?" And he said,
"Your servant went nowhere." (Ed: Gehazi lied to conceal his sin).
Then he said to him, "Did not my heart go with you, when the man turned from
his chariot to meet you? Is it a time to receive money and to receive
clothes and olive groves and vineyards and sheep and oxen and male and
female servants? Therefore, the leprosy of Naaman shall cleave to you and to
your descendants forever." So he went out from his presence a leper as white
as snow. (2Ki 5:25, 26, 27)
Concealing sin is folly for it results
in living a lie much of the time, it precludes forgiveness (1John 1:9), it
causes estrangement from God (Ps 66:18), it produces inner turmoil and
spiritual "dehydration" (Psalm 32:4, 5), and finally concealed sin leads to
festering sin and also to repeated sins.
Sins
concealed by men
can never be
Sins cancelled by God.
Why would one conceal sin if it clearly is not spiritually profitable?
One reason is because of the failure to realize the destructive nature of sin,
either because there is insufficient knowledge of God's standard or there is
failure to do what we know we should (James 4:17) or the fact that sin is
inherently deceptive, so the person is not even aware that they are sinning. Other reasons might be
because one feels it is too painful to face the dishonor and shame or there is too much
pleasure for one to give it up or there is too much pride to admit sin as
sin.
A C Gaebelein...
An important message is contained in
verse 13. Every attempt to cover up sin is a failure. How much
of this is done today, not merely the covering of individual sins, but the
denial of sin itself. The modern theology uses much ingenious argumentation
which tries to make out of sin something else; speaks of it as a mere
defect, as if it were some kind of a taint in the blood, a hereditary and
therefore unavoidable weakness, something for which man is not responsible
(Contrast David's acknowledgement of personal responsibility in Ps 51 "my
transgressions...my iniquity...my sin" Ps 51:1, 2). All these inventions,
which sweep aside the declarations of the infallible Word of God, are
“covering up.” No mercy can there be for those who deny sin and sins. The
fig leaves must be torn away with which man still tries to cover his
nakedness. There must be confession, repentance, self-judgment and then of
course trust in Him who died for the ungodly. (Proverbs 28:13 Commentary)
Transgressions - Is in the
plural which prompts Perowne to comments that...
No sin ever stands alone: each single
transgression is the mother of many transgressions: each is a root of
bitterness whence spring many bitter branches, so that we cannot one sin
without confessing many. (Beloved, how true this is in my personal
experience. It is not your experience also?) (The
Book of Psalms)
Transgressions (06588)
(pesha') is derived from a root describing the breach of relationship
between two parties (civil or religious). The idea of this noun is that the
individual makes a willful choice to reject God's authority and hence to
deviate from the path of godly living. Defection from God's standard.
Pesha' describes a rising up in clear defiance to authority. A revolt
against God's standards. In short, pesha' focuses on the rebellious
nature of the sin (E.g., Ge 50:17) and means to go beyond the limits set by
(a moral principle, standard, law, etc.).
Rebellion is inherent in this
word for sin. The English word rebellion is ugly and describes open, usually
unsuccessful defiance or resistance to an established government, in this
case God. An open and avowed renunciation of the authority of God to Whom
one owes his allegiance. Do we really understand that this is what we do
when we willfully choose to sin against a law or commandment that we clearly
know? It is utter spiritual insanity! Like one person said when we act this
way we are in essence "practical atheists!"
Boice...
It refers to crossing a forbidden
boundary with the thought that this is a serious rebellion.
The 1828 Webster's dictionary says
that transgression is
The act of passing over or beyond any law
or rule of moral duty; the violation of a law or known principle of
rectitude; breach of command.
Albert Barnes said that sin...
always renders the mind blind, and the
heart hard, and shrouds everything in the moral world in midnight.
Entanglement by the Cords of one's
own Sin - Not long after a wealthy contractor had finished building the
Tombs prison in New York, he was found guilty of forgery and sentenced to
several years in the prison he had built! As he was escorted into a cell of
his own making, the contractor said, “I never dreamed when I built this
prison that I would be an inmate one day.” (cp Nu 32:23)
Sin will take you further
than you ever wanted to stray!
Cost you more than you ever dreamed you would pay!
Keep you longer than you ever thought you would stay!
SIN IS LIKE
A BOA CONSTRICTOR!
Are you beginning to
tolerate/conceal "pet" sins? If you are, then you need to remember
the fate of the man with the "pet boa constrictor" (Do a Google
search - use the following search terms and keep the parenthesis sign as
written >> "pet boa" killed). After 15 years of living with his
owner, one day the "pet boa" would not let its "owner" out of its grip
resulting in the owner's tragic death. Wild animals remain wild and so does
Sin.
Do not be deceived (Stop being deceived)!
Psalm 19:8 says that the precepts of
the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart... so when we come to God and agree
with Him that we have sinned against Him and His holy standard...in His
great mercy based on the blood of the Lamb, our Father says ''Welcome
home!'' and that brings joy to our heart...fellowship is re-established,
oneness is the order once again. Hallelujah.
As Oswald Chambers once said "Measure
your growth in grace by your sensitiveness to sin."
SIN BRINGS FEAR (Ps 32)
CONFESSION BRINGS FREEDOM Ps 32:5
Sin carries two rods
about it: shame and fear.
--Edward Marbury
The sins that would entangle us
Must never be ignored;
For if we try to cover them
They'll pierce us like a sword.
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THREE WAYS TO DEAL
WITH SIN
Warren Wiersbe writes that...
All of us struggle with sin. Human nature
pulls us down as gravity does, yet God has made us and saved us to lift us
up (1Jn 1:5-2:6). There are three ways we may deal with our sins.
Cover them. We cover our sins with our words. This is lying--
deceiving others and ourselves and lying to God. Lies are darkness, whereas
God's truth is light. When we lie, our character erodes (Pr 28:13). When we
cover sin, we lose God's light, fellowship and character. (Ed: We
cover our sins by making excuses for them and by refusing to come to the
light where they may be exposed. Some "cover" their sin by trying to have it
legalized by the laws of the land, so they can sin shamelessly. Some "cover"
their sin by blaming someone else. Some "cover" their sin by simply
[deceptively] denying it.)
Confess them. Admit and judge them--agree with God about your sin.
This involves the heart and the will (Ed: The Lord will not despise a
broken and contrite heart - this is the heart that is willing to confess! Ps
51:17-note). Some people have died because they
repeatedly, willfully, proudly and arrogantly defied the will of God. Admit
you are a sinner, say what is wrong and then come to Him and name it.
Confess your sin only in the circle of those influenced by it--individuals
or family. (Don't become an exhibitionist with the public.) Confession
brings release, freedom, forgiveness and a new beginning.
Conquer them. Jesus is in heaven today as our Advocate--as a Lawyer
before the Father. Abide in Him, love Him, walk with Him in the light of His
Word. Keep His commandments. Fellowship is a by-product of our walk with
God. To love Him is to serve Him and obey His commandments.
Are you covering sin or conquering sin in your life? Confess any known sin
and ask God to clean your heart. He wants to forgive you so He can restore
fellowship with you (Psalm
51:1-2 The High Cost of Committing Sin).
Adam Clarke on how men cover their
transgressions...
They are conscious that they are doing
wrong, and they try to cover and conceal what they are doing. They resort to
a variety of expedients. Some flatly deny them. Others cover their sins by
evasion, or they shift the blame off upon others. Some plead their weakness,
and the circumstances in which they were placed. Many plead the practice of
others. It is the custom of the trade. The vilest class attempt to cover
their sins by glorying in them.
J R Miller...
"Cleanse me from hidden faults." (Ps
19:12) They are secret sins which men commit, and of which they know.
They think no one else knows of them. Perhaps their friends do not
suspect that they are guilty of any secret sin. They wear the white garment
of a fair reputation, while under it are foul spots they would not have
anyone see. But such sins are not really secret. No sin can be hidden from
God.
Hidden sins
are open to the eye of God.
The worst thing any man can do with his
sins—is to try to cover them up, to keep on committing them—but concealing
them. The only safe thing to do—is to confess them and put them out of your
life. "The one who conceals his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses
and renounces them will find mercy." Proverbs 28:13
Spurgeon contrasts man's covering,
which is worthless and culpable (Pr 28:13), and God's covering, which is
profitable, and worthy of all acceptation (Ps 85:2).
Proverbs 28:13 He who conceals his
transgressions will not prosper, But he who confesses and forsakes them will
find compassion.
Psalm 85:2 You forgave the iniquity of
Your people; You covered all their sin. Selah.
HOW TO CONCEAL
TRANSGRESSIONS
Spurgeon explains that there are
many ways in which men try (unsucessfully) to cover their sin....
(1) Some do so by denying that they
have sinned, or, admitting the fact, they deny the guilt; or else, candidly
acknowledging both the sin and the guilt, they excuse and exonerate
themselves on the plea of certain circumstances which rendered it, according
to their showing, almost inevitable that they should act as they have done.
By pretext and presence, apology and self-vindication, they acquit
themselves of all criminality, and put a fine gloss upon every foul
delinquency. Excuse-making is the commonest trade under heaven. The
slenderest materials are put to the greatest account. A man who has no valid
argument in arrest of judgment, no feasible reason why he should not be
condemned, will go about and bring a thousand excuses, and ten thousand
circumstances of extenuation, the whole of them weak and attenuated as a
spider's web. Someone here may be saying within himself,
"It may be I have broken the law of God,
but it was too severe. To keep so perfect a law was impossible. I have
violated it, but then I am a man, endowed with passions that involve
propensities, and inflamed with desires that need gratification. How could I
do otherwise than I have done? Placed in peculiar circumstances, I am borne
along with the current. Subject to special temptations, I yield to the
fascination; this is natural."
So you think; so you essay to exculpate
yourself. But, in truth, you are now committing a fresh sin; for you are
abasing God, you are inculpating the Almighty. You are impugning the law to
vindicate yourself for breaking it. There is no small degree of criminality
about such an unrighteous defense. The law is holy, just, and good. You are
throwing the onus of your sins upon God. You are trying to mane out that,
after all, you are not to blame, but the fault lies with Him who gave the
commandment. Do you think that this will be tolerated? Shall the prisoner at
the bar bring accusations against the Judge who tries him? Or shall he
challenge the equity of the statute while he is arraigned for violating it?
And as for the circumstances that you plead, what valid excuse can they
furnish, Has it come to this—that it was not you, but your necessities, that
did the wrong and are answerable for the consequence? Not you, indeed! you
are a harmless innocent victim of circumstances! I suppose, instead of being
censured, you ought almost to be pitied. What is this, again, but throwing
the blame upon the arrangements of Providence, and saying to God,
"It is the harshness of thy discipline,
not the perverseness of my actions, that involves me in sin."
What, I say, is this but a high
impertinence, ay, veritable treason, against the Majesty of that thrice holy
God, before Whom even perfect angels veil their faces, while they cry,
"Holy, holy, holy, Lord God of Hosts"? I pray thee resort not to such a
covering as this, because, while it is utterly useless, it adds sin to sin,
and exposes thee to fresh shame.
(2) In many cases persons violating the law of God have hoped to cover
their transgression by secrecy. They have done the deed in darkness.
They hope that no ear of man heard their footfall, or listened to their
speech. Possibly they themselves held their tongue, and flattered themselves
that no observer witnessed their movements or could divulge their action. So
was it with Achan. I dare say he took the wedge of gold and the Babylonish
garment, mid the confusion of the battle, and hid it when his comrades
seemed too much engaged to notice so trivial fan affair. While they were
rushing over the fallen walls of Jericho, amidst the debris and the dust, he
might be unmolested; and then, in the dead of night, while they slept, he
turned the sod of his tent, dug into the earth, and buried there his coveted
treasure. All looks right, to his heart's content. He has smoothed it down,
and spread his carpet over the grave of his lust. Little did he reckon of
the Omniscient eye. Little did he count on the unerring lot that would come
home to the tribe of Judah, to the family of the Zarhites, to the house of
Zabdir, and, at last, to the son of Carmi, so that Achan himself would have
to stand out confessed as a traitor—a robber of his God. Men little know the
ways in which the Almighty can find them out, and bring the evidence that
convicts, out of the devices that were intended to cover their sin...
(3) Again, full many a time sinners
have tried to cover their sin with falsehood. Indeed, this is the usual
habit—to lie—to cloak their guilt by denying it. Was not this the way with
Gehazi? When the prophet said, "Whence comest thou, Gehazi?" he said, "Thy
servant went no whither." Then the prophet told him that the leprosy of
Naaman should cleave to him all the days of his life. The sin of Ananias and
Sapphira, in lying in order to hide their sin, how quickly was it
discovered, and how terrible was the retribution! I wonder that men and
women can lie as they do after reading that story. "Hast thou sold the land
for so much?" said Peter. And Ananias said, "Yea, for so much." At that
instant he fell down and gave up the ghost. Three hours after, when his
wife, Sapphire, said the same, the feet of the young men who had buried her
husband were at the door, ready to carry out her corpse, and bury her by his
side. Oh! sirs, ye must weave a tangled web, indeed, when once ye begin to
deceive; and when you have woven it you will have to add lie to lie, and lie
to lie, and yet all to no purpose, for you will be surely found out. There
is something about a lie that always deludes the man who utters it. Liars
have need of good memories. They are sure to leave a little corner uncovered
through which the truth escapes. Their story does not hang together.
Discrepancies excite suspicions, and evasions furnish a clue to discoveries,
till the naked truth is unveiled. Then the deeper the plot the fouler is the
shame. But to lie unto the God of truth, of what avail can that be? What
advantageth it you to plead "not guilty," when he has witnessed your crime?
That infallible Eye which never mistakes is never closed. He knows
everything; from him no secret is hid. Why, therefore, dost thou imagine
that thou canst deceive thy Maker?
(4) There are some who try to cover their sin by prevarication. With
cunning subtlety they strive to evade personal responsibility. Memorable is
the instance of David. I will not dwell upon his flagrant crime; but I must
remind you of his sorry subterfuge, when he tried to hide the baseness of
his lust by conspiring to cause the death of Uriah. There have been those
who have schemed deep and long to throw the blame on others, even to the
injury of their reputation, to escape the odium of their own malpractices.
Who knows but in this congregation there may be someone who affects a high
social position, supported by a deep mercantile immorality? Merchants there
have been that have swollen before the public as men of wealth, while they
were falsifying their accounts, abstracting money, yet making the books
tally, rolling in luxury, and living in jeopardy. Have they prospered? Were
they to be envied? The detection that long haunted them at length overtook
them; could they look it in the face? We have heard of their blank despair,
their insane suicide; at any rate, a miserable exposure has been their
melancholy climax. "Be sure your sin will find you out." You may run the
length of your tether. It is short. The hounds of justice, swift of scent
and strong of limb, are on your trail. Rest assured, you will be discovered.
Could you escape the due reward in this life, yet certainly your guilt is
known in heaven, and you shall be judged and condemned in that great day
which shall decide your eternal destiny. Seek not, then, to cover up sin
with such transparent cobwebs as these.
(5) Some people flatter themselves that their sin has already been hidden
away by the lapse of time. "It was so very long ago," says one, "I had
almost forgotten it; I was a lad at the time." "Aye," says another, "I am
gray-headed now. It must have been twenty or thirty years ago. Surely you do
not think that the sin of my far-off days will be brought out against me?
The thing is gone by. Time must have obliterated it." Not so, my friend. It
may be the lapse of time will only make the discovery the more clear. A boy
once went into his father's orchard, and there in his rough play he broke a
little tree which his father valued. But, rapidly putting it together again,
he managed to conceal the fact, for the disunited parts of the tree took
kindly to each other, and the tree stood as before. It so happened that more
than forty years afterwards he went into that garden after a storm had blown
across it in the night, and he found that the tree had been riven in two,
and it had snapped precisely in the place where he had broken it when it was
but a sapling. So there may come a crash to your character precisely in that
place where you sinned when yet a lad. Ah! how often the transgressions of
our youth remain within our bosoms! There lie the eggs of our young sin, and
they hatch when men come into riper years. Don't be so sure that the lapse
of time will consign your faults and follies to oblivion. You sowed your
wild oats, sir; you have got to reap them. The time that has intervened has
only operated to make that evil seed spring up, and you are so much the
nearer to the harvest. Time does not change the hue of sin in the sight of
God. If a man could live a thousand years, the sins of his first year would
be as fresh in the memory of the Almighty as those of the last. Eternity
itself will never wash out a sin. Flow on, ye ages; but the scarlet spots on
the sand. Flow on still in mighty streams, but the damning spot is there
still. Neither time nor eternity can cleanse it. Only one thing can remove
sin. The lapse of time cannot. Let not any of you be so foolish as to hope
it will.
When the trumpet of the resurrection sounds, there will be a resurrection of
characters, as well as of men. The man who has been foully slandered will
rejoice in the light that reflects his purity. But the man whose latent
vices have been skilfully veneered will be brought to the light too. His
acts and motives will be alike exposed. As he himself looks and sees the
resurrection of his crimes, with what horror will he face that day of
judgment! "Ah! ah!" says he, "Where am I? I had forgotten these. These are
the sins of my childhood, the sins of my youth, the sins of my manhood, and
the sins of my old age. I thought they were dead and buried, but they start
from their tombs. My memory has been quickened. How my brain reels as I
think of them all! But there they are, and, like so many wolves around me,
they seem all thirsting for my destruction." Beware, oh! men. Ye have buried
your sins, but they will rise up from their graves and accuse you before
God. Time cannot cover them.
(6) Or do any of you imagine that your tears can blot out transgressions?
That is a gross mistake. Could your tears for ever flow; could you be
transformed into a Niobe, and do nothing else but weep for aye, the whole
flood could not wash out a single sin. Some have supposed that there may be
efficacy in baptismal water, or in sacramental emblems, or in priestly
incantations, or in confession to a priest—one who asks them to disclose
their secret wickedness to him, and betrays a morbid avidity to make his
breast the sewer into which all kinds of uncleanness should be emptied. Be
not deceived. There is nothing in these ordinances of man, or these tricks
of Romish priestcraft (I had almost said of witchcraft, the two are so much
alike) to excuse the folly of those who are beguiled by them. You need not
catch at straws when the rope is thrown out to you. There is pardon to be
had; remission is to be found; forgivenness can be procured. Turn your back
on yonder shavelings; lend not your ear to them, neither be ye the victims
of their snares. In the street each day it makes one's soul sad to see them.
Like the Pharisees of old, they wear their long garments to deceive. You
cannot mistake them. Their silly conceit publishes their naked shame.
Confide not in them for a moment. Christ can forgive you. God can blot out
your sin. But they cannot ease your conscience by their penances, or remove
your transgressions by their celebrations.
Thus I have gone through a rough, not very accurate, list of the ways by
which men hope to cover their sin, but they "shall not prosper." None of
these shall succeed. (Two
Coverings and Two Consequences)
Spurgeon then speaks about the
futility of trying to conceal one's sin...
Do you not know that Providence is a
wonderful detective? There are hounds upon the track of every thief, and
murderer, and liar—in foot, upon every sinner of every kind. Each sin leaves
a trail. The dogs of judgment will be sure to scent it out, and find their
prey. There is no disentangling yourselves from the meshes of guilt; no
possibility of evading the penalty of transgression. Very wonderful have
been the ways in which persons who have committed crimes have been brought
to judgment. A trifle becomes a tell-tale. The method of deceit gives a clue
to the manner of discovery. Wretched the men who bury their secrets in their
own bosom. Their conscience plays traitor to them. They have often been
forged to betray themselves. We have read of men talking in their sleep to
their fellows, and babbling out in their dreams the crime they had committed
years before. God would have the secret disclosed. No eye had seen, neither
could other tongue have bold, but the man turned king's evidence against
himself; he has thus brought himself to judgment. It has often happened, in
some form or other, that conscience has thus been witness against men. Do I
address anyone who is just now practicing a secret sin? You would not have
me point you out for all the world, nor shall I do so. Believe me, however,
the sin is known. Dexterous though you have been in the attempt to conceal
it, it has been seen. As surely as you live, it has been seen. "By whom?"
say you. Ah! by One who never forgets what he sees, and will be sure to tell
of it. He may commission a little bird of the air to whisper it. Certainly
he will one day proclaim it by the sound of trumpet to listening worlds. You
are watched, sir; you are known. You have been narrowly observed, young
girl; those things you have hidden away will be brought to light, for God is
the great discoverer of sin. His eye has marked you; his providence will
track you. It is vain to think that ye can conceal your transgressions.
Before high heaven, disguise is futile. Yea, the darkness hideth not; the
night shineth as the day. I have known persons who have harboured a sin in
their breast till it has preyed upon their constitution. They have been like
the Spartan boy who had stolen a fox, and was ashamed to have it known, so
he kept it within his garment, till it ate through his flesh, and he fell
dead. He suffered the fox to gnaw his heart ere he would betray himself.
There are those who have got a sin, if not a lie in their right hand, yea, a
lie in their heart, and it is eating into their very life. They dare not
confess it. If they would confess it to their God, and make restitution to
those whom they have offended, they would soon come to peace; but they
vainly hope that they can cover the sin, and hide it from the eyes of God
and man. He that covereth his sin in this fashion shall not prosper. (Two
Coverings and Two Consequences)
COVER FOR THE
PROUD SINNER
Bridges on concealing our
transgressions...
The proud sinner naturally wishes to be
thought better than he is. His sin must have some cover (Cicero stamps
confession of wickedness as disgraceful and dangerous. Thus does heathen
morality develop the pride of depraved nature.) He must at least give it a
good name. (Isa 5:20) He would cover it, if possible, from himself; putting
it out of mind, banishing all serious thoughts, stifling conviction, and
then trying to persuade himself that he is happy. To escape evil
consequences, a lie is resorted to (eg Cain Ge 4:9, Rachel Ge 31:34, 35,
Joseph's brothers Ge 37:31-35; David 2Sa 11:15, 25; the adulteress Pr 30:20.
Cp Jer 2:23, Peter = Mt 26:69, Ananias and Sapphira = Acts 5:1-8. Is this
not a saddening propensity in children? The first offense may be trifling.
But the fear of punishment induces a lie. Another lie is necessary to cover
the first! Every step adds to sin.).
Or if the facts are too plain to be
denied they says something like "the worst part is unfounded. We were not in
it so much as our neighbor." Ignorance, good, or at least not bad,
intentions, custom, necessity, strong temptation, sudden surprise, the first
offense; constitutional infirmity; even the decrees of God, (Jer 7:10)--one
or more are pleaded in palliation (covering by excuses). Or to save our
honor--rather our pride--the blame must be shifted on another (Adam and Eve,
Ge 3:12, 13. Cp Job 31:33; Aaron, Ex 32:21-24; Saul, 1Sa 15:20, 21; Pilate,
Mt 27:24-26). Even God Himself (Ge 3:12, Jas 1:13, 14) is made
accountable--a secret but daring charge carrying with it its own
self-contradiction. Indignantly He challenges the proof, and lays the sin at
the right door.
More commonly, but most wrongfully, it is
laid upon Satan (Ge 3:13). The most of his power is, that he is a tempter
(Mt 4:3, 1Th 3:5). And no claim could he have ever established, had not we
willingly sold ourselves to his service. Our father Adam--again--must bear
the burden (Ro 5:12). 'Must our "teeth be set on edge" for the "sour grapes
which he ate?" (Ezek 18:2) Must the unborn children be held responsible for
the inheritance, which their father lost? 'But it was the nature that
sinned, of which we are a component part. We "were in his (Adam's) loins"
(Heb 7:10) at the time, and therefore we share his responsibility. Our own
personal sin has ratified the deed by our own free and repeated consent. All
these attempted transfers are vain coverings. Conscience bears witness to
the truth, that no man takes harm but from himself. But even this
admitted--man with ceaseless ingenuity still attempts to frame a cover, for
his sin. Some supposed good deeds are put forth as a compensation. (Mic 4:6,
7, Lk 20:47) And by balancing good and evil respectively against each other,
he hopes to establish some preponderance in his favor. Yet all these
fig-leaf coverings (Ge 3:7) for his nakedness only show his determination to
hold his sin, and his pride of heart, which would rather hide it from God
himself than submit to receive free mercy as a self-condemned sinner.
These attempts however to cover sin shall
not prosper. The voice of an offended God summoned Adam from his
hiding-place to receive his sentence. (Ge 3:9) "The voice of Abel's blood
cried from the ground," and the murderer became "a fugitive and a vagabond
in the earth." (Ge 4:10, 11, 12.) Conscience lashed Joseph's brethren with
the sin of bye-gone days. (Ge 42:21) Saul's covering his sin cost him
his kingdom. (1Sa 15:21, 23) "The leprosy of Naaman clave to Gehazi and his
seed for ever." (2Ki 5:27) The proud accusers of their fellow-sinner were
"convicted by their own conscience." (Jn 8:9) "There is no darkness, nor
shadow of death, where the workers of iniquity may hide themselves." (Job
34:22 with Job 24:14, 15) Their darkest deed is wrought in the open face of
an all-seeing God, and "set in the light of his countenance," (Ps 90:8) to
"be proclaimed upon the house-tops" before the assembled world (Lk 12:2, 3,
Ec 12:14 1Cor 4:5).
This unsuccessful attempt to cover
sin, while it adds to the guilt (Isa 30:1), is fraught with misery. The love
of sin struggles with the power of conscience. The door of access to God is
barred. (Ps 66:18) Christian confidence is clouded (Isa 32:3,4); and, unless
Sovereign mercy interpose, it must end in the sting of "the never-dying
worm." The covering of the disease precludes the possibility of the
cure. Only the penitent confessor can be the pardoned sinner. (Proverbs 28:13 Commentary)
WILL NOT PROSPER:
Net Bible Note on will not prosper
- The person who refuses to confess will not prosper. This is an
understatement (a figure of speech known as tapeinosis); the opposite is the
truth, that eventually such a person will be undone and ruined...This verse
is unique in the book of Proverbs; it captures the theology of forgiveness
(e.g., Ps 32 and Ps 51). Every part of the passage is essential to the
point: Confession of sins as opposed to concealing them, coupled with a
turning away from them, results in mercy. (NET
Bible Online)
Beloved we need to be aware that
unconfessed sin and lack of prosperity is an immutable divine principle, for
far too often we still think that we can defy God's call to confession and
escape the consequences! This is self deception run amuck, for instead of
escaping the consequences, we end up compounding the consequences!
The greatest loss of prosperity is the
loss of fellowship with God. John puts it this way...
If we say that we have fellowship with
Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth but
if we walk in the light (Confessing our sins, owning our sins, with a broken
and contrite heart) as He Himself is in the light, we have fellowship with
one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin. (1Jn
1:6, 7)
A W Pink...
Disobedience chokes the channel of
blessing. "He who covers his sins shall not prosper" (Proverbs 28:13).
Unconfessed sin in the heart of a believer is like a worm at the root of
prosperity. "If I regard iniquity in my heart—the Lord will not hear me"
(Psalm 66:18), prayer is then futile. Unless we keep short accounts with
God—we shall not enjoy His smile. Jeremiah 10:21 tells us what prevents
"pastors" from prospering—self-sufficiency, failing to be cast entirely upon
the Lord. (A
Prosperous New Year)
"He who covers his sins shall not
prosper" no matter how well versed he is in the Truth, or admired by his
fellows; for there is a worm eating at the root of his spiritual life. "But
whoever confesses and forsakes them [however heinous or numerous] shall have
mercy" (Proverbs 28:13). See to it, my reader, that you make conscience of
what men term "little sins" and excuse them not. See to it that you keep
short accounts with God, penitently owning unto Him every known fault, if
you would not miss His best. Acknowledge your transgressions, even though
you have done so a thousand times previously. Avail yourself daily of the
Fountain "opened for sin and for impurity" (Zec 13:1). (Missing
Gods Best)
Now three things are indispensable if we
are to enjoy God's blessings, rather than suffer His chastisements. First,
all known sin—past as well as present—must be repented of, confessed, and
forsaken (Proverbs 28:13). It is unpardoned sins which withhold good things
from us (Jer. 5:25). This principle has always obtained, and will unto the
end of time. (SOUND
THE ALARM)
Prosper (06743)(tsalach/salach)
means to succeed or to cause to turn out successfully (Ge 24:21, 40), to accomplish satisfactorily what is intended. In general, this
expresses the idea of a successful venture, as contrasted with failure.
It is used in a negative sense...
But Moses said, "Why then are you
transgressing the commandment of the LORD, when it will not succeed (tsalach/salach)?
(Numbers 14:41)
(The cursing of the LORD on Israel for
failing to obey His Law - Dt 28:13,14) and you will grope at noon, as the
blind man gropes in darkness, and you will not prosper (tsalach/salach)
in your ways; but you shall only be oppressed and robbed continually, with
none to save you. (Deut 28:29)
Meditation
(see also
Primer on Biblical Meditation) on the
Word of God is
clearly linked with genuine prosperity in Joshua and Psalms -
This book of the law shall not depart
from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that
you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it; for then
you will make your way prosperous (tsalach/salach),
and then you will have success. (Joshua 1:8-note)
And he (he whose delight is the Law of the LORD and who meditates on it day
and night) will be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water, Which
yields its fruit in its season, And its leaf does not wither; And in
whatever he does, he prospers (tsalach/salach). (Ps 1:3-note)
Tsalach is translated in the
Septuagint (Lxx)
with the Greek verb euodoo (from eú = good + hodós =
way) literally means to have a good journey (a) of removal of difficulties
in the way (Ro1:10) (b) of material prosperity in daily avocation 1Co16:2
(c) of physical health 3Jn 1:2 or (d) of spiritual health.
And thus the one who conceals his
transgressions will not have things turn out well and will not be successful
(especially spiritually).
Tsalach - 64v in OT - Ge 24:21,
40, 42, 56; 39:2f, 23; Num 14:41; Deut 28:29; Josh 1:8; Jdg 14:6, 19; 15:14;
18:5; 1 Sa 10:6, 10; 11:6; 16:13; 18:10; 2Sa 19:17; 1Ki 22:12, 15; 1Chr
22:11, 13; 29:23; 2Chr 7:11; 13:12; 14:7; 18:11, 14; 20:20; 24:20; 26:5;
31:21; 32:30; Neh 1:11; 2:20; Ps 1:3; 37:7; 45:4; 118:25; Pr 28:13; Isa
48:15; 53:10; 54:17; 55:11; Jer 2:37; 5:28; 12:1; 13:7, 10; 22:30; 32:5;
Ezek 15:4; 16:13; 17:9f, 15; Dan 8:12, 24f; 11:27, 36; Amos 5:6
The first use is where Abraham's
servant was sent to bring back a wife for Isaac and upon seeing Rebekah
gazed
at her in silence, to know whether the LORD had made his
journey successful (tsalach/salach) or not. (Ge 24:21)
Tsalach generally expresses
idea of a successful venture, as contrasted with failure. The source of such
success is God as shown by the following passages...
The chief jailer did not supervise
anything under Joseph's charge because the LORD was with him; and whatever
he did, the LORD made to prosper (tsalach/salach).
(Genesis 39:23 )
He (Uzziah) continued to seek God in the days of Zechariah, who had
understanding through the vision of God; and as long as he sought the LORD,
God prospered (tsalach/salach) him. (2Ch 26:5).
Every work which he began in the service
of the house of God in law and in commandment, seeking his God, he did with
all his heart and prospered. ( 2Chr 31:21)
(Nehemiah prayed for success) O Lord, I
beseech Thee, may Thine ear be attentive to the prayer of Thy servant and
the prayer of Thy servants who delight to revere Thy name, and make Thy
servant successful today, and grant him compassion before this man." Now
I was the cupbearer to the king. (Nehemiah 1:11)
So I answered them and said to them, "The
God of heaven will give us success; therefore we His
servants will arise and build, but you have no portion, right, or memorial
in Jerusalem." (Nehemiah 2:20)
David knew the truth of Pr 28:13
from his experience writing...
When I kept silent about my sin, my body
wasted away Through my groaning all day long. For day and night Thy hand was
heavy upon me. My vitality was drained away as with the fever heat of
summer. Selah. (Ps 32:3,4).
Augustine comments: Each man's sin
is the instrument of his punishment, and his iniquity is turned into his
torment.
Spurgeon comments: When I
kept silence. When through neglect I failed to confess, or through
despair dared not do so, my bones, those solid pillars of my frame, the
stronger portions of my bodily constitution, waxed old, began to decay with
weakness, for my grief was so intense as to sap my health and destroy my
vital energy.
What a killing thing is sin!
It is a pestilent disease!
A fire in the bones!
While we smother our sin it rages within,
and like a gathering wound swells horribly and torments terribly.
The silent mourner
the greatest sufferer.
For day and night Thy hand was heavy
upon me. (Ed: Note that "for" explains why David wasted
and groaned - it was retributive punishment directly from God!) God's finger
can crush us -- what must His hand be, and that pressing heavily and
continuously! Under terrors of conscience, men have little rest by night,
for the grim thoughts of the day dog them to their chambers and haunt their
dreams, or else they lie awake in a cold sweat of dread.
God's hand is very helpful when it
uplifts, but it is awful when it presses down: better a world on the
shoulder, like Atlas, than God's hand on the heart, like David.
My vitality was drained away as with
the fever heat of summer. The sap of his soul was dried, and the body
through sympathy appeared to be bereft of its needful fluids. The oil was
almost gone from the lamp of life, and the flame flickered as though it
would soon expire.
Unconfessed transgression, like a
fierce poison, dried up the fountain of the man's strength and made him like
a tree blasted by the lightning, or a plant withered by the scorching heat
of a tropical sun.
Alas! for a poor soul when it has learned
its sin but forgets its Saviour, it goes hard with it indeed. Selah. It was
time to change the tune, for the notes are very low in the scale, and with
such hard usage, the strings of the harp are out of order: the next verse
will surely be set to another key, or will rehearse a more joyful subject.
Through my roaring all the day long.
He was silent as to confession, but not as to sorrow. Horror
at his great guilt, drove David to incessant laments, until his voice was no
longer like the articulate speech of man, but so full of sighing and
groaning, that it resembled to hoarse roaring of a wounded beast. None knows
the pangs of conviction but those who have endured them. The rack, the
wheel, the flaming fagot are ease compared with the
Tophet which a guilty conscience
kindles within the breast: better suffer all the diseases which flesh is
heir to, than lie under the crushing sense of the wrath of almighty God. The
Spanish inquisition with all its tortures was nothing to the inquest which
conscience holds within the heart.
Samuel Page comments: By bones,
the strength of the body, the inward strength and vigor of the soul is
meant. The conscience of sin, and the terror of judgment breaks the
heart of a true penitent, so long as he beholds that his sin warrants death,
his judge ready to pronounce the sentence of it, hell open to receive him
for it, and the evil angels, God's executioners, at hand to hurry him to it
(Ed: This is what every believer would deserve unless they were
covered by the blood of Christ.).
Thomas Taylor on the "heavy" hand of
Jehovah: A correcting hand, whereby God scourges and buffets his own
children. Now the sense of God's power punishing or correcting, is called
God's hand, as 1Sa 5:11. The hand of God was sore at Ekron, because of the
ark; and a heavy hand in resemblance, because when men smite they lay their
hand heavier than ordinary. Hence, we may note three points of doctrine:
first, that all afflictions are God's hand; secondly, that God
lays his hand heavily often upon his dear children; thirdly, that God
often continues his heavy hand night and day on them.
The one who is concealing his sin
shall not push forward, experience victory from the Lord, experience
spiritual prosperity, thrive spiritually, accomplish satisfactorily what God
intended. The key is continually seeking God with ALL YOUR HEART
(Heb11:6)...lay aside the old.
Will not prosper - What does
not spiritually prospering look like? You will not
sing. You will not experience supernatural joy (Spirit is grieved and
quenched by unconfessed sin). Indeed, nothing will stop your song quicker
than unconfessed sin. We see this is Psalm 51 where the concept of joy and
rejoice is repeatedly mentioned by David in the context of his confession of
his sin with Bathsheba and against Uriah. You can mark it down as a maxim
that sin always ruins where it reigns -- it reigns when it is unconfessed
and is "dethroned" when it is confessed! Are any "little sins" reigning in
your heart as you read this note? Anyone you are harboring a grudge against,
against whom you are embittered, against whom you are harboring
unforgiveness. Or perhaps you think you have forgiven but your forgiven is
only external and superficial -- beware of this culprit stealing your
"spiritual prosperity" - read the booklet by Discovery House Publishers
entitled
Avoiding The Dangers Of Superficial Forgiveness.
Illustration of the Danger of
Concealing Our Sins -
Certain great iron castings have been ordered for a railway-bridge. The
thickness has been calculated according to the extent of the span and the
weight of the load. The contractor constructs his moulds according to the
specifications, and when all is ready pours in the molten metal . In the
process of casting, through some defect in the mould, portions of air lurk
in the heart of the iron, and cavities like those of a honey-comb are formed
in the interior of the beam; but a whole skin covers all the surface, and
the flaws are effectually concealed. The artisan has covered his fault, but
he will not prosper. As soon as it is subjected to a strain the beam gives
way. (William Arnot)
Byron Paulus
Executive Director of the revival oriented Life Action Ministry writes
that...
After reaching out to more than four
million believers in 6,000 churches during the past four decades, our team
of revivalists would unanimously concur that the
number one problem (Ed: "sin") they encounter is
unforgiveness. Bitterness is rampant. Forgiveness is not.
And in church after church, as Life Action proclaims the truth about
bitterness and forgiveness, we hear powerful testimonies of God setting
captives free. The road to forgiveness in my life was grounded in the
biblical example modeled by Joseph—a man who had every reason for bitterness
and hate, yet who emerged from years of rejection and hopelessness as a
forgiver, full of grace, still honoring the Lord. For me, true forgiveness
has meant daily choosing between two options, two responses in my soul.
Below are some other related resources
on the critically important topic of unforgiveness, a sin I fear is
being "epidemically" concealed in the lives of many of God's children...
Related resources -
multiple illustration:
Multiple illustrations and quotes related
to forgiveness/unforgiveness
Exposition of "Forgiveness" in Ephesians
4:32
Exposition of "Forgiveness" in Colossians
3:13
Exposition of "Forgiveness" in Matthew
6:12
and
Matthew 6:14-15
Sermon on
Forgiveness -
Acts 13:38-39
Someone has well said that a "little"
unconfessed sin will add to your trouble, subtract from your
energy and multiply your difficulties. (and I would add --
unconfessed sin will "divide" brethren, families, husbands and wives,
etc)
Regarding the "toxic" effects of sin
one has said it enters like a needle and spreads like an oak tree.
Joni Eareckson Tada spoke of
the failure to prosper when she said...
Disease is just one of the many results
of man's sin, along with death, sorrow, guilt and disasters of nature.
Vance Havner said it this
way...
Sin is spiritual cancer, and the man who
tries to live with it dies of it.
Matthew Henry adds that...
If we be ruled by sin we shall inevitably
be ruined by it.
D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones
The tragedy of sin is that it affects man
in his highest faculties. Sin causes us to become fools, and behave in an
irrational manner.
Spurgeon makes a serious
contrast...
I. MAN’S COVERING, AND ITS FAILURE.
There are many ways in which men try to cover their sins. Excuse-making is
the commonest trade under heaven. Some cover by secrecy and some by
falsehood. Some think their sin has been hidden away by lapse of time.
II. GOD’S COVERING, AND ITS SUCCESS.
By the atoning sacrifice which was presented by the Lord Jesus. Before God
covers sins He unveils them. The covering is as broad as the sin; it
completely covers, and for ever covers.
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Hide Or Seek? - An Indianapolis
patrolman ran into trouble while he was investigating a routine traffic
mishap. He had interviewed witnesses, arrested one of the drivers, and
written up the accident report. Then he noticed that the offending motorist
was chewing on something that wasn’t gum. He was eating the report! Despite
the officer’s efforts to retrieve the report, it was destroyed. But the
delay was only temporary. The patrolman tracked down the witnesses again and
recompiled the evidence.
The resistance and cover-up that this Indiana officer encountered is similar
to what Isaiah saw in the people of Israel centuries ago. The prophet was
grieved as he watched his countrymen try to ignore and conceal the evidence
of their sin. They, in effect, stuck their fingers in their ears while the
Lord spoke (Isa. 30:9), and they encouraged their prophets to tell them only
what they wanted to hear (Isa 30:10). They would rather hide than seek the
mercy of God. Consequently, the Lord sent judgment on them (Isa 30:12-17).
We can learn from Israel’s mistakes that an attempt at coverup won’t do any
good. It’s only temporary. We must confess our sins to God and forsake them.
Then we will know the joy of God’s forgiveness.
(Our
Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by
permission. All rights reserved)
The sins that would entangle us
Must never be ignored;
For if we try to cover them
They'll pierce us like a sword.
—Sper
The sin we try to cover up
will eventually bring us down.
BUT HE WHO CONFESSES:
CONTINUAL
CONFESSION:
A VALUABLE SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINE
John Stott wrote an entire book
entitled "Confess Your Sins" in which he stated that....
One of the surest antidotes to the
process of moral hardening is the disciplined practice of uncovering our
sins of thought and outlook, as well as of word and of deed, and the
repentant forsaking of them. (Confess
Your Sins The Way of Reconciliation - 94 page book)
The classic NT passage which parallels
Pr 28:13 is in John's first epistle...
If we say that we
have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess (present
tense = this is
to our habitual practice; confession is to be our lifestyle) our sins, He is
faithful and righteous to forgive (aphiemi
= conveys the basic idea of an action which causes separation; to send away
from) us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. (1Jn 1:9)
Comment: If our confession be
personal and particular, offered sincerely from the heart to God, He will
completely and graciously pardon and purify us. (See how complete His
forgiveness is in the following passages [Meditate
on the metaphors He uses] - Ps 32:1, 103:12 Isa 6:7 Isa
38:17 Isa 44:22 Micah 7:18,19 Acts 3:19,20 Heb 8:12-note)
If we confess our sins, they are not only covered (by the blood of Christ)
but they are canceled completely!
Thomas Sherman comments: This (1Jn
1:9) is a Scripture which many stumble at—as if a bare confession
was enough. Whereas it is more fully explained in Proverbs 28:13, "If we
confess and forsake our sins."
John MacArthur says that Pr 28:13:
Links the two inseparable parts of true repentance:
the confession and forsaking of sin.
Note that when a believer chooses to
confess transgressions, he (she) is in essence working out his (her)
"salvation with fear and trembling" (Php 2:12-note).
However, the truth is that we would never choose to confess our
transgressions if God's Spirit in us would not be at work to will and work
to His good pleasure. (Php 2:13-note).
Amazing God. Amazing plan of salvation. Amazing grace!
But - Always, always take the
"pause the refreshes" and which edifies and which causes you to meditate on
the Word of Truth and Life! Whenever you encounter a
contrast,
always query it with one of the
with the 5W/H questions
such as "What is being contrasted?" (When?, Why? Who is involved? etc) This
proverb presents us with one of preeminent contrasts in all of Scripture
which is itself based upon another great contrast "but God" in
Ephesians 2 where we read
But God, being rich in mercy,
because of His great love with which He loved us, 5 even when we were dead
in our transgressions, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have
been saved), 6 and raised us up with Him, and seated us with Him in the
heavenly places, in Christ Jesus, 7 in order that in the ages to come He
might show the surpassing riches of His grace in kindness toward us in
Christ Jesus. (Eph 2:4, 5-note,
Ep 2:6, 7-note)
WE MUST FIRST UNCOVER SIN
IN ORDER TO "COVER" IT!
Bridges observes that...
God and man each cover sin; God in free
unbounded grace (Isa 43:25, 44:22); man, in shame and hypocrisy. The sinners
here contrasted are chargeable with the same guilt. But how opposite are the
remedies adopted, and their several results! The contrast is not between
great sins and small, but between sins covered, and sins confessed and
forsaken. Whoso covereth the smallest sin, shall not prosper. Whoso
confesseth and forsaketh the greatest, shall find mercy. "Love covereth" our
neighbour's sins (Pr 10:12); pride our own.
R F Horton...
The covering for sin which is spoken of
in Pr 16:6 (atonement ~ covering) is of a very different and of a quite
particular kind. Coming this verse with the others at the head of the
chapter, we may observe that every effectual "covering" of sin in God's
sight involves three elements, - confession, forsaking and a changed
practice.
First, there is confession. This appears
on the face of it to be a paradox: the only way of covering sin is to
uncover it! But it is strictly true. We must make a clean breast of it; we
must acknowledge its full extent and enormity; we must spare the patient ear
of God no detail of our guilt. The foul, explosive gases must be let out
into the open, since every attempt to confine them increases their
destructive power. The running sore must be exposed to the Physician's eye,
since every rag put over it to hide it becomes steeped in its defiling
tides. It is true, confession is a painful and a weary task: it is like
removing a heap of dust and refuse by the spade fulls,-- each bit as it is
disturbed the atmosphere with choking particles and noisome smells; worse
and worse is revealed the farther we go. We came to confess a single fault,
and we found that it was but a broken shard lying on the foul and
pestilential heap. Confession leads to confession, discovery to discovery.
It is terribly humiliating. "Am I then so bad as this?" is the horrified cry
as each candid admission shows only more and worse that must be admitted.
True confession can never be made into a priest's ear,--to men we can only
confess the wrongs which we have done to men; but true confession is the
awful tale of what we have done to God, against Whom Only we have sinned and
done evil in His sight. It is sometimes urged that confession to a priest
gives the penitent relief: possibly, but it is a false relief; since the eye
of the priest is not omniscient, the sinner confesses only what he chooses,
bring the broken shard, and receives absolution for that in lieu of removing
the whole heap of abominations that underlie. When we have gone as far as we
can in laying ourselves bare to man, there remain vast untraversed tracts of
our life and mind which are reserved; "Private Road" is written on all the
approaches, and trespassers are invariably prosecuted. It is only to God
that a real confession can be made, because we know that to Him all is
necessarily evident; with Him no subterfuges avail; He traverses those
untraversed tracts; there are no private roads from which He is excluded; He
knows our thoughts afar off.
The first step in the "covering" of sin
(speaking of atonement) is to realize this. If our sins are really covered
they must first be laid bare; we must frankly own that all things are open
and laid bare; we must get away from the priest and into the hands of the
great High Priest; we must abjure the confessional and bring God Himself
into the secret places of our hearts to search us and try us and see if
there be any evil way in us. The reserve, and the veilings, which every
individual cannot but maintain between himself and all other individuals,
must be torn away, in full and absolute confession to God Himself. (The
Book of Proverbs -by R. F. Horton)
When man uncovers his
sin, God covers it.
When man cloaks, God strips bare.
When man confesses, God pardons.
--Augustine
Bridges on confession...
Long indeed is the struggle, ere every
false cover is cut off; ere the heartless general confession--'We are all
sinners'--is exchanged for the deep-felt personal acknowledgment,
"giving glory to God. "Thus and thus" have I done. Behold I am vile.
What shall I answer Thee? I will lay mine hand upon my mouth." (Josh 7:19,
20, Job 40:4. Cp Jer 8:6) But glorious is the divine victory over pride and
sullenness, when this first act of repentance, this first step of return (Lk
15:17, 18), is heartily accomplished.
God needs not confession for His own
information.
But He demands it for our good.
It brings no claim on His mercy. But it
is a meetness (suitableness) for the reception of it. Christ has fully
satisfied the claims of justice. But the claims must be acknowledged in the
humble acceptance of the benefit. The mercy is ready; but the sinner must
sue it out--"Only acknowledge thine iniquity." (Jer 3:12,13.)
Our yearning Father is "waiting" for this
moment, "that he may be gracious." (Lk 15:20, Isa 30:18, with Hos 5:15)
There is no further keeping of anger. He shall have mercy, instant
reconciliation. (Ps 32:5. Comp. similar examples: 2Chr 33:12, 13; Jer 31:18,
19, 20; Jonah 3:5-10; Lk 15:21, 22, 23, 24; Lk 23:40, 41, 42, 43. See also
the promises, Lev 26:40, 41, 42; 2Chr 7:14; Job 33:27, 28; Isa 1:16, 17, 18;
Isa 55:7; Ezek 18:21, 22; 1Jn 1:9.)
Words may be few while the heart is full.
With David it was but a single sentence; but the closet workings of his
heart witnessed to the enlargement and ingenuousness of his sorrow. (2Sa
12:13 with Ps 51:1ff. See also David's tender dread of covering sin. Ps
139:1, 23, 24) Thus man confesses the debt; God crosses it out from his
book; and sweet is the penitent's song--"Blessed is he, whose sin, is
covered." (Ps 32:1)
But we must not overlook the
distinctive feature of this confession. It is not that of Pharaoh,
extorted on the rack; (Ex 9:27, 34) or of Saul and Judas, (1Sa 24:16,
17; 26:3,4. Mt 27:4,5) the stinging of remorse; or of the Pharisees and
Sadducees, (Mt 3:6, 7, 8, 9) mere formal profession; or of the harlot, (Pr
7:14) a cover for sin. Penitent faith confesses in the act of laying the
hand upon the great sacrifice, (Lev 16:21) and hence draws strength of
purpose to forsake all that has been here confessed.
For while the hypocrite confesses
without forsaking, (Pharaoh and Saul)
the hearty forsaking is here the best proof of tile sincere confessing.
And this first act of the penitent is
matured into the daily habit of the saint. The further we
advance, the deeper will be the tone of confession. (Job 40:4, 42:6, Ezek
16:63) The moment sin is seen to be sin, let it be laid on the Surety's
Head. Every moment of unconfessed sin adds to its burden and guilt. The
thought of a nature estranged from God; a heart full of corruption; sins of
youth and age; before and after conversion; against light and conviction,
knowledge and love; the sins of our very confessions, their defilement,
coldness, and too often self-righteous tendency; all supply abundant
material for abasing acknowledgment.
Plead the greatness,
not the smallness of our sin.
(Ps 25:22 with Lk 18:11. Comp. Isa 43:24,
25, 26.) Never deem any sin so trifling, as not to need the immediate
application of the blood of atonement. Genuine conviction gives no rest,
until by the believing apprehension of this remedy the peace of God is
firmly fixed in the conscience. As Bunyan so accurately pictured--not at the
wicket-gate, but at the sign of the cross, did the Christian find the grave
of sin.
This evangelical humiliation lays the
only solid ground for practical godliness. It is a sorrow full of joy,
and not less full of holiness. No Achan will be reserved (Josh 7:1); no Agag
spared (1Sa 15:20); no right hand or right eye favored. (Mk 6:17, 18, 19,
20; Mk 9:43-48) It will not be "the unclean spirit going out, and returning
to his house with sevenfold influence;" (Mt 12:43, 44) or the man, who
leaves his home, but forsakes it not, all his heart and joy being still
there. Here the forsaking will be without the thought of returning; yea,
with the fixed determination never to return. (Job 34:32) It will not be the
exchange of one path in the broad road for another more attractive; but the
relinquishment of the whole road with all its by-paths. The inner principles
as well as the outer walk; "the unrighteous thoughts," no less than "the
wicked ways" will he forsake (Isa 55:7) heartily and forever. (Proverbs 28:13 Commentary)
Confesses (03034)
(yadah) is used in the OT to acknowledge or confess sin, God's
character and works, or man's character. In a number of context the verb
means to praise (Ge 29:35, 49:8). Sin must not be covered but confessed
(which results in it being covered by the blood of the Lamb, Jn 1:29).
SIN MUST
NOT BE
SELF COVERED BUT
SAVIOR COVERED!
The Hebrew verb "confess" speaks of
continuous action (even as does the Greek verb for confess in 1Jn
1:9-see
note;
see also the Lxx verb exegeomai below).
Confession is a continuous experience with the Christian. No child of God,
who has any sense of sin's heinousness, could (or should) complete a day and go to sleep
without confessing his or her sins to God. David's statement should put the
fear of the Lord in us for he testified, "When I kept silent (about my
sin), my
bones wasted away through my groaning (roaring) all day long" (Ps 32:3).
Wherever
there is conviction of sin, the believer will (or should) hate it, confess it, and
forsake it. When was the last evening you confessed your transgressions of
that day (you did have some didn't you?) before you fell asleep? Are you
having difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep? Could lack of confession
and the unrest it creates in a believer's heart have anything to do with
your insomnia? Just a thought. I am planning on chronicling my confessions
daily because even as I wrote these notes I realized I went to sleep last
night without confessing several very glaring "bouts of unholy behavior"!
The
Septuagint (Lxx) translates "confesses" with an interesting
verb exegeomai (English = exegesis
= unfolding interpretation thru teaching) which has the idea of
unfolding, declaring thoroughly and particularly even as an excellent
teacher is to make known the meaning of a passage. Exegeomai is in the
present tense
in Greek calling for
confession to be our continual practice just as does the Hebrew form of the
verb yadah (see preceding paragraph). Confession is to be a believer's
lifestyle. Furthermore, the picture painted by this unique verb exegeomai seems to be
not one of confessing in "generalities" ("Oh Lord, I have sinned against
Thee")...but of very specific confession, of naming the sins by their
specific heinous names, not confessing them in vague (even abstract)
generalities. Remember that concealing the sin
involves rationalizing it in order to avoid confessing it, whereas confession
involves naming the particular sin and "owning" it as your own despite the
pain and shame it causes your heart! That's genuine confession!
Yadah - 111v - Gen 29:35; 49:8;
Lev 5:5; 16:21; 26:40; Num 5:7; 2 Sam 22:50; 1 Kgs 8:33, 35; 1 Chr 16:4, 7f,
34f, 41; 23:30; 25:3; 29:13; 2 Chr 5:13; 6:24, 26; 7:3, 6; 20:21; 30:22;
31:2; Ezra 3:11; 10:1; Neh 1:6; 9:2f; 11:17; 12:24, 46; Job 40:14; Ps 6:5;
7:17; 9:1; 18:49; 28:7; 30:4, 9, 12; 32:5; 33:2; 35:18; 42:5, 11; 43:4f;
44:8; 45:17; 49:18; 52:9; 54:6; 57:9; 67:3, 5; 71:22; 75:1; 76:10; 79:13;
86:12; 88:10; 89:5; 92:1; 97:12; 99:3; 100:4; 105:1; 106:1, 47; 107:1, 8,
15, 21, 31; 108:3; 109:30; 111:1; 118:1, 19, 21, 28f; 119:7, 62; 122:4;
136:1ff, 26; 138:1f, 4; 139:14; 140:13; 142:7; 145:10; Pr 28:13; Isa 12:1,
4; 25:1; 38:18f; Jer 33:11; 50:14; Lam 3:53; Dan 9:4, 20; Zech 1:21
The way to cover our
sin
is to uncover it by confession.
--Sibbes
SPECIFIC
SIN
SPECIFIC CONFESSION
When you have committed a specific sin
against God, be sure to specifically confess that sin. As John Blanchard
says...
Acknowledging that one is a sinner is no
more conviction of sin than believing the truth about Jesus is saving faith.
Spurgeon's exhortation is also
apropos regarding confession of specific sins...
Do not give fair names to foul sins. Call
them what you will, they will smell no sweeter.
Moses uses this yadah...
So it shall be when he becomes guilty in
one of these, that he shall confess that in which he has sinned. (Lev
5:5, context = Lev 5:1, 2, 3, 4, Nu 5:6, 7)
On the Day of Atonement we
read...
Then Aaron shall lay both of his hands on
the head of the live goat, and confess over it all the iniquities of
the sons of Israel, and all their transgressions in regard to all their
sins; and he shall lay them on the head of the goat and send it away into
the wilderness by the hand of a man who stands in readiness. (Lev 16:21)
In Second Chronicles we see
yadah used in the context of confession...
When the heavens are shut up and there is
no rain because they have sinned against Thee, and they pray toward this
place and confess Thy name, and turn from their sin when Thou dost
afflict them then hear Thou in heaven and forgive the sin of Thy servants
and Thy people Israel, indeed, teach them the good way in which they should
walk. And send rain on Thy land, which Thou hast given to Thy people for an
inheritance. (2Chronicles 6:26, 27, cp Lev 26:40, 1Ki 18:33, 35, 36)
H A Ironside writes...
Confession is the divinely-appointed
method of securing a clear conscience, not confession to some human
mediator, but to God Himself. The basis of our forgiveness is the atonement
of our Lord Jesus Christ. Because in rich grace, He bore the sinner's
judgment on Calvary and shed His precious blood to put away sin, God can "be
just, and the justifier of him which believeth in Jesus" (Ro 3:26-note).
Confession does not mean a general acknowledgment of sinfulness and
wickedness of life, uttered to ease the soul. True confession involves
genuine repentance and self-judgment. The repentant man no longer hugs the
chains that bind him but longs for full deliverance from them. He comes to
God with real concern about his unholy ways, thoughts, and words, earnestly
seeking grace to cease from them and to walk uprightly before the Lord. But
he cannot do this in himself. Only when he rests in simple faith in the
finished work of Christ and yields himself to God as one now alive from the
dead is he able to rise above the sins that have blighted his life and
almost damned his soul.
There are two kinds of forgiveness, judicial and
parental. When we trust
Christ as Lord and Savior, we receive forgiveness from the penalty of sins
which is the picture of judicial forgiveness. When we, as believers, confess our sins, we
receive parental forgiveness (1Jn 1:9) which maintains fellowship with God
our Father. Anyone who confesses and forsakes his sins has the assurance
that God not only forgives but forgets (Heb 10:17).
Consider the nature and advantage of
confessing and forsaking sin.
1. Our confession must be spiritual.
2. Our sin must be confessed as a great evil.
3. Our sin must be confessed as deserving special punishment.
(From Sketches of Four Hundred Sermons.)
It is far better to deal with sin by
confessing and renouncing it. As David found out, confession results in
God’s mercy and forgiveness (Ps 34:5; 51:1-12). Don't sweep sin under the
rug. Instead put it under the blood.
In Psalm 32 which most
authorities think is a response to David's sin against Uriah and Bathsheba
David declares...
I acknowledged my sin to Thee, and my
iniquity I did not hide (kacah ; Lxx = epikalupto as the man
who conceals his sin = Pr 28:13); I said, "I will confess
my transgressions to the LORD"; And Thou didst forgive the guilt of my sin.
Selah.
Comment: While David did "hide"
(kacah) his sin for almost a year after his adultery with Bathsheba and
murder of her husband Uriah, he eventually did "come clean" before God as
recorded so beautifully in Psalm 51 (See commentary
Psalm 51:1-9
and
Psalm
51:10-19
).
Spurgeon's comments on Ps 32:5:
I acknowledged my sin unto thee. After long lingering, the broken
heart bethought itself of what it ought to have done at the first, and laid
bare its bosom before the Lord. The lancet must be let into the gathering
ulcer before relief can be afforded. The least thing we can do, if we would
be pardoned, is to acknowledge our fault; if we are too proud for this we
double deserve punishment.
And mine iniquity have I not hid.
We must confess the guilt as well as the fact of sin. It is useless to
conceal it, for it is well known to God; it is beneficial to us to own it,
for a full confession softens and humbles the heart. We must as far as
possible unveil the secrets of the soul, dig up the hidden treasure of
Achan, and by weight and measure bring out our sins. I said. This was his
fixed resolution.
I will confess my transgressions unto
the Lord. Not to my fellow men or to the high priest, but unto Jehovah;
even in those days of symbol the faithful looked to God alone for
deliverance from sin's intolerable load, much more now, when types and
shadows have vanished at the appearance of the dawn. When the soul
determines to lay low and plead guilty, absolution is near at hand; hence we
read,
And thou forgavest the iniquity of my
sin. Not only was the sin itself pardoned, but the iniquity of it; the
virus of its guilt was put away, and that at once, so soon as the
acknowledgment was made.
God's pardons are deep and thorough:
the knife of mercy cuts at the roots of the ill weed of sin. Selah. Another
pause is needed, for the matter is not such as may be hurried over.
Daniel uses yadah in one of the
greatest prayers in Scripture in Daniel 9...
And I prayed to the LORD my God and
confessed and said, "Alas, O Lord, the great and awesome God, who keeps
His covenant and lovingkindness for those who love Him and keep His
commandments we (Notice Daniel's humble attitude to include himself a
sinner!) have sinned, committed iniquity, acted wickedly, and
rebelled, even turning aside from Thy commandments and ordinances. (Da 9:4,
5-note,
cp second used of Yadah in Da 9:20-note)
Comment: It is worth noting that
Daniel gives five descriptions of sin against God!
Joseph Hall was right when he
said...
How easily sin gets into the heart; how
hardly it gets out of the mouth.
Gill writes that we must
confess our sins...
to God, against it is committed, and who
only can pardon it; and though it is known unto him, yet he requires an
acknowledgment of it, which should be done from the heart, with an
abhorrence of the sin, and in the faith of Christ, as a sacrifice for it;
and it is not enough to confess, there must be a forsaking
likewise, a parting with sin, a denying of sinful self, a
leaving the former course of sin, and a quitting the company of
wicked men before used to, and an abstaining from all appearance of
evil; as is and will be the case, where there is a true sight and sense of
sin, and the grace of God takes place: and such find "mercy", pardoning
grace and mercy, or pardon in a way of mercy, and not merit; for though the
sinner confesses and forsakes it, it is not that which merits pardon and
mercy in God, who is rich in it, delights in showing it, and from whom it
may be hoped for and expected by all such persons; (Ps 32:5-note)
(1Jn 1:9)
Former Moody Bible Church pastor Alan
Redpath said...
The time lag between the moment of
sinning and the moment of forsaking and confessing is a sure indication of
the true nature of a man's walk with God.
Study Torrey's cross references on
Confession of sin...
God requires - Leviticus 5:5; Hosea
5:15
God regards - Job 33:27,28; Daniel 9:20-23
Exhortation to - Joshua 7:19; Jeremiah 3:13; James 5:16
Promises to - Leviticus 26:40-42; Proverbs 28:13
SHOULD BE ACCOMPANIED WITH
Submission to punishment - Leviticus 26:41; Nehemiah 9:33; Ezra 9:13
Prayer for forgiveness - 2Sa 24:10; Ps 25:11; 51:1; Jer 14:7-9,20
Self-abasement - Isaiah 64:5,6; Jeremiah 3:25
Godly sorrow - Psalms 38:18; Lamentations 1:20
Forsaking sin - Proverbs 28:13
Restitution - Numbers 5:6,7
Should be full and unreserved - Ps 32:5;
51:3; 106:6
Followed by pardon - Ps 32:5; 1John 1:9
Illustrated - Lk 15:21; 18:13
Exemplified
Aaron - Numbers 12:11
Israelites - Nu 21:6,7; 1Sa 7:6; 12:19
Saul - 1Sa 15:24
David - 2Sa 24:10
Ezra - Ezra 9:6
Nehemiah - Nehemiah 1:6,7
Levites - Nehemiah 9:4,33,34
Job - Job 7:20
Daniel - Daniel 9:4
Peter - Luke 5:8
Thief - Luke 23:41
Speaker's Commentary
If wrong has been done, the course which
man is naturally tempted to take, that of hiding, hushing up, does but
increase his misery. The burden is still on him. The conditions of freedom
are confession and amendment, confession to God of sins against Him, to men
of sins against them. The teaching of ethical wisdom on this point is
identical with that of Psalmist, Prophet, Apostles, and our Lord Himself. (Proverbs
28:13 Commentary)
John Gill explains that...
whenever he is charged with sin, and
reproved for it by his fellow Christian, be should not cover it, that
is, he should own it, for not to own and acknowledge it is to cover
it. He should not deny it, which is to cover it with a lie, and is
adding sin to sin. Nor should he justify it, as if he had done a right
thing; nor extenuate or excuse it, or impute it to others that drew him into
it, as Adam, which is called a covering transgression, as Adam, (Job
31:33).
A C Gaebelein
Every attempt to cover up sin is a
failure. How much of this is done today, not merely the covering of
individual sins, but the denial of sin itself. Modern theology uses
much ingenious argumentation which tries to make out of sin something else;
speaks of it as a mere defect, as if it were some kind of a taint in the
blood, a hereditary and therefore unavoidable weakness, something for which
man is not responsible. All these inventions, which sweep aside the
declarations of the infallible Word of God, are “covering up.” No mercy can
there be for those who deny sin and sins. The fig leaves must be torn away
with which man still tries to cover his nakedness. There must be confession,
repentance, self-judgment and then of course trust in Him who died for the
ungodly. (Proverbs
28:13 Commentary)
John Gill explains that the man
who covers his sin...
shall not prosper in soul or body,
in things temporal or spiritual; he shall not have peace of mind and
conscience, but, sooner or later, shall feel the stings. He shall not
succeed even in those things he has in view by covering his sins (Nu 32:23).
He shall not be able to cover them long, for there is nothing covered but
what shall be revealed; if not in this life, which yet often is, however at
the day of judgment, when every secret thing shall be made manifest; nor
shall he escape the shame and punishment he thought to avoid by covering it,
as may be observed in the case of Achan, (Joshua 7:11-25) ; in short, he
shall have no mercy shown him by God or man, as appears by the antithesis in
the next clause
William Bates in his article on
"God's Forgiveness of Sin" has a subtopic on on Confession which addresses
the question of "What About Confession to Other People?" (not just to
God)...
An initial and prerequisite thing in
approach to God by the sinner, between which two sin intervenes, is
confession. It is the vital link between the soul and God....
Confession is, so to speak, an
instinct of the heart. Unconfessed sin bars the way of approach to God,
confession opens it.
The needfulness of confession to God of
sin en bloc and in particular is plain enough; but how about confession to
others?
Perhaps there is no matter in practical
Christian experience that has brought keener pain to sensitive-conscienced
souls than that of confession of sin to those against whom we may have
sinned. And who is there that does not desire to have this question
satisfactorily treated, and, if possible, settled?
Realizing the importance, the difficulty,
and the delicacy of this phase of the subject the author, instead of
depending upon his own thought, is glad to avail himself, not only as to
substance but much as to form, of editorial matter in the Christian Herald
and the Sunday School Times, which gratefully he does with the permission of
the editors of both journals.
‘Charles E. Hurlburt, Director of the
African Inland Mission, said at the Victorious Life Conference at Princeton:
“Confession is a dangerous thing.” The consecrated Bible student and
teacher,
Dr. Arthur T. Pierson (Biography),
is quoted as having said on this subject of confession: “God does not want
us to wash our dirty linen in public.” Neither Mr. Hurlburt nor Dr. Pierson
were speaking of confessing our sins to God; this is an imperative
obligation and a sacred privilege. They were speaking of making confessions
to others for the sake of confessing, an imaginary duty which has indeed
tormented some earnest, sincere Christians, and which Satan can bring before
us in his effort to drive us beyond God’s will.’
‘Confession of sin {in the manner urged
in James, 5:16, “Confess therefore your faults
one to another, and pray one for another that ye may be healed”) is often a
source of cruel torture to sensitive souls. It should be very clearly
understood that if we have wronged any one in thought, word, or deed, it is
our duty to confess it to that person; but a wrong which may be so far back
in the past that it can justly be said to affect no one but God and
ourselves, and which a quickened conscience is insistently bringing before
us, needs to be confessed only to God.’ ‘The entire passage in James is
dealing with the subject of bodily healing, and with the calling in of
elders of the church for special prayer for such healing in the name of the
Lord. If the sick one has committed sins, we are told, in connection with
this special ordinance of prayer and healing, that he will be forgiven those
sins; and obviously such sins are to be confessed at such a time. But the
passage is not dealing with the subject of confession in general.’
‘There is nothing in the Bible that tells
the Christian to make public confession of his sins, or to confess his sins
to any human being, merely in order that “justice” may be satisfied and the
sin be made known to another. The Christian is always to confess his sins to
God, against whom every sin is directed; and if we thus “confess our sins he
[Jesus] is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us
from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). When confession to God has been
made, then confession of that sin need not be made to any human being unless
some one has been defrauded or injured by our sin and our confession to that
one will help to undo the injury or make good the loss.’ ‘This is a
reasonable principle: confess a sin to any one who will be injured,
defrauded, or wronged in some way if that confession is withheld. But unless
actual injury or injustice will be done by withholding confession, there is
no sound reason for believing that the confession is necessarily required
by, or pleasing to God.’
‘Confession merely in order to let others
know of our sin, when their knowing it will do neither them nor any one else
any good, is not only unnecessary but is unscriptural. No Christian should
ever be required to confess sin simply to humiliate him.’ ‘There is no
spiritual value in voluntary self-mortification. When our sins find us out
and put us to public shame, we have no right to complain, and should bear it
meekly; but self-exposure is no duty, and we should accept it as a merciful
dispensation when we are saved from open humiliation, and all the more when
our exposure would involve others. It is a sacred duty to shield those who
love us from shame on our account.’
‘When one has sinned and has repented of
his sin, has confessed it to God, has been forgiven through the redemption
and advocacy of Jesus Christ, and then has repaired the injury to the utmost
of his power, or is going on to repair it as rapidly as he can, let him drop
the whole matter of confessing to anybody else unless further confession is
necessary to save some one from injury or loss. God wants us to forget all
about any further confession and leave the matter wholly with the forgiving
and restoring love of God. The devil loves to torture sincere and
conscientious Christians with the devilishly false idea of the duty of
confession in directions where God does not want confession made.’
Such, then, are the conditions, on the
human side, to be fulfilled in order to God’s forgiveness of our sins:
repentance, forgiveness of others, confession. (God’s
Forgiveness Of Sin -- By William H. Bates -Bibliotheca Sacra 79:315. July,
1922, p. 265)
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Cover-up - After bearing the
burden of a guilty conscience for more than four decades, an elderly man
decided he couldn’t go on any longer without confessing his crime.
When he was brought to trial, he told the judge, “After living with this
thing hanging over my head for 40 some years, it got heavier and heavier
until I just couldn’t stand it any longer.” What a clear illustration that
guilt is inescapable!
The judge decided to show mercy. “Criminal charges are not warranted in this
case,” he said, as the old man, now hard of hearing, strained to catch his
words.
Confession is the key to the problem of guilt. The Lord pleaded with His
people through the prophet Jeremiah, trying to get them to see where they
had been unfaithful. Over and over again He warned that He would judge them
for denying that they had done wrong, and for refusing to come back to Him
for mercy (Jer 2:35). He urged them to stop running from what they had done
and to admit their sin (Jer 3:13).
What about you today? Is there something in your life that you are covering
up? It won’t work. You can’t fool God. Confess it to the Lord and experience
His mercy, love, and grace. — by Mart De Haan
(Our
Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by
permission. All rights reserved)
Jesus died to pay sin's debt,
Forgiveness to bestow;
But all who try to cover sin
His grace will never know.
—DJD
Confession is the key
that opens the door to forgiveness.
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THE EVIL OF
UNCONFESSED SINS
Octavius Winslow's devotional on
Pr 28:13 - AUGUST 22.
A sense of guilt upon the conscience
invariably occasions distant views of God.
The moment Adam became conscious of
having sinned, He hid himself from God's eye. He sought concealment from the
endearing presence of Him who had been used to walk in the cool of the
evening through the bowers of Paradise, in sweet and confiding communion. It
is so now! Guilt upon the conscience, sin unconfessed, imparts misty,
gloomy, distorted views of God. We lose that clear endearing view of His
character which we once had. We dare not look up with holy, humble boldness.
We misinterpret His dealings; think harshly of His ways; and if providences
are dark, and afflictions come, in a moment we exclaim, "I have sinned, and
God is angry." And so we seek concealment from God. We sink the Father in
the Judge, and the child in the slave.
Another evil that results from sin unconfessed is the hardening tendency
it produces upon the conscience. To a child of God, who has felt and
mourned over the power of sin, we need not stay to prove how hardening is
the tendency of sin; how it crusts the heart with a callousness which no
human power can soften, and which often requires heavy affliction to remove.
Where a child of God, then, neglects the habit of a daily confession of sin,
by slow and almost imperceptible degrees, the conscience loses its
tenderness, and becomes, by this gradual process, so hardened as at length
to think nothing of a sin, which at a previous period would have filled the
soul with horror and remorse.
One more evil we may mention, and that is, that a neglect of this most
important duty causes a fearful forgetfulness of sin, without the sweet
sense of its forgiveness. The believer loses sight of his sin, not
because he knows it to be pardoned, afresh blotted out, but from a mere
carnal forgetfulness of the sin. The child of God, on whose conscience the
atoning blood has been afresh sprinkled, cannot soon forget his sin. Oh no!
Freed from a sense of its condemnation, delivered from its guilt, and
looking up to the unclouded face of a reconciled God, yet He remembers how
far he could depart from the God that so loved him, and so readily and
freely forgave him. The very pardon of his sin stamps it upon his memory. He
thinks of it only to admire the love, adore the grace, and extol the blood
that blotted it out; and thus he is led to go softly all his days. "My soul
has them still in remembrance, and is humbled in me."
But the believer who neglects the duty and the privilege of confession
loses the remembrance of his sin, until brought under the rod of the
covenant. Then some deep and heavy chastisement recalls it to his
memory, and fills him with shame, humiliation, and contrition. In this
state, the Eternal Spirit comes into the soul with His restoring mercies,
leads the abased and humbled believer afresh to the "fountain opened,"; and
God, the God of all comfort; speaks in words of comfort to his broken heart.
(AUGUST)
AND FORSAKES THEM WILL FIND COMPASSION: (He who confesses: Lev 26:40 41 42 1Ki 8:47 48 49 Job 33:27 Ps 51:1
2, 3, 4, 5,10 Jer 3:12,13 Da 9:20 21 22 23 Lk 15:18 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24
1Jn 1:8, 9, 10) (forsakes: Ex 10:16,17 1Sa 15:30 Mt 3:6, 7, 8, , 10
27:4,5 Acts 26:20 )
Here's pardon for
transgressions past,
It matters not how black they're cast
And O, my soul, with wonder view
For sins to come here's pardon too."
Be wary of Satan's ruse to convince
you that you all you must do is confess yours sins. The truth of Pr 28:13 is
that confessing your sins is no substitute for forsaking them.
Do not be deceived.
Forsaking sin is very close to the
sense of repentance. When we forsake sin, we abandon it, we leave it in a
lurch. When we repent, we turn from the sin and toward a godly behavior.
When the Sunday School teacher asked the class, "What does it mean to
repent?" a little boy answered, "To repent means to be sorry enough to quit
doing what is wrong."
WHEN TO
CONFESS?
IMMEDIATELY!
Proverbs 28:13 links confession with
forsaking sin. This implies that an individual ought to confess his
transgressions as soon as he is aware of them. Delay in confessing and
forsaking sin constitutes concealment, which results in loss of spiritual
prosperity, as well as inviting trouble and divine discipline and the LORD
cannot work on our behalf (Isa 59:1,2).
Arnold Fruchtenbaum notes
Ideally, we should confess our sins when
we first become aware of them. But there are two time limits that the Bible
provides. First, Ep 4:26 states: let not the sun go down on your wrath. This
teaches that sin should be confessed by nightfall. Secondly, 1Co 11:23-33
admonishes us to examine ourselves before we partake of Communion.
Augustine phrased it this
way...
The confession of evil works is the first
beginning of good works.
R F Horton...
Sin is formless, vague, impalpable. But
our own individual transgressions can be fixed and defined; bringing
ourselves to the test of the Law, we can say particularly, "This practice of
mine is condemned, this habit of mine is sinful, this point of my character
is evil...and then we can definitely turn our back on the practice or the
habit, we can distinctly get rid of the blot in our character, we can fly
this guilty silence, rouse ourselves from our selfish indolence. "We live to
grow less like what we have been;" and it is this act of the will (Ed: but
see Php 2:13), this resolute purpose, this loathing what once you loved, and
turning towards that which once you ignored,--it is, in a word, the twin
process of repentance and conversion, that constitutes the second act in
this "covering" of sin. Not, of course, that in a moment the tyranny of old
habits can be broken, or the virtue of new activities acquired; but "the
forsaking" and "the departing from" are instantaneous exertions of the will.
Zaccheus, directly the Lord speaks to him, stands forth, and breaks with his
sins, renounces his extortions, resolving to make amends for the past, and
enters on a new line of conduct, promising to give the half of his goods to
the poor. That is the essential seal of every true confession: "Whoever
confesses and forsakes" his transgressions. (The
Book of Proverbs -by R. F. Horton)
Forsakes (05800)('azab)
conveys the basic meaning to depart, to abandon, to loose,. Things that can
left behind or forsaken include persons (Ge 44:22; Nu 10:30; Ru 1:16;
2Ki4:30), places (2Ki 8:6; Jer 18:14; 25:38) and objects (Ge 39:12,13; 50:8;
Ex 9:21). Men can forsake God (apostatize) (Dt 28:20, 31:16, Jer 1:16), can
abandon qualities of virtue (1Ki 12:8, 2Chr 10:8, 13), the way (of
righteousness) (Pr 15:10), instruction/wisdom (Pr 4:2, 6), reproof (Pr 10:17
- "ignore" = forsake), kindness (lovingkindness, faithfulness) (Pr 3:3). In
the present verse the writer urges the path of forsaking
transgressions. God issued a similar merciful plea in Isaiah 55
declaring...
Let the wicked forsake ('azab)
his way and the unrighteous man his thoughts; and let him return to the
Lord, and He will have compassion (racham) on him, and to our God, For He
will abundantly pardon. (Is 55:7)
"Forsaking" (leaving it in the lurch) a sin includes not only giving it up but
also actually "forgetting" in the sense that there is no longer a desire for it. We are
called here to work out our salvation but for the desire to be truly lost
involves the gracious, miraculous surgery of God extirpating the desire from
our heart (Php 2:12-note,
Php 2:13-note).
David uses the verb 'azab
to urge us to...
Cease
from anger and forsake
(Lxx =
egkataleipo
= leave behind, desert) wrath. Do not fret; it leads only to
evildoing. (Ps 37:8-note).
We generally have no trouble forsaking
what we hate or find repulsive. It follows that we need to have God open our
eyes to see our sins the way He sees them. John Calvin put it this way...
Men never entertain a real hatred towards
sin unless God illuminates their minds and changes their hearts.
Find compassion (07355)
(racham)
means
to show love for, to love deeply, to feel, show or have compassion on, to
be compassionate, show pity or mercy (Hab 3:2), to experience compassion (in
the pual - Ho 1:6). Racham speaks of tender, heart-felt concern. To tenderly regard
someone or tenderly love especially as parents love their infant child.
Root refers to deep love (usually of a "superior" for an "inferior") rooted
in some "natural" bond.
Racham refers to compassion
which stirs one's emotions (like a parent for their child - see below).
Racham expresses a deep and tender feeling of compassion, such as is
aroused by the sight of weakness or suffering in those that are dear and/or
need help. Racham pictures the expression of "a sympathetic view of
another’s distress, motivating helpful action." (John Frame)
The truths about God's racham should
stimulate in His children a desire to seek to imitate His tender feelings of
compassion to those who don't necessarily deserve our compassion but who are
in need of it.
Martin Luther...
Wounds cannot be healed
until they are revealed and sins cannot be forgiven until they are
confessed.
As the Puritan Thomas Manton once said...
The right spring of mercy is a sense of
God's mercy; it is a thank-offering, not a sin-offering.
Thomas Adams
He that demands mercy and shows none
ruins the bridge over which he himself is to pass.
Or as Thomas Fuller once
asked...
If God should have no more mercy on us
than we have charity one to another, what would become of us?
Albert Barnes convicts us all
with his wise comment that...
Nowhere do we imitate God more than in
showing mercy.
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C R Wood has the following
outline related to the The Answer to Concealment of Sin...
A. Motivation
1. The desire for forgiveness
2. The weariness of suffering
3. The desire for prosperity
B. Steps
1. Confession: agreeing with God that what we have done is sin (Psalm 51:4)
a. This should be done in detail
b. It should be done as soon as possible
2. Forsaking
a. It is absolutely essential
b. It involves sorrow for sin
c. It requires help from God
C. Results
1. The mercy of God is extended
2. Peace of heart, mind and soul are made possible
3. Prosperity is now potential (spiritual emphasis)
(Sermon Outlines on the Book of Proverbs. Grand Rapids, Mich.: Kregel
Publications)
William S Plumer on True Repentance of which Pr 28:13
confession is only one aspect...
True repentance embraces these things:
1. A knowledge of sin.
When Nathan convinced David of his sin, he cried for mercy (2Sa 12:13- note).
Men will not repent of sins of which they think themselves innocent.
2. Humility, deep and genuine abasement of soul before God. The
penitent says: "Behold, I am vile; what shall I answer you?" "O God, you
know my foolishness." Job 40:4; Psalm 69:5. True penitents "know every man
the plague of his own heart." 1 Kings 8:38.
3. Sincere and hearty confession of sin. "He who covers his sins
shall not prosper; but whoever confesses and forsakes them shall have
mercy." Proverbs 28:13. "I said, I will confess my transgressions unto the
Lord; and you forgave the iniquity of my sin." Psalm 32:5. Compare Psalm
51:3; Jer. 3:13; 1 John 1:9.
4. Shame belongs to genuine repentance. So said David: "Mine
iniquities have taken hold upon me, so that I am not able to look up." Psalm
40:2. So Ezra: "O my God, I am ashamed and blush to lift up my face to you."
Ezra 9:6. Compare Ezek. 36:31, 32. Nor does the pious blush cease when
pardon comes. Far from it. Ezek. 16:63.
5. With shame is joined sorrow, ingenuous grief for sin. "Godly
sorrow works repentance to salvation not to be repented of." 2 Cor. 7:9, 10.
To these are added,
6. Self-loathing, self-abhorrence. Job 42:6; Ezek. 6:9; 20:43. Of
course one thus exercised also has,
7. Hatred of sin, sin in every form. Psalm 66:18; 97:10; 119:104,
128. All these exercises are accompanied with
8. Love of holiness—a delight in the law of God after the inner man.
Romans 7:22; Psalm 119:140. Such a great change leads to
9. An amendment of life, a thorough reformation, works meet for
repentance. Matt. 3:8. "If I have done iniquity, I will do no more." Job
34:32. (THEOLOGY)
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APPLYING PROVERBS 28:13
TO YOUR MARRIAGE
Application of Pr 28:13 principle to marriage - Are you prospering
in your marriage? In asking this question, we are not asking about income,
or reputation, or social status (though all such can be the fruit of
prospering). The question is rather one of true fellowship between husband
and wife, something that is simply and solely the gift of a gracious God. Is
your marriage prospering? If you are prospering, then it is because you are
not “covering” your own sins in marriage, but rather the sins of the other.
If you are not prospering, then it is because your own sin is being covered
in some illegitimate fashion, and you and your marriage need to look to the
mercy of God.
The Basic Barrier: We all understand our frailties very well. It is
very unlikely that anyone here gets up in the morning, and sits down to make
a “to do” list, writing on it things like, “be short with the kids this
afternoon,” “be uncommunicative with my wife,” or “be disrespectful to my
husband.” We don’t plan these things—they ambush us. But there is an aspect
of this that we don’t understand well at all, and it is this aspect that is
the most significant barrier to confession of sin in marriage. It is a
problem that afflicts both men and women, but it has to be said that
masculine pride is by far and away the biggest offender here. The problem
has to do with our response after the fact. When we wait for the effects of
our sin to “blow over,” or just let others “cover it in love,” or act like
nothing much happened, then our problem is insidious, diabolical, arrogant,
marriage-destroying pride. If the sin was major (like an outburst of anger),
then the situation demands that we seek forgiveness. To refuse to seek
forgiveness is arrogance (Ed: And "covering" the sin). If the sin was minor
(like irritation in the voice), and we refuse to seek forgiveness, then our
pride is so great that we refuse to pick up a trifle. The former damages
directly, and the latter damages by petty insult. For the proud and
arrogant, it is either to big to confess or it is too small to confess.
Nothing is ever “just right” to confess.
Dealing With a Backlog: If you have not lived this way in your
marriage, then the chances are good that you have the marital equivalent of
a garage that has not been cleaned out for twenty years. The first thing to
do is to confess your sins individually (and separately) to God (1John 1:9).
When you are right with Him, the time is right to make restitution with one
another. When you are standing on a high dive, that sensation in your throat
is fear. When you are standing on the end of that bouncy board called
humbling yourself, with no water in sight down below, the sensation is also
fear—fear fueled by pride.
Maintenance: It is always preferable to have a fence at the top of
the cliff instead of parking an ambulance at the bottom. One way to build
this fence is to keep short accounts. Do not set yourself up for great
transgressions through continuance in presumptuous sins (Ps. 19:13). So here
are some suggested house rules that should be agreed upon by husband and
wife, and this agreement should be close to the bone. You should be looking
for deep agreement, where man and wife say to one another, “This is the way
we want to live.”
Do not separate, however temporarily, if you are out of fellowship:
this means the husband should not go to work, the wife should not go
shopping, and so on. When there is sin between you, that is the most
important priority of your life. This does not mean that you have to fix all
the problems that are related to the sin, but you must address the sin. Do
not go into the presence of others when you are out of fellowship: this
includes church, parties, Bible studies, or casual visits. Do not let anyone
into your home when you are out of fellowship: your home should be a place
of love and rest, and you do not want any others to ever be ushered into the
House of Tension. If you are around others, and it happens then, arrange a
hand signal for putting things right: this should be a simple way of saying,
“I was wrong, please forgive me,” and “Yes, I do.” It should not be so
complex that your wife thinks you are telling her to steal third. But
neither should there be private apologies for public sins. Do not make love
when you are out of fellowship: do not make your central union and communion
into hypocritical disunion. (Douglas James Wilson)
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Spurgeon (Faith's Checkbook -
Uncover and Confess Sin)...
HERE is the way of mercy for a guilty and
repenting sinner. He must cease from the habit of covering sin. This is
attempted by falsehood, which denies sin; by hypocrisy, which conceals it;
by boasting, which justifies it;
and by loud profession, which tries to
make amends for it.
The sinner’s business is to confess and
forsake. The two must go together. Confession must be honestly made to the
Lord Himself; and it must include within itself acknowledgment of the wrong,
a sense of its evil, and an a bhorrence
of it. We must not throw the fault upon others, nor blame circum-stances,
nor plead natural weakness. We must make a clean breast of it and plead
guilty to the indictment. There can be no mercy till this is done.
Furthermore, we must forsake the evil:
having owned our fault, we must disown all present and future intent to
abide in it. We cannot remain
in rebellion and yet dwell with the King’s Majesty. The habit of evil must
be quitted, together with all places, companions, pursuits, and books which
might lead us astray. Not for confession, nor for reformation, but in
connection with them, we find pardon by faith in the blood of Jesus.
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F B Meyer (Our
Daily Homily) writes - There must be confession before forgiveness. This
is clearly taught everywhere in God’s Word. “If thy brother trespass against
thee seven times a day, and seven times a day turn to thee, saying, I
repent, thou shalt forgive him.” But he must turn and say, I repent. This is
the clear condition. You may and must use every method of inducing him to
say this; but he must be brought to say it, before it is right to pronounce
the gracious formula of absolution. There may be the disposition to forgive,
but there cannot be the declaration of forgiveness, until the wrongdoer
perceives the wrong and expresses his regret and sorrow.
The prodigal must say to his father,
“I have sinned.” It is only as we confess our sins, that our merciful High
Priest can forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Confession is to take God’s side against sin. It is the lifting out of one
thing after another from heart and life, and holding them for a moment
before God, with the acknowledgment that it is our fault, our grievous
fault.
There is only one way in which
transgressions can be covered: that of which the psalmist speaks, when he
says, Blessed is the man whose iniquity is forgiven, whose sin is covered,
because hidden under the propitiation of the blood. In Hood’s poem, Eugene
Aram sought to cover his sin under the leaves of the forest, and beneath the
waters of the river. But in vain. So sinners try to cover their sins in
vain. But God hath set forth Christ Jesus to be a propitiation — a word
which denotes the mercy-seat — the lid that covered the stone slabs on which
the finger of God had written the Law.
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Exaggeration - A woman said to
a preacher, "I have a habit that I know is hurting my testimony—the habit of
exaggeration. I start to tell something and I go on and on enlarging the
story. People suspect that it's not true, and they lose confidence in me.
I'm trying to get over it. Could you help me?"
He responded, "Let's talk to the Lord about it."
She prayed, "Lord, You know I have this habit of exaggeration . . ." At this
point the preacher interrupted, "Call it lying and you may get over it!" The
woman was deeply convicted and confessed her wrong.
We often excuse our pet sins by giving them more acceptable names. Our bad
temper we call "nerves"; our untruthfulness, "exaggeration"; our dishonesty
we call "good business." In seeking to overcome these sins, we need to bring
them out in the open, call them honestly by name, and sincerely repent
(Proverbs 28:13).
A man entered a dentist's office and sat down to have his teeth fixed. "I
can feel a huge cavity with my tongue," he said. The dentist examined the
man's teeth and said, "It'll only be a small filling." "But why does it feel
so large?" asked the patient. "Just the natural tendency of the tongue to
exaggerate," replied the dentist with a twinkle in his eye. We may smile,
but aren't we all prone to blow things out of proportion? Indeed, "the
tongue is a little member and boasts great things" (James 3:5).—Henry G.
Bosch (Our
Daily Bread, Copyright RBC Ministries, Grand Rapids, MI. Reprinted by
permission. All rights reserved)
Lord, forgive us for misusing our tongues. - Henry Bosch
To stretch the truth
is to tell a lie.
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Lawson writes
Sin is the source of misery and ruin: It
has turned angels into devils and people the regions of horror with those
that once dwelt in the abodes of perfect bliss. It has brought misery and
woe into our world, that might have been a lower heaven, if we had not
revolted from God and destroyed ourselves by our iniquity. But, blessed be
the Lord, our condition is not desperate, like that of the angels who kept
not their first habitation. God looked upon our race with an eye of
compassion and provided us effectual relief. The Son of God is our great
atonement and we are called to the enjoyment of pardon through faith in His
blood. Under a deep sense of our guilt and danger, we are warranted to claim
salvation from sin and wrath from that mercy that reigns through
righteousness unto eternal life by Jesus Christ our Lord.
But such is the folly of many sinners,
that they would rather hide their sins from their own eyes, and, if
possible, from the eyes of God, than receive mercy under the character of
sinners. They will allow themselves to be sinners, but they will not confess
their sins; or, if they cannot altogether deny them, they endeavour to save
their honour (1Sa 15:30), or rather their pride, to the ruin of their souls,
by excusing and extenuating them, or by transferring, like our first
parents, the blame of them to others (1Sa 15:20, 21). How foolish is it for
those that pine away under a mortal disease to conceal it from the knowledge
of the world, rather than seek a cure from the physician?
Those who cover their sins shall not prosper ; for it is impossible to cover
them from the eye of our Judge, and to endeavor to shelter ourselves under
coverings that are not of his spirit, is an additional provocation to the
eyes of his glory. If we would judge ourselves we should not be judged; but
if we cover our sins with excuses, and will not suffer ourselves to be
sensible of our absolute need of sovereign mercy, how can we expect to share
in that salvation, which is bestowed on men to the praise of the glory of
the grace of God?
If we will not acknowledge our disease,
we refuse to the physician the praise of a cure.
There are some who expose themselves to
the censure of this text, by hiding their sins from men, when providence, by
bringing them to light, calls for a public confession as one evidence of
repentance. Such persons think it would be a dishonor to them to confess
their faults; but the dishonor lay in committing them, and confession, with
other proofs of repentance, is the only possible means of wiping it away.
They stand upon a false point of honor, and expose themselves to disgrace
and misery; for they shall not prosper, because they refuse to give glory to
God by taking shame to themselves (Josh 7:19).
Those that hide their sins shall not prosper, because they reject that mercy
without which they must be miserable. They prefer their own fig-leaf
coverings to that covering of sin by pardoning mercy which is the ground of
blessedness to the guilty (Ps 32:1). But if we confess our sins, God is
faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all
unrighteousness (1Jn 1:9). Under the law, the offerer of an atoning
sacrifice was appointed to lay his hands upon the head of the victim, as a
token of the translation of his guilt unto his sacrifice. In like manner, we
are to confess our sin, with a dependence on that blessed sacrifice which
takes away the sin of the world, claiming the pardon of our iniquities
through the Messiah, whose soul was made an offering for sin; and through
him all that believe are justified from all things from which they could not
be justified by the law of Moses.
But what shall we say of those who confess their sins, like Pharaoh, and
again return to the practice of them? (cp Ex 9:27, 10:16) These persons are
not partakers of mercy, for their confessions were never sincere. They were
never produced by a genuine humiliation, nor mingled with faith in the
atonement, and therefore they are not accompanied with reformation. They are
provocations to God, because He is mocked and insulted by such deceitful
professions.
But he that confesses and forsakes his
sins shall have mercy. It was divine mercy that wrought in him such a happy
temper. The sincerity of his repentance is an evidence of his interest in
the blessings of saving mercy. That mercy which he has already experienced
shall still follow him, till he is crowned with loving-kindnesses and
mercies.
Thank You Father for not giving us what we deserve but instead providing for
us what we don't deserve... the Way of escape in the wilderness of this
wanton wasting world...Forgiveness of our abominable sins through the shed
blood of the Holy Lamb of God. Hallelujah.
Illustration: In a conservative southern church, the pastor's wife found
pornography on her husband's computer. After confronting him with the
evidence, he admitted downloading the images off the internet, even using
the computer in his study which was located in the church itself. Somehow he
had separated his ongoing sexual sin from his responsibilities and duties as
a man of God.
Illustration: In an August 2000 poll conducted by Christianity Today on
internet pornography, 33% of active ministers admitted having visited porn
sites. Over half of those ministers said that they had visited those sites
more than once. A total of 18 percent of clergy said they visit sexually
explicit Web sites between a couple of times a month and more than once a
week. This poll includes many liberal and 'mainstream' ministers, but it
would be very naive to think that porn was not a problem for some
bible-believing ministers.
Illustration: In another bible-believing church not far from my home, a
Christian businessman sought investment capital from other Christian
individuals and businesses. He promised to invest the money in new Christian
enterprises and promised a high rate of return on their money. Alas,
however, there was no new enterprise, and there was no return on their
money. He had embezzled hundreds of thousands of dollars from his fellow
Christians. He was charged by civil authorities and jailed. The unbelieving
world had another excuse to demean biblical Christianity.
Illustration: A nice Christian family joined the church by letter from
another city. Brad and Susan had four wonderful little boys ranging in age
from two years up to ten years. Susan had a beautiful voice and sang
specials in the church. Brad was a bible teacher and had taught Sunday
school at their former church. But Brad and Susan had a terrible secret. He
had a terrible temper that caused him to abuse Susan both physically and
emotionally. No one in the church had any idea until she took her boys and
left to return to her hometown. Brad followed her back and tried to
reconcile with her. But his secret was now public and there was no turning
back.
Spurgeon
You say that you can handle your secret sins, that there is no one
hurt by them. But you may as well ask the lion to let you put your head into
his mouth. You cannot regulate his jaws: neither can you regulate sin. Once
done, you cannot tell when you will be destroyed. You may put your head in
and out a great many times; but one of these days it will be a costly
venture. "
Christian friend, go not continue to hide your sin. Don't harbor that sin,
buried deep in the tent floor of your heart. It will affect your family,
your home, your spiritual inheritance, and your purpose in life. There is no
sin worthy of separating us from our Father. It is not necessary to confess
your secret sins to everyone, for it is none of their business. Do business
with God. Repent and let God restore you to fellowship.
William Arnot's entire chapter
on Pr 28:13 is included because it is no longer published and because
C H
Spurgeon thought so highly of Arnot's work writing "We wish Dr. Arnot
had gone steadily through the whole book, for his mind was of an order
peculiarly adapted for such a task. Those passages which he dilates upon are
set in a clear and beautiful light. For a happy blending of illustrative
faculty, practical sound sense, and spirituality, Dr. Arnot was almost
unrivalled." (Spurgeon,
C. H. Lectures to my Students).
Below are Arnot's comments...
This verse is divided to our hand. The
separating lines are very distinctly drawn: they mark at once the
appropriate place of each portion, and the mutual relations of all. Two
persons are introduced; two opposite courses are ascribed to them; and two
correspondingly opposite results are predicted. The one covers his sins, and
therefore shall not prosper: the other confesses and forsakes his sins, and
therefore shall have mercy.
The two distinct yet closely related
subjects are the covering the confession of sin, with the consequences that
follow either course. Two kinds of seed are sown in spring, and two kinds of
fruit are gathered in harvest. As man sows, so shall he reap.
Few people know what sin is; and those
few do not know it well. Both te name and the thing which it signifies are
common; and yet neither is well or widely understood. Men cover their sins
because they know a little of them, and then the covering prevents them from
learning more. They suspect that the knowledge would not be pleasant and
therefore keep it out of the way. They would call that prophet willingly, if
they could be assured that he would prophesy good concerning themselves.
Sin is in a man at once the most familiar
inmate and the greatest stranger. There is nothing which he practices more
or knows less. Although he lives in it--because he lives in it, he is
ignorant of it. Nothing is more widely diffused or more constantly near us
than atmospheric air; yet few ever notice its existence, and fewer consider
its nature. Dust and chaff and feathers, that sometimes move up and down in
it, attract our regard more than the air in which they float; yet these are
trifles which scarcely concern us, and in this we live and move and have our
being. The air which we breathe is every day and all day affects our life
and happiness more than those occasional meteoric phenomena which excite the
wonder of the world. The air exerts a predominating power on life,
independently of the thought or thoughtlessness of those who breathe it.
Such, in this respect is sin. It pervades humanity, but in proportion to its
profusion men are blind to its presence. Because it is everywhere, we do not
observe it anywhere: because we never want it; we are not aware that we ever
have it. But to ignore its existence does not change its nature, or remove
its effects. Sin Decisively affects the time and eternity of men, although
they neither observe its presence nor dread its power. Our ignorance or
indolence cannot change the law of God and the nature of things. Sin is sin
in its character and consequences--in its present guilt and future
doom--although the sinner die without discovering the element in which he
lived. "Behold, I knew not," will neither arrest nor annul the sentence,
"Depart from me." The true reason of the sinner's ignorance is the greatness
of his sin. It it had been some brilliant feather floating in the air, he
would have followed it with his eye, and inquired into its origin: but the
air itself--he lived in it, and therefore never became aware that there was
such a thing.
Beware of the old, stolid, atheistic
blunder, of counting that nothing exists which cannot be seen. Moral evil is
invisible as the human soul, or God its maker; yet it exists and its effects
are great. God unseen rewards the search of those who seek Him; sin unseen
punishes the neglect of those who seek it not. If you diligently seek for
God your friend, He will be your rewarder; if you diligently seek for sin
your foe, it will not be your destroyer. The acute and learned Saul of
Tarsus, did not discover his own sin until his journey to Damascus, although
it wrought constantly as a law in his members. It was because it lay so near
that he failed to observe it. A scratch on the skin is more easily
discovered than a poison circulating in the blood. Alas! We know better
every trifling accident that occurs in the world, than the enmity to God
which reigns at first in all, troubles even disciples to the last.
But the knowledge of sin, difficult by
the nature of the thing, is rendered still more difficult by positive
efforts to conceal it. Life has three sides like tablets, on which moral
character, good or evil, is graven and displayed -- an aspect inward, an
aspect outward, and an aspect upward. The corresponding departments of duty,
as expressed in Scripture, are, "to live soberly and righteously and godly;"
but when in any or all of these directions a man comes short, an evil heart
of unbelief makes an effort to conceal the sin. Watchers and witnesses stand
round the man on all three sides: himself, his neighbor, and God, observe
and condemn the various forms of transgression.
Criminals are not the only class who
strive to hide their deeds from the sight of men . Reputable citizens occupy
much of their time, and expend much of the energy, in the task of making
themselves seem better than they are. But after covering his sin from his
neighbor the hypocrite must take up the more difficult task of concealing
it from himself. A busy court is constantly in session within a human heart.
Opposing parties are ever wrangling there. Nowhere is special pleading more
cunningly employed to make the worse appear the better reason . No effort is
spared to hide the ugly side of sin, and set off its more seemly parts as
virtue. The imaginations of man's heart, evil themselves, are constantly
employed like clouds of artisans in weaving webs to cover other evils.
But the chief effort of the alienated must ever be to cover his sins from
the sight of God. The arts are manifold; and they are practised in secret:
it is not easy to detect and expose them. The strong man armed who maintains
possession of the citadel puts forth all his strength to prevent the
entrance of a stronger One. As long as a human heart is held by the prince
of darkness, the human faculties enslaved are compelled to guard the gates
against the Light of Life. The keynote of the carnal is given by the
possessing spirit: "What have we to do with thee, thou Jesus? art thou come
to torment us?" All the wiles of the tempter and all the faculties of his
slave are devoted to the work of weaving a curtain thick enough to cover an
unclean conscience from the eye of God. Anything and everything may go as a
thread into the web; houses and lands, business and pleasure, family and
friends, virtues and vices, blessings and cursings—a hideous miscellany of
good and evil—constitute the material of the curtain: and the woven web is
walked over and over again with love and hatred, joys and sorrows, hopes
and fears, to thicken the wall without and deepen the darkness within, that
the fool may be able with some measure of comfort to say "in his heart, No
God!"
But " he shall not prosper" in this effort to cover his sin. God cannot so
be mocked: His laws cannot so be evaded. Although sin in its spiritual
nature cannot be seen by human eyes and weighed in material balances, it is
as real as the objects of sense. Although its essence is not palpable, its
power is great. If it be not destroyed, it will become the destroyer. If it
be not through grace cast out of a man in time, it will in judgment cast the
man out from God and the good at last.
Certain great iron castings have been ordered for a railway-bridge. The
thickness has been calculated according to the extent of the span and the
weight of the load. The contractor constructs his moulds according to the
specifications, and when all is ready pours in the molten metal . In the
process of casting, through some defect in the mould, portions of air lurk
in the heart of the iron, and cavities like those of a honey-comb are formed
in the interior of the beam; but a whole skin covers all the surface, and
the flaws are effectually concealed. The artisan has covered his fault, but
he will not prosper. As soon as it is subjected to a strain the beam gives
way.
The catastrophe, you reply, is due to the violation of physical laws, and we
all know that they inexorably and impartially chastise transgressors. For
that very reason has the example been taken from the domain of the natural
laws. You know that it is foolish to hide a sin in the heart of the iron. It
shall not prosper. Laws which you see in operation will avenge the trick The
case belongs to matter and its essential properties. The senses take
cognizance of the fact. We believe it, because we see it.
Well; sin covered becomes a rotten hollow in a human soul, and when the
strain comes, the false gives way. If the hypocrite. through the merciful
arrangements of Providence, be tried and tested in this life, the fair
appearance will collapse, and a deceived heart, taught by terrible things in
righteousness to know itself, may yet find God a Saviour. It is thus that
the trial of faith "is much more precious than of gold that perishes" (1Peter
1:7). The fall which reveals a fatal defect, before it is too late to
obtain a remedy, is in form a calamity, but in essence and effect the best
of blessings. If no severe pressure come to test the spurious goodness
within the limits of this life, it may hold together until it be out of
sight in the grave. But it is appointed unto men once to die, and after
death the judgment. The strain which will try every man's work is put on
there. The unsoundness caused by covered sin will be detected then. The
assize and the condemnation are not visible. If men refuse to believe what
they cannot see, they must even wait until they get their own kind of
evidence. If a material generation in a material age will make sure that
there is no flaw in the iron which spans the river and bears their goods;
and go with the hollow which covered sin has left in their souls to meet the
final judgment; they must even be left in unbelief to take in conviction
when it can no longer lead to life. "Seeing is believing." That curt proverb
will receive a terrible fulfilment. When the Lord comes the second time,
"Every eye shall see him:" but they who are first convinced then shah1
"believe and tremble."
2. He who confesses and forsakes his sins shall find compassion (mercy)
The subject
in the second member of the proverb is that genuine confession which stands
opposed to the covering of sin. It tells us what such confession is, and
what it obtains. Reformation is the test of its character, and pardon its
blessed result. There is a relation of a close and interesting kind between
confessing and forsaking sin. Confession is false, unless the confessed sin
be also forsaken; and actual amendment is unsound at heart, unless the
forsaken sin be also confessed. Neither can stand alone. They must lean on
each other.
Confession is made to Him against whom the sin has been committed. All sin
is sin against God; to God therefore confession of all sin should be made.
Some acts offend also a brother; and in these cases confession should be
made also to him.
The confessional system of Rome is false from the foundation . It
blasphemously puts a man in the place of God . Its roots are rotten, and its
branches cannot bear fruits of righteousness. Instead of securing that the
sin confessed shall be forsaken, its natural tendency and common effect is
to prepare the way for repetition. It is like a merchant's monthly
clearance, leaving the room empty for another set of accommodation bills, to
be cleared out in turn when the next month is done. So violently did this
abuse outrage even men's natural sense of right, that it became the hinge on
which, in its earliest stage, the Lutheran Reformation turned .
True confession is made to God . The human spirit must come into direct
contact with the Divine. The Father of our spirits permits the child to
approach himself on such an errand: and the offspring man has faculties
fitted for converse with God a spirit.
When confession is real, it is complete. The same conviction which shows a
sinner that he ought to confess.. shows him that he ought to confess all. If
it is not a confession of all, it is not confession. It is the old trick of
covering the sin. When the spirit of adoption is attained, the confesser,
with the simplicity of a little child, gives the keys of his heart to God,
and welcomes the Omniscient Searcher into all its secret chambers.
True confession will produce actual
forsaking of sin, as a living root sends up branches, spreads out blossoms,
and nourishes fruit. If a son far separated in residence, and long alienated
in heart, relent at length and humbly invite his father to forgive and visit
him: and if evil men and evil works find harbor still in the son's
dwelling, before the father's visit the place will be purged of its
disreputable occupants. If the son is still wedded to these companions and
these pursuits, he will not sincerely invite his father to come in; if he
really desires that his father should come in, he will at the same moment
and under the same impulse drive out the offenders. It is thus that true
confession to God, in the nature of the thing, carries with it an
abandonment of the sins confessed; and if the sins confessed are not
effectively abandoned, the confession has been a lie. If the persons and
things that displeased the father are not dismissed, the son, •whatever he
may have said, did not actually desire that the father should visit and
inspect his dwelling.
There is also a relation between making confession of sin and obtaining
mercy from God. Sin is confessed, forsaken, forgiven; so lie the links of
this short chain. When sin is cast out of the heart, it neither works any
more as a ruling power in the man's members, nor lies as condemning guilt in
the book of God. It is sin hidden, and so made still the object of your
choice, that has power either to pollute or destroy. Sin cast forth from the
heart is harmless. It cannot then pollute the life; and it will not then
remain an element of treasured wrath. Similar facts and laws may be found in
nature. Some substances which on the surface of the earth cannot hurt a
child, may, if pent up within the earth, rend the mountains or engulf a
city.
If any one fear lest this representation should rob God of his glory, and
ascribe the initiative to man, let him look again, and look more narrowly
into the process.
First of all, the confession of the sinner did not provide the mercy of God.
That mercy was complete before he confessed his sins, before he committed
the sins which he confesses. First and last the mercy is divine. It is the
Father's love; Christ's sacrifice; the Spirit's ministry. It was finished
when Messiah died. Bought by the blood of the Lamb slain from the foundation
of the world, it was waiting in full free offer when first man's need began.
The penitence of sinners did not make God gracious. His mercy is all his
own, and his glory he will not give to another.
Further: the confession and reformation of sinners did not open in the
treasured fountain of mercy a channel which was formerly shut. Before the
man confessed, not only was the fountain full, but the stream was flowing.
It was beating on the door of his closed heart. It ran waste because he shut
it out; but all the work of grace was done by God, and all the glory of
grace due to God, before that callous nature opened to receive it. When at
la.st the barrier gave way, mercy flowed in; but the man's confession
neither made the mercy in its upper spring, nor charged therewith the
channels which unite the earth to heaven.
But, once more and chiefly, confession, so far from being the cause, is the
effect of divine mercy. You see on the surface of the word here that
confession obtained mercy; but you must look beneath and learn what produced
confession. It was mercy. The promise is, " Whoever confesses and forsakes
his sins shall have mercy." That promise was in substance made before any
sinner confessed, otherwise there never would have been on earth any
confession of sin. That promise has power. It touches a sinner while he is
dead, and hard, and still as a stone—it touches and moves him. It touches
his heart, and makes it flow down like water in confession; it touches his
life, and leads him into the paths of righteousness. Had there been no such
gracious offer from God, there would have been no such submissive surrender
by man.
This is a circle, you say. The sinner who confessed obtained mercy, and that
very mercy caused the sinner to confess. So it is; and it is like God. All
the worlds are globes, and all their paths are circles. His dispensations
circulate. All good comes forth from himself, and all glory returns to
himself. His mercy displayed, broke the stony heart, and caused the
confession to flow; the confession flowing, opened the way for mercy to
enter. If I have not a broken, contrite heart, God's mercy will never be
mine; but if God had not manifested his mercy in Christ, infinite and free,
I could never have a broken, contrite heart.
This principle may be seen reflected from the darkest event which has yet
sprung from the war in India. Some hundreds of British men and women with
their children were shut up within a hastily reared and imperfect
fortification at Cawnpore. A numerous enemy swept round their crazy fort,
and cut off all hope of escape. When heat and hunger had well-nigh done his
work for him, the insurgent chief approached and offered terms to the
enfeebled garrison. They surrendered on the heathen's promise, confirmed by
his oath, that they should all be permitted to depart in safety to their
friends. The promise was cruelly broken, and the broken promise has wrung
the nation's heart and nerved her soldiers' arms; but the promise produced
the surrender. The promise of life, when trusted, had power to open those
gates, which the enemy could not have forced, as long as a living defendant
stood within. Another garrison in a neighboring city were surrounded
afterwards in a similar manner by the same faithless foe; but they have not
opened their gates, and certainly never will. No promise is held out to
them, at least no promise in which they will confide. They will trust no
white flag held up by those bloody hands. They will fight in hope as long as
they can, and when hope dies, they will fight in despair; but fight they
will to the uttermost and to the end.
So would sinners fight against an angry God, if He did not promise free
pardon, or if they did not trust the promise made. It is the promise of life
that makes the dying open their gates.
When we were unjustly suspecting the true God, as our countrymen justly
suspected the heathen chief,— when we, like stupid children, were refusing
to trust in redeeming love,—Jesus, who came to show us the Father, taught
us, as they teach little children, by a picture. The picture is the prodigal
son. We are all familiar with the scene. Its features, great and small, are
graven on our memories from our earliest childhood, and maintain their place
even to old age.
In upon the callous heart of the worn-out and weary profligate, when his
pleasures were palling and his flesh was pining away from his bones,—in upon
his dry, desolate heart darted the memory of a father's love; down into the
depths of that long alienated spirit sank the conviction that his father's
fondness was still unchanged. That power overcame: he said, " I will arise
and go to my father:" he arose and went. These are the objects that loom
dimly in the back-ground; but look!—hush! These figures full in the
fore-ground,—who are these? Many false and foolish things are said of
canvass paintings; but this picture, which Jesus gave in his word, of the
Father's mercy winning a wanderer back,—of a wanderer so won, making full,
frank confession of his sin, and getting instant free forgiveness,—this is
the picture for me. See the figures! They move! they move! The Father ran
and fell upon his neck and kissed him ; and he, the worthless, lay upon the
Father's bosom. It is all over: on this side there is no upbraiding, on that
side no distrust.
A simple-minded disciple once said to Jesus, "Lord, show us the Father, and
it suffices us." What that good man desired to see, surely our eyes have
seen. God, as Jesus shows Him to us,—"God is love." (Laws
from heaven for life on earth)
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